Am I unable to let go or am I eager to start another relationship?

I think it's a feeling that you're used to having someone who cares about you and suddenly it's gone, but in fact, everyone will continue to like and fall in love with other people in this life. This is normal. Loneliness and loneliness are relative, think about whether you had this kind of psychology when you were not in love?

I think definitely not. Judging from the fact that you like to watch love idol dramas, you should be the kind of girl who wants to be loved, protected, and dependent. So seeing other people's sweet scenes is naturally touched, you are still young, how to say it?

Wait a few years, maybe you will be more aware of your feelings. I've been in love a few times, hurt others and been hurt by others, and in the end, we will understand why we are? In fact, a girl in this world must find a pillar that can stand in this society in addition to love, and be a woman with a strong heart.

Like now, at an ignorant age, the most that can be talked about in love can only be "practicing love", practicing how to love someone and how to be grateful for the love of others. So I suggest that you organize your inner feelings well, you don't need to rush to start the other end of the relationship, and you don't have to feel that you can't let go and turn back, and move forward!

Typical pubertal findings. You're too young. There are some things that you shouldn't be thinking about at your age.

Just say you're in school right now. I should be in high school at the age of 17. Why don't you put your experience on learning.

I think your final thoughts are good. It's about falling in love again in college. Universities are the middle layer of schools and society.

There can be a lot of good guys waiting for you.

Then don't fall in love, since you can't let go of anything, how can you have a good start.

You can't let go of him, so I suggest you don't try to start a new relationship. There are several reasons for this.

1. You can't let go of your ex-boyfriend, which proves that you still love him in your heart, and if you try a new relationship, you just use him as your ex-boyfriend's spare tire.

2. I can't let go of my ex-boyfriend in my heart, and in my new relationship, I will often compare my current boyfriend with my ex-boyfriend, not only can I not see the advantages of my current boyfriend, but I also feel that my current boyfriend is not as good as my ex-boyfriend everywhere, and the two of them will quarrel because of this, and the relationship will not last long.

3. If you can't forget your ex-boyfriend and have new feelings, it's like eating in a bowl and thinking about what is in the pot. Not only is it unfair to the current boyfriend, but it also hurts each other's feelings.

So, if you still have feelings for your ex-boyfriend and can't let go of him, then go to your ex-boyfriend and have a good talk, find out the problems that exist between the two people and solve them together, and then try to see if they can still be together.

If two people do have problems that cannot be solved, or your ex-boyfriend no longer loves you at all and doesn't want to be with you anymore, you must adjust your mentality, recognize the facts, and stop being entangled, because love is forced to come, and only two-way love is perfect. So let go when it's time to let go, so that you have a spare hand to grab new love.

Frequent quarrels show that there are too many differences in life, it is indeed not easy to let go of a person, but having a person in your heart and being with this person are two different things, there is a person in your heart who is happy, he is happy and happy, and you will be the same, and he is uncomfortable and disappointed, and you will be the same. But it's not the same when you're together, two people will interact more, there will be more different places, and when there are more different points to a certain extent, there will be outbreaks and quarrels, and such couples are not suitable for being together.

In this case of yours, it is recommended to let go and start the relationship again to find happiness that truly belongs to you. If you don't put it down, the two of you will still be in this kind of separation and combination, adding friends today, and blocking tomorrow, without a head.

Maybe many people will tell you, you have a good chat, it's good to get rid of your bad habits, it's not easy to be emotional, it's a pity to separate, but how can your bad problems be so easy to change, not to mention, you don't necessarily have only one bad problem, now it's still both sides, you don't like it, I don't like you, both of you have to change, it's even more difficult.

If you are both accommodating and have a strong perseverance to get rid of your bad habits, you can try to be together again, but for human reasons, and your description, this is not very likely.

So you can try to let go, start a new relationship, just put this boyfriend of yours in a small corner of your heart, and think about it once in a while, don't be with him.

You can try to start other relationships, but once you start to have a relationship with someone else, even if you can't let go of him in your heart, you can't have anything to do with him anymore, take your current situation seriously, maybe slowly you can learn to let go.

If like Li Jia said, you are already familiar with each other, and you can't let go of him, but this is also not okay, after all, the two of you can no longer be together. So you should try to have another relationship, it's normal, although the two of you are no longer together, but if you still want to be together, it's impossible, the two have broken up for so long, you should have your own relationship, give up the previous relationship.

Since you've worked hard, you can't get together, and you can't force yourself, it's time to let go and find your other half.

You can try to accept a new relationship, so that you can forget about him and start a new life.

I think this kind of thing depends on whether there is a result or not, and many times it doesn't mean that it sticks to it, it's right or wrong. But you always have to take responsibility for your own life, if it doesn't work out, if you keep going, what will you get in the end? Is it air?

Personally, I suggest that you should not try other feelings, and you have not let go of it, let alone find a new love.

Face up to your feelings and start when you decide to start.