After four years of love, she broke up with me when she needed to improve herself the most!

My experience is similar to yours, two people don't have a common ideal at the beginning, it's difficult to be together with different paths, and they shouldn't be together in the first place

It's the same as a TV series with plot twists As a psychologist (I'm an expert, not a master): Give you some advice You can take revenge on her in the most cruel way you think can relieve your mental stress You can also choose to be silent and don't know this woman Live your life to find a woman who loves you To be honest, your conditions are not low You can find a woman who is better than her From a personal point of view, you are not smart at all What does 4 years mean It's just time You spent 4 years In the same way, she also wasted 4 years of relationship with you You are equal Is it worth it for a man to be resentful for a lifetime for a woman? You're not even 40 years old, you still have plenty of time, and you're looking for a girl who is more beautiful than her, better than her, and when the time comes, she may be angry with her, what do you think?

The current society is too chaotic to understand the love between men and women. It's too messy.

。。。She's like this, you're so excited that you forget it, and you think it's a nightmare.

Forget it, he doesn't love you anymore and force you to do something, don't think about it, he himself will find someone who loves you and loves you, that's true, you will forget it after a long time, now it's just that you haven't been used to it.

Maybe you are not suitable, but you can love each other for a long time... Forget about it as soon as possible.

The test, it's really useless, I haven't done it for four years, and I was taken away by someone else in two months. When I was with you, maybe I was like that with someone else, I didn't find anything wrong, and I broke up with you to marry someone else. She also changed her mind, there was no need to pay for him.

It's the same as my situation, I still can't let go of each other, it's really painful, I can understand your feelings!

If you don't die, you won't die, live in the moment, and do it and cherish it. What you lose is not necessarily the best, let go of the past and start anew. If she really cares about you, she won't get married and have children in a hurry after just two months of breakup......

Four years? It's better to find someone who wants to marry you than to find someone who only falls in love with yourself! The biggest promise a man can make is, let's get married!

This phenomenon is similar to me! Don't delay yourself! So as not to regret it later! It is highly recommended that you see a psychiatrist! I also saw a psychiatrist to come out of the shadows!

People have a mentality that what they can't get is the best. You and her fell in love and somehow separated, and most of your memories leave good memories with her, so you think she is the best. But she is not necessarily the most suitable person for you, because you have experienced good things with her, not necessarily all of them have experienced quarrels and some unpleasant things, you only see her strengths, and her shortcomings may not be fully revealed in front of you.

And getting along with someone who has been going on for a lifetime can't be beautiful all the time, there are quarrels, there are unpleasantness, and you and her only stay in the beautiful stage of the relationship will end, and you don't see her shortcomings. Like someone Since she is married, just see her happy. Why don't you find you happy?

Let it go, sometimes we have to learn to give up, what do you want to do when everyone is a child's mother?

People even have children, your children are entangled, you are stupid, find a beautiful chat to get married. Don't think about her good, think about her Huai and forget her.

He got married. Don't bother him.

You have no drama, even if you do, it can only be a painful drama for you, let it go, time will dilute everything.

Alas, everything is connected, it is not good to be cheap, and if people leave you, why should it be difficult for themselves.

If you think more about how happy the other person is, you can rest assured that you should live your own life.

Start your life and don't be separated from her. Do you understand.

The child wants to open up and face the reality, there are some who are better than her.

Why bother, why didn't you cherish her if you knew it was like this.

It's that she already has a new love, forget it, life has to go on.

I have to hang myself from a tree.

It's complicated,......Why don't you marry her? Are you poor?

People can make mistakes, but they can't be without principles. Since we have made mistakes, we should bear the price of making mistakes, and some things that violate principles are unforgivable! Only firm heart and move forward!

It's very irresponsible to treat your feelings...

The same is the end of the world... Bitter.

Give it up! People have to look forward.

Is the fall of the leaves the pursuit of the wind or the untenability of the tree?

What is this, my dear?

Romance **- -

What about the problem to be solved?

Give me the name of the book, I want to see what it is!

The boy has learned from previous relationships that even compromising in relationships does not necessarily lead to good results.

