How did you start a relationship?

We started online dating in high school, he was in Wuhan and I was in Xiangtan, and I agreed to be admitted to the university in the same city, I was admitted to Normal University, he was in Nanda, and finally wanted to meet, I was very excited, I bought new clothes, high heels, put on light makeup, and my heartbeat was very fast after seeing him, as handsome as **, he said that I myself was better looking than **, he was very distressed when I wore high heels, and carried me all the way. We were together for 7 years from high school to college, and after graduation we got married.

The most unforgettable first love, the person I liked in junior high school, was ignorant at first, but I just felt that he was good to you, cared about you, accompanied you, teased you, and slowly liked him, and then they were together in a daze. It's over high school, I went to high school, he went to vocational school, we see each other less, my study pressure is great, my mood swings are so big, we often quarrel, most of the time is divided by studying, slowly the relationship is gone, we end up like this.

When I was at school, I liked my table mates, and I often swapped pens and pencils. He loves to joke, he has a lot of humor, and he likes to do exaggerated actions to amuse you. Later, I moved and transferred to another school.

The most memorable romance began in my confession and ended when I proposed to break up. I know how things are going, and I'm very happy about it. I also wish the first person I like will always be happy, always happy, and always free.

When I repeated a grade in the third year of junior high school, I felt that the whole world was shrouded in gloom. I don't want to have too much intersection with people, and although I smile and smile on the surface when I walk with others, my thoughts have already flown to the sky, like a soulless shell. The day I met her, it was a Monday after school started, and the class had not yet recognized her and did not know her name.

When he entered the class, he met her who came out in a hurry, and the two of them collided together. Then I heard her say "I'm sorry" softly. The moment she looked up, her fair face and delicate mouth ......I saw her bright eyes through her black-rimmed glasses.

In an instant, the sun sprinkled in his heart, dissipating the haze that had accumulated deep in his heart, and his face was blushing. That's right, that's how I met my first love. To this day, I still feel so lucky to have met him!

According to the matchmaker, the parents arranged it, and the run-in period was three years. It's been almost 40 years now, and the relationship is good, so I've found the right person. Is it over! It's over when you're old!

I've been on no less than twenty blind dates. Every time it ends in failure, otherwise I wouldn't have met her who makes me happy every day. We are currently engaged and can't live together.

Then coquettish. It's really sweet and happy, hehehe.

1.Love at first sight.

It's not mutual, it's not male to female, or female to male. Then one of them launches an obvious invitation offensive against the other, and then the other party more or less gives the opportunity to contact and get to know each other, and then stay together.

Love at first sight can happen with more chances and probabilities needed:

1) Men and women are either each other, or one is the other's dish, and there is a sense of familiarity and the impulse to get close to the story;

2) There is no limit to the occasion. It can be on the street, and the profession can be different, mainly because one of the parties has the ability to catch people's attention and be seen in the crowd. This has relatively high requirements for the appearance of both parties, or at least unilaterally.

2.Love over time.

It requires certain occasion conditions (suitable occupation or location, long-term relationship), internal conditions (both parties have similar intrinsic value orientations), external conditions (attractiveness, not exclusion or disgust), and communication conditions (the conditions for mutual cooperation need to be there, otherwise they will not be familiar with each other after taking big classes together for a long time).

For example, long-term love mostly happens in school, we have to meet for class every day, and there is academic communication, common homework and exams to be completed (common goals and topics, similar positions, similar perspectives), and meeting every day to provide a sense of familiarity (familiarity will greatly reduce the visual impact. It will make the good-looking ones not 'so' good-looking, and the ordinary ones will look more pleasing to the eye. ）；can provide opportunities to discover inner beauty (when working together, it is found that this person is responsible, kind or superior in sports, can sing and dance, these all need the right opportunity to do extra point display, and usually even if they are capable, they rarely have the opportunity); There are many opportunities for communication (at least for a short period of time, so there will be a great opportunity to discover and communicate) and so on.

The intrinsic condition for satisfying long-term love is "comfort in getting along".

For example, two people often think about things and have a tacit understanding; You and I can talk and share our opinions normally, and be ourselves in front of each other without worrying about being disliked or scolded; I agree with your values and feel that many of the things you do are meaningful, and the methods and ideas are worth appreciating. Mutual affirmation and acceptance, like good friends, but with an extra layer of sexual attraction.

If many objective conditions for long-term love are met, it is easy to occur.

Love is a matter of two people, and the beginning of a love is the end of two people's hearts getting closer.

1. A relationship begins to talk about everything with the two.

When two people have a common topic, then they can chat at any time, and they will not feel bored or uncomfortable together, which has laid a good foundation for their relationship to begin. When two people have endless topics to talk about and have common interests, then their views on the other half will slowly change, and they will slowly leave a deep impression on each other's hearts, and it is a good impression.

2. Love begins with one person's concern for another.

At the beginning of a relationship, there is always one person who takes the initiative, and of course, there are two people who go both ways. Most of the time, one person comes up first, and then another person makes the choice. When one person is always good to another, then this love has begun to sprout quietly.

All care comes from liking everything, liking comes from getting along with each other, so this like will also be shown in daily getting along, such as silently caring for each other, buying breakfast for each other, these are simple and straightforward ways to express like.

3. Love begins with the heartbeat of both parties.

The beginning of a good relationship is often a joint effort of both parties. In the daily relationship, we found each other's beauty and found each other's heartbeat feelings. Then at this time, all the feelings between two people slowly develop towards love.

Two people are attracted to each other, then this love is coming.

Love is the most beautiful feeling. Love originates from falling in love and the beginning of love has two manifestations: macro and micro.

Specifically, the beginning of love, manifested in the form of the following:

Microscopic manifestations:

1. Hand in hand. From the moment two people who like each other hold hands with each other, love is born between two people. ......The moment you hold hands, it is the beginning of love.

2. A sentence of "I love you".

When two people have been dating for a period of time and their feelings for each other are getting deeper and deeper, a sentence of "I love you" can make the relationship between each other go further, from an ordinary friend relationship to a lover relationship.

At this time, the phrase "I love you" is the beginning of love.

3. Take the initiative to date.

When two people in a normal relationship have feelings for each other, and one party takes the initiative to date the other, the relationship between each other is sublimated from an ordinary friend relationship to a lover relationship.

At this time, that date is the beginning of love.

Macro specific performance:

1. The blind date is successful.

When two people who do not know each other meet through blind dates, and after examining each other, it is determined that the other party can continue to get along as their lovers, and the relationship between them becomes a lover relationship.

When this blind date is successful, it is when the relationship begins.

2. Free love.

For people who know each other, love begins when two people transform from an ordinary friend relationship to a lover relationship. ......As for the specific signs, it could be a hand-holding, it could be a date, or it could be the ...... "I love you".

A relationship often starts with a heart or feeling, but there are exceptions;

1.Under normal circumstances, it starts from the heartbeat of both parties or one party, and then directly or indirectly expresses their favorite attitude, if both parties are willing, then they may hit it off and start a love journey; If you are unilateral, you need to constantly create opportunities, seize the opportunity to show your love, and gradually let the other party know your love and choose to accept it or not, or for a long time or for a short time.

2.Under abnormal circumstances, it is often one party who is unrequited