What should I do if I am too infatuated with him Everyone help me, I am very distressed

Well, I feel the same way, I'll teach you, you'd better divert your attention, for example: [pondering the lottery every day, playing new online games with friends to divert your attention, my personal experience] Do you understand? Don't let him feel like he really can't stand it without you, so he'll "take" you, you know?

I'm from here.

To be honest, I feel similar when I see what you say.

My boyfriend is not very busy, but he is also a person who loves free space. He doesn't want to be disturbed a lot of the time, even if it's me. Call him, and he will sometimes say that I want to watch TV, and I'll call you later.

He also doesn't like to go to my friend's activities and rarely takes me to his friend's ......

But to tell you, you are better than me, at least he is willing to marry you, and my boyfriend also said that he has a fear of marriage. The main thing is that when someone is around him, he can't sleep well, and when he is alone, he will not wake up often at night.

I think you have to find some sustenance, and I will also find sustenance, such as finding a girlfriend for dinner or something, or you might as well play with some boys, it doesn't matter, don't do anything sorry for your boyfriend. He knows you're nervous when you're playing with other boys

I can't say if my boyfriend likes me very much, so I can't say what your boyfriend does to you. A man is a freedom-loving animal, and sometimes he may want to indulge in it. You try to be lighter, really, be kind to yourself, don't do everything for him, but also make yourself uncomfortable for him who doesn't appreciate it.

Your whole world is him now, so you have to let go of your world and find other happiness.

I guess it's the first time you've been in a relationship

It's normal, and if I mean, if there's a second time, you won't be like this, and I hope your boyfriend is good to you

Otherwise, you'll be miserable.

It's going to be very, very sad.

I've had a similar experience with you.

It's the kind that cares a lot.

But I'm breaking up with him now.

It's been more than a year

I still miss him very much, though.

There is no way to forget, I hope you can be happy

Like is to pay sincerely, take care of each other, instead of sticking together all day long, two people together of course to live a happier life, you can't be happy like this, love can be a condiment, but only love is not enough, you must learn how to love people, don't suspect that he doesn't love you because of a little thing, give each other some space, so that you will get along more easily, more harmonious.

I can understand your feelings, because I have met a man who is not worthy of my love, but I am also very infatuated with him, and I can only slowly reduce my love for him.

Since you bothered with this question, it means that he is not worth it, and you are obsessed, maybe you should give up, or maybe you should fight for it, depending on what kind of relationship you have now...

The longest cold war, he fights ** every day, which means that you still care about what you want to open, maybe he is really busy.

However, I think that no matter how busy a man is, he should find time to spend time with his beloved, and I think he may not be able to do this.

You can also try to do what you love to do and think more about your future and dreams so that you don't feel empty.

I was the same as you before, and as a result, my boyfriend broke up with me.

You must understand that there is a problem that only you can make happy! Don't put a person at the center of your life, so that you won't be happy whether you love her or not. I understand your mood very well at the moment, but you can only bear it when you let it go.

If you can't let go of this little thing, what if you encounter greater difficulties in the future, I feel that no matter what it is, it is a process, and every experience is the wealth of your life. Know how to give up and learn to choose. Hope it helps you buddy.

Give up, buddy, there's no grass anywhere in the world.

After a long time, she becomes your memory, and when it's really just a memory, you will find that everything is gone.

If love is not there, let it go. Barely being together only makes it more painful.

You must know that the results of a long-distance relationship are very small, so you should find a girl to love by your side.

Time can break through everything

Your classmates do. My personal suggestion is still you, take the time for the two of you to communicate calmly, of course, it must be effective communication, you explain to her, if she still can't understand and accept, then you can deceive her in good faith, you don't like that boy. If it still doesn't work, I'm thinking of other ways.

Dear, may I ask, the relationship between the two of you is average, why is she so enthusiastic to help you ask questions?

She guessed, curious! Playful! And with her privately!

Let's talk! Explain your heart! It's a friend who shouldn't be doing that!

If! She won't listen, just let her go! Now you can't hold the fire in the paper!

Everything goes with the flow! If you know, you'll know! Besides, it's not a boy in the same class, so it won't be so embarrassing!

Besides, I like a person! It's a normal thing!

After all, you are in high school, and you have finally survived junior high school, do you have to give up the opportunity to study hard in high school? Don't worry, don't worry, I'm sure your mind will understand what I mean. It's not a bad thing for a girl to revolve around a boy.

You have to believe in your own beauty, and at the same time hope that you will not be fooled by love for a while. Now the love of high school students, you are a high school life, this so-called love is very irrational, really, believe me. Don't be curious, college is the best place to love.

You have to keep your distance from these boys now, you can ask them if they have any questions, but don't be so close, and don't say yes to asking you out. Distancing between boys and girls is required. And if you play too close to a guy, it will make other girls jealous, in short, I recommend you:

Keep an appropriate distance.

1. When a girl reaches your age, she will naturally pay attention to her appearance, especially if you are a class flower, so she will invisibly put pressure on herself: you must dress up more beautiful than others, otherwise others will not know what to say about me. Just relax, since you are a class flower, it means that you have more charm than others, even if you don't spend time dressing up, you can outperform a lot of girls just by being born beautiful.

So you don't have to pay so much attention to your appearance, just focus on your studies The next time you can't help but think about your appearance, tell yourself: "I'm beautiful enough, don't care too much.""

2. The boy's problem: flies don't bite seamless eggs. Maybe my analogy is not very good, I mean that if the girls can focus on their studies, those boys will naturally give up harassing you over time.

So this aspect of the trouble is only temporary, if you can stand firm and always focus on your studies, the boys will understand your feelings.

3. Remember to have a good relationship with girls. Girls are bound to be jealous of the class flowers, and if you can't handle the relationship with them, it may be against you.

They don't see you as a friend, they just think it's fun, ignore them, talk to the teacher if necessary, and you can be completely unaffected by him, because you still care, so you want to dress up, and you don't care, and since you want to learn, you shouldn't be disturbed, so you just have to do a good job yourself, and they'll walk away in a good way.

It's best to spread some words that you are not interested in having a boyfriend, or raise the threshold yourself, and there will be a lot fewer people, such as: If you don't study well, don't look for me! Don't look for me out of town!

Of course, it's a matter of equity.

Hope it works for you, knowing that it won't be so troublesome for a short time.

Hehe, dealing with this kind of relationship is a technical job, I suggest you communicate with your parents, I don't know what kind of girl you are? Different personalities deal with it differently. Hehe!

You are in high school, it is normal to pay attention to your appearance, you don't have to worry, if it is because of the disturbance of others to feel annoying, please let them know your own inner thoughts, such as asking them out one by one alone, to understand, early love is not helpful to study, it is not possible to persuade yourself, then wronged yourself, tell them, I like good grades, this will make them put most of their energy into studying, this is on the basis of they really like you, This naturally doesn't bother you much, but you just need to remember your task, smile and watch the flowers bloom and fall in front of the door, and don't listen to things outside the window, which is also the shaping and improvement of your own willpower, believe in you, come on!!

I suggest that you face them properly, and if they are still like this, you should tell them that the main thing now is to study, and if they still don't listen, tell the teacher, let the teacher tell them secretly, and don't name them, for example, give an example, and suggest that they don't want to be like this.

Hello, everyone has a love for beauty. It's not your fault or theirs that you are outstanding. Knowing that you are a school student, it is recommended that you try to dress as traditional as possible and not be too avant-garde. I wish you progress in your studies and a happy life!

It's up to you to do these things! Do you think you should go? After all, it's about your own happiness! What others say can't decide what you think, so trust yourself fully, I'm here to cheer you on.

But in the end, I came out as a friend.

You're still young after all.

Don't go, but you can buy some gifts for your partner to send, and you will avoid them when the gifts arrive.

No way? It's not even 18 yet??? Is there any mistake???

Go, why don't you go! You're not young, if you were going to be a mother in the old society, what were you afraid of?

If your parents don't agree, then there must be their reasons, after all, you are not yet 18 years old, listen to your parents' opinions, they all love you, and when you see his parents, you are not in a hurry, talk to him about the situation, I believe he will understand.

If the subject is already engaged, you can go and meet the elders.

Don't go

There will be more opportunities like this in the future, why should you have to be at his sister's wedding, how can his parents have time to care about you.

Leaving your parents who have raised you for decades is unfilial; It is ruthless to abandon the wife who bore you children; Everyone is troubled, but as a person, we have to fulfill our responsibilities as a child, a husband, and a father. Don't leave because of your cowardice, causing a miserable home. Life is only a few decades, and it is gone in the blink of an eye, and fate is hungry.

It's not a big problem.

You can use motherwort powder.

Regulates menstrual disorders.

I was under a lot of pressure at work for a while.

Menstruation was stopped for a while. Later, I took motherwort powder.

It's good that pharmacies have to sell.