After that, he started a new relationship, and the girl he met was at a snack bar he frequented.

The girl came from another city. There is no academic background, and the family is very simple. An only child, both parents are retired at home.

But the girl has a desire for a new life.

And so the story began.

One day the boy felt very tired and lonely after work. But colleagues have their own girlfriends. I rarely go out with them after work.

With that in mind, he went to the snack bar again. I ordered a meal that I eat regularly. I'm going to have dinner and go home to rest.

But as it happened, on this day, the girl asked this guest who was not a stranger. "Why are you so depressed today? The boy opened his conversation.

The boy had thought that he would just deal with her and eat. "Ah, my friends are going on dates today. Huh".

The girl said, "yes, why don't you go with your girlfriend?" "Me. I don't have a girlfriend yet," the boy was a little embarrassed.

yes, then I'll introduce you to one! "Ah, no. "Hey, don't be embarrassed, she's a co-worker with me.

The person is very pretty. And gentle. In this way, I'll give her ** to you, and you can contact her.

By the way, this is my **, if you have anything to contact me" The boy saw that she was so sincere, so he agreed. However, in the boy's heart, he suddenly had an inexplicable good impression of this active girl. The girl, who didn't usually pay much attention, looked at her face carefully.

It was Zhang Junxiu's face. There is a mole next to the left eyebrow. It seems that the eyes are so expressive.

In the evening, the boy's heart, which had lost little hope in affection, rippled again. He didn't call the person the girl introduced. But he mustered up the courage to hit the girl who was working part-time.

The boy directly asked her if she had a boyfriend. I thought to myself that if she refused, she wouldn't be so upset. The world is unpredictable, and the girl did not directly agree to him, but said that she needed to think about it.

A day later, a miracle happened. He agreed to meet the boys. Afterwards.

So easy to fall in love with?

You've been separated for a year, and you miss her, even if you've been together for a short time, and you're really committed to her.

You have been gone for three months, you know how much each other has, you blindly give, how much the other party accepts from you, the two of them are engaged in objects, the first glance is to fall in love, the second is to further communicate with each other by chatting about work and life interests and hobbies, after that, there is a period of understanding, how can the time also be three months. It seems that this girl may not feel suitable to be together after communicating and getting along with you for three months.

You have been separated for a year, if she has a little meaning to you, she knows your love for her, your dedication to her, why don't you come back to you, it means that after communicating with you, she feels that it is not suitable, and she is not worthy of your love for him. She may not like you.

You don't think about her, what she has done to you.

Find someone who loves you and accepts your efforts with all her heart.

You can learn about her current thoughts from her friends**, and you can ask your friends to help test her true thoughts, if not, you can ask her friends to help you meet and explain the whole thing clearly, if you really don't love you anymore, then no matter how you are, it's useless. So try it and it won't work.

Fight for it once as well! Take advantage of the opportunity! If you don't have a chance, work hard and change your mind! Hang out with friends!

Be brave enough to ask her out, otherwise you can only entangle, make it clear to her, she still likes you to continue to be together, and if you don't like it, you will start a new life, there is nothing you can't get by.

If you think about it, tell the other person not to waste time and feelings.

Love and get along is mutual, don't blame yourself! It's good to cherish each other!

Then earn money and give money to kill those money worshippers.

It feels like if you love her and she has always loved you, there is no hurdle that you can't overcome.

It is this kind of love that is always concerned and hard to be interesting. If the love is too bland, some people can't stand the blandness and still have to break up in the end.

You can't bear her, she can't bear you, now you feel tired together, and you feel tormented when you break up, if you break up with her, will you always have her shadow when you see other girls?

Calm down and manage it well, the two of them will be more accommodating to each other when they are together. It's divided like this, but if the two of you still have affection, it's a pity to cut off a fate like this, after all, some people haven't even found someone who loves him.

It can only be said that there will be a gap in my heart. It's impossible to think the same as before.

As long as you really love her and insist on touching her, after all, you gave up on others first.

Irony and recitation of many Danfu shares 2

She is good with others for half a year and then good to you, can you treat her like the original?