Falling in love with buddy s former girlfriend? May I?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-03
43 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Of course you can, it's better not to be good. Then you and your buddy will break up!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It doesn't matter if you're already in love.

    If you say no, can you not love?

    And since it's a former girlfriend, I'm sure your brother won't mind, maybe the three of them can be friends in the future. Men have to think about it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It is said that love is inseparable from each other, but it will always be embarrassing for everyone to come out to play.

    And your buddy already knows her very well, and if she says something to you in front of you, it will definitely make you feel different about her, and a lot of things have happened to her and your buddy, so if you have any problems in the future, you will definitely say something when you get into a fight, so it's better not to do it from a personal standpoint.

    It's okay to be nice to her silently.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Yes, your friend and her affairs are in the past.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Yes, why not.

    Go after it.

    I'm rooting for you buddy.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    What's not to do, love is bold to love, but first ask your buddy how the girl is.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Yes ,!

    Love is inherently selfish!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's not good, it's awkward to meet often in the future!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you love her, chase her, those who have been married have been abducted by their brothers, you are nothing.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If it's really a buddy, forget it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I'm rooting for you, buddy, let's both work together to see who succeeds first, hehe. I'm in a similar situation to you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Damn, a friend's wife can't be "bullied", haven't you heard of it? Dude is the most disgusted with such people, and he looks down on such people the most!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Why don't you pick what others don't want?

    Don't give up an entire forest for a tree.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Someone else's leftovers.

    You want it too. There are many good women.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Summary. Hello, glad for your question. <>

    Falling in love with my brother's ex-girlfriend, I don't think it's a wise choice, because after you fall in love with the other party, you must have more or less contact with each other, and the other party will know sooner or later that you have the other party's ex-girlfriend in love, in fact, even if the other party doesn't think much about it, he will try to avoid contact with you in the future, because he knows that you are his ex-girlfriend next to him, so it will be embarrassing for both parties, so I think it's best for us not to do such a thing.

    Falling in love with my brother's ex-girlfriend.

    Hello, glad for your question. <>

    Falling in love with my brother's ex-girlfriend, I don't think it's a wise choice, because after you fall in love with the other party, you must have more or less contact with each other, and the other party will know sooner or later that you have the other party's ex-girlfriend in love, in fact, even if the other party doesn't think much about it, he will try to avoid contact with you in the future, because he knows that you are his ex-girlfriend next to him, so it will be embarrassing for both parties, so I think it's best for us not to do such a thing.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Your best buddy has broken up with his girlfriend, everyone is single, you can actually choose to pursue it, but before you pursue, it's best to ask your buddy's opinionAfter all, it's still his ex-girlfriend, if he still has a mentality that he can't let go, I suggest you still suppress your emotions, sometimes you still have to consider your friends' thoughts, don't think about pursuing them if you like them.

    But most boys don't care too much about these things, if you break up, you choose to pursue, maybe your good buddies will bless you, but there is one thing you may hit a wall, that is, the girl should not be able to get over this hurdle,If you pursue her, she knows that you are her ex's good buddy, and she will probably reject you directly, after all, she has been in love with your buddy, and it always feels strange if she chooses to be with you.

    I was courted by my friend's ex-boyfriend before, the two of them have been broken up for more than two years, and they don't have any feelings for each other anymore, and they had dinner together once before before before I found out that he was my friend's exBecause they talked for too short, and I hadn't seen what my friend's ex looked like, after he chose to pursue me, I asked my friend, but my friend didn't care, in fact, she felt quite strange in her heart.

    I chose to reject him later.,I always feel that two good friends talked about the same person.,It's really strange.,Anyway, if you don't care.,You should be brave enough to pursue it.,After all, it's the person you like.,Maybe you can still achieve a positive result.,If your good buddy is uncomfortable in his heart.,You better let it go first.。

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You ask this question, are you worried that it will affect your relationship with Fa Xiao? I'm afraid I won't be able to be a brother, so I'm asking the right question.

