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Everyone's values are different! Your boyfriend's stinginess doesn't mean that he loves you or not, it's just that his values are like this, if you can accept it, continue, and if you feel wronged, you will find another man with similar values (men have to spend a lot of money for the woman they love), which is understandable! In short, try to find out what you want.
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Think about it yourself and weigh the advantages and disadvantages to make your choice, there is nothing absolutely stingy, everyone's way of thinking is different, and the way of thinking is related to the background of growth!
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Your question is very good, I personally think I am a "stingy man", but all my friends around me say that I am a person who can live, do you understand? No one said I was stingy, I admit that I lent me 600 yuan, I didn't ask for any IOU, you wrote so much, think about it, do you like him? That's enough.
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You said so much, why don't you say that you decided to break up with him? What is the cause of stinginess? The reason for the family will be great, the society is realistic and cruel, and you need to work hard for love.
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You. Why don't you lend him money? Did he spend your money? He owes you something or whatever.
Money is the fruit of a person's labor, and it is already very good to be willing to buy you things and lend you money.
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I hate men like that! I don't know what to do with 1
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The man's behavior may be due to his different views and values towards his friends and women. Perhaps he thinks that the relationship between friends is based on common interests, mutual support, and life experiences, so he is willing to be generous to his friends to show his respect and gratitude.
However, there may be some traditional beliefs or past experiences that lead him to have a conservative or cautious attitude towards women. These attitudes may manifest as being petty or not generous enough towards women. This situation may require further exploration and understanding of his personal experiences and values.
In addition, there may be other reasons, such as the fact that the man may have different expectations and needs for friends and women, or may have financial problems or personal budget constraints that cause him to be only generous to his friends and not equally generous to women.
In conclusion, there can be a variety of reasons for this man's behavior, and further understanding of his personal experiences and values is needed to make a more accurate analysis.
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I know that many men are generous outside, because men care about face. is stingy with women, because the relationship with you is extraordinary, and there is money, so there is no need for him to earn a pure destruction in front of you, whoever has money is out of it, you are not bad for money, I can't think of anything you don't have? I'm afraid you're not rare in those things, so I didn't buy you a gift or anything.
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Because this man knows that this woman likes him very much and is willing to pay for him, including money and youth, so she naturally doesn't care about eating her.
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Friend, it means that this man eats soft rice. In addition, the woman is not beautiful, and she is talking about this man.
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Each of us hopes that we can have a happy love, and we hope that our lover can be perfect and free from the lack of state. However, in real life, it is inevitable that your lover will have such and such shortcomings and mistakes, and how you should treat your lover's shortcomings and mistakes at this time has become the key to whether the relationship between the two parties can maintain long-term stability. ......For some girls, in the process of dating their boyfriend, they find that he is a little scheming in terms of finance, and then they need to look at this problem correctly to ensure that they can achieve true happiness.
Specifically, it includes love is the most important bond to maintain the relationship between couples, the boyfriend is a good habit to be thrifty and should be supported, and if the boyfriend is too stingy, it is really not suitable for dating.
1. Love is the most important bond to maintain the relationship between couples. This is the focus of the girls.
For couples, the most important feeling between each other is love. This is the most important bond to maintain the relationship between each other, and it is also the most important relationship to be valued during a relationship. ......Therefore, as long as lovers love each other deeply, no factor can affect two people to be together and never separate.
2. It is a good habit to be diligent and thrifty, and girls should support their boyfriends.
For a person, having the habit of thrift is a very good thing, which is not only commendable, but also worth promoting. ......Therefore, if her boyfriend is a little calculating in terms of economic conditions, if it is a concrete embodiment of thrift, girls should not only not break up, but also cherish their boyfriends.
3. If you are stingy to the extent of being stingy, it is indeed not suitable for each other to socialize.
There are two sides to everything, and at a certain point, the situation is reversed. ......It is a good habit to be thrifty in terms of economic conditions, but if you reach the level of stinginess, it is very bad. It can even be said that stinginess is a very serious shortcoming, once a person has this shortcoming, it means that his quality is very poor, and such a person is not worth continuing to associate with.
Therefore, for girls, if they find that their boyfriend is such a person.
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Yes and no. Because I'm a girl, I also like to look good, and the young lady will even share it with my boyfriend, "Wow, this girl looks so good", completely for the purpose of sharing. When my boyfriend happens to meet the type he likes, he agrees with it, and I'm very happy.
But! If one day the two of them have a good conversation, and he suddenly sends me a white-skinned, beautiful and long-legged **, telling me that this is good-looking, I will be angry. Suddenly it's not particularly angry, it's a little bit angry, really a little bit.
I wonder if he doesn't like my type of girl.
I don't think the problem is stinginess. Anger is due to a sense of security and self-esteem. The long-distance relationship itself is not secure enough, not to mention the beauties who pay attention to such **.
It can't be said that he is not dedicated to your feelings, after all, he can't touch these beauties. What you're worried about is that his heart is still alive, what if he meets such a beauty?
If that happens, it's simpler, isn't it? Touchstone. You don't have to worry about it so much. As for whether this is a must-have for men, I think it's an exaggeration, it is true that there is a preference for beautiful people of the opposite sex, but it is not in any case that such a concern is given.
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I think he may not love you enough or that he has a different attitude towards the cost of a couple.
Your boyfriend is very generous to his friends, which means that he is not without financial conditions, but he is the only one who is stingy with you, and this kind of thing will feel wrong to anyone. If a man loves his girlfriend very much, what will cause him to pick on his girlfriend?
Take myself as an example, my boyfriend in Yu Zhongzhong is okay, and he didn't say that he was very good, but he was very good to me. I don't feel distressed when I spend money. Basically, when we go out to eat, whoever brings the money buys it, and there is no specific person who pays the bill, which is very casual.
Usually, when I go out to travel and play, the two of us pay together, and he will buy me some extra gifts. Personally, I think this is a relatively normal state of spending between couples.
I don't know how stingy your boyfriend is with you, but you need to think about it yourself. If he doesn't want to spend any money on you, and he can't buy anything, I suggest you think about the meaning of this relationship. Does he not care about you at all?
So I'm stingy with even a little money, and I'm not willing to give it to you. There are a lot of such things in real life, most of which are because the man is just playing with the woman.
Another possible reason is his attitude towards spending money between boyfriends and girlfriends. If you still have feelings for him and feel that he is not only stingy, but also has a good attitude towards you, you can also talk to him. Ask him why, since the two of them have a problem, they should ask openly and honestly as soon as possible, so as to solve it as soon as possible.
Let's see if he thinks that he can't have a lot of financial investment in his girlfriend before he gets married, there are such people. They feel that boyfriends and girlfriends should be 1v1 and spend all kinds of money. After asking clearly, you can make a judgment and decide, how is this relationship going to be, and can you accept that this situation will continue forever.
That's all for me, I hope it helps.
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Boys and girls have to spend money, but they have to spend it moderately, and it's not good to waste it too much
Boys' stinginess towards girls' friendships may be related to the family environment or social education at an early age. For example, children who live poorly at home will be relatively economical in terms of money, and psychologically may think that chasing a girl, it is really necessary to choose a more affordable and attentive gift, so that the girl can feel her sincerity, and from the perspective of the girl, she feels that the boy is too stingy.
To put it another way, if a boy is too stingy with a girl, he may think that the girl is not worth doing it himself, so he wants to save money, trouble, and so on.
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Let him cut his love, buy clothes today, buy jewelry and cosmetics tomorrow.
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If he's stingy, you're mad at him!
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Break up with him, and immediately be atmospheric.
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