    I'm afraid that I won't even be able to be a brother in the future.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you really like your good buddy's ex-girlfriend like this, it depends on whether she likes you or not, if you are both more in love with each other, then in this case after you are together, it is best to make it clear to your good buddies that this situation is that they are together after they broke up, then at this time many people will choose to accept it, if you twist and pinch it, many will have problems, it is better to make it clear, Because it's easy to suspect that you are them, there are some emotions in it, so this kind of good buddy may become enemies in the end.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I think this is more normal, generally speaking, it may be more normal for you to like your good friend's ex-girlfriend, because after all, it's his ex-girlfriend, so what he says must have nothing to do with what he says now, so it's more normal to say that you like his ex-girlfriend, after all, it's an ex-girlfriend, and the ex-girlfriend's words may mean that it has nothing to do with him now, so it's more normal to say that you like your good buddy's ex-girlfriend. A daughter-in-law is just saying a behavior, maybe the two of them like each other, and I'm more normal, because after all, it's an open era, right? So after all, it's normal for the two of them to like each other.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Then be brave enough to chase it, I don't think it's a fault, after all, they have broken up.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    After all, it's an ex-girlfriend, and it's not a current girlfriend, what's so difficult, pursue it boldly.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If that's the case, then be brave enough to pursue it and fly away in the future.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Let's talk to a good buddy first, it's definitely not good if you don't talk about it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Then you can be brave enough to chase after it, and you can say hello to your buddies in advance.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's all ex-girlfriends, so there's no problem.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Then just talk to the good buddy and see what he means.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    For young people, in fact, this situation is not uncommon, the so-called "fair lady, gentleman is good", when you meet an excellent and beautiful girl, it is understandable that the boy will be tempted, but you have to be clear about the identity of this girl, is your good friend's girlfriend, here involves an ethical and moral issue. From an objective point of view, your emotions are burdened with a lot of pressure, and you are not blessed and optimisticBut if you feel that the other party is the only person you want to identify, and the girl feels the same way about you, and you are inseparable from each other, then you have to take the initiative to confess and minimize the harm to your friends.

    In this relationship, the most important thing is a matter of principle, that is, etiquette, righteousness and shame in love, in fact, it is wrong for you to have such an ideaIf your idea is only in the embryonic stage, I hope you can even strangle it in the cradle, because the practice of digging the wall in love is indeed very despised, and from the perspective of boys, life must be done righteously, fairly, and pay attention to brotherly righteousness, so that your life is worthy of your heart.

    If you are really willing to exchange buddy friendship for the love in your heart, then this may also become a stain on your life, at least you will never be able to raise your head in front of your buddy, and even if you really succeed in digging the wall, there is no guarantee that the two of you are true love, you can stay together for life, if you also break up, you lose love, and you also lose your brother, it is really worth the loss, everyone is weighing the pros and cons of life, such a price and risk is actually very big.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    This kind of thing is indeed very embarrassing, but you must pay attention, do you want friendship or love? If you want to think about love, then betray your buddy and chase that girl.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You have this taste, you have to be sensible. Don't blindly like others, it's irresponsible to yourself and others.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I advise you not to do stupid things for the sake of impulse, and your friend's wife should not be bullied, you must learn to transfer emotions and find a girlfriend to fill the emotional vacancy.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I think you have to refrain and play with them as little as possible. After all, people have boyfriends, and boyfriends are still your good buddies, and friends are still more important.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Is it okay to have trouble come first and come later? Your buddies are all with their girlfriends, what does it mean if you confess again? Sincerely dismantle?. Take into account your buddy's feelings. A brother is a brother, love is love, two different things.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I think even if I like you, I have to restrain my feelings, after all, it's your brother's girlfriend.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    This is immoral, give up this delusion. You can't take away your friend's wife, you have to straighten out your mind and wipe out this feeling!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Weigh which is more important to you, friendship or love. If you value this brotherhood more, you can only treasure this crush yourself.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    It's said that it's an ex-girlfriend, of course, it's a blessing, after all, it's just an ex-girlfriend.

    Of course, I won't say trash talk like "brothers are like siblings, women are like clothes", but I want to say that it's really not good to have a falling out for a girl or your ex-girlfriend. They didn't do anything wrong, and of course, I know you're going to feel uncomfortable, and you didn't do anything wrong. It can only be said that this is the arrangement of fate!

    Fate is impermanent!

    In fact, I think that after a breakup, it is a very dignified thing to admit that your ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend is very good, on the contrary, I think that those who crusade against your ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend after the breakup are particularly bad, especially shameful, because it will make you look very blind and can't look at people before. That makes me feel very pitiful. So when I meet someone who is unladylike, I never complain to others, which is very uncomfortable, but it is about my dignity.

    So, your brother has a crush on your ex-girlfriend, which proves that your previous vision was very good, and your ex-girlfriend is a good person. And it was after she became your "ex-girlfriend" that your brother fell in love with your ex-girlfriend, so there is no such thing as someone betraying you or cuckolding. This proves that both your brother and your ex-girlfriend have you in their hearts.

    Of course, you can also help your brother chase your ex-girlfriend, which can also make a good story. When you have a girlfriend again, when you talk about your ex-girlfriend, you can happily tell her that you helped your brother catch up with your ex-girlfriend, which can prove that you don't particularly care about your ex-girlfriend, and it can also prove that you and your ex-girlfriend have no relationship, which is very important for maintaining family harmony. It's definitely a win!

    And in this way, your brother may feel sorry for you in his heart, and he will treat you more as a brother and treat you better, so why not. Although it is a bit of a conspiracy theory to say this, it is better to save the last face than to tear your face to find yourself unhappy.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    There is no right or wrong in love, since your brother is in love with your ex-girlfriend, bless them, after all, your ex-girlfriend is already your past tense, it is his freedom for your brother to fall in love with whom, and it is also her freedom for your ex-girlfriend to fall in love, so you can't interfere, you can only choose to bless.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Keep a calm mind, don't stand in their way, don't embarrass your brother.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    If you fall in love, you fall in love....She belongs to you for a while, but not for a lifetime...If you're really good. Will she still want you?

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    I've been in a similar situation recently, but I can't help but say nothing. It's been a few days since I found myself a little upset, but I've become numb to both my ex and my brother. I don't have the right or the need to stop anything.

    In this world, just go your own way and be happy, and you can't care too much about love and hatred...

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    It's okay if you don't love the current one, and if you don't love it, it doesn't mean that you don't allow others to love.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    It's all ex-girlfriends, you still care so wide, and you're already in the past, who are the housekeepers with.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Since it's an ex-girlfriend and they're over, chase you if you like it, don't wait until this girl is chased by someone else later, and regret it.

    One of my best friends fell in love with a good friend's ex-boyfriend, so she boldly got together with the boy, and it happened that the boy also liked her, and the two of them are now very happy.

    Some people will think that this is not the best friend of a scumbag who fell in love with his girlfriend? No, it was this ex-girlfriend who mentioned the breakup and flash marriage first, since she is already married, can't this boy still pursue his own happiness? Is it wrong to pursue the person you like?

    No matter who this person is, the impulse to love can never be suppressed, even if it is the best friend of the ex-girlfriend, she is single, I am single, can't we be together?

    Don't think too complicated about feelings, don't involve too many interpersonal relationships, as long as they are not close relatives, they can get along, after all, love is a great thing that transcends age, transcends identity, and transcends all inequality.

    In short, don't cross the line, don't let the impulse get carried away, even if love surpasses everything, but people live a lifetime, not only love, there are many feelings that we need to maintain in order to live a full life.

    Unless, you ask your brother if he still has feelings for his ex-girlfriend, if you don't care and don't care, then you should act quickly.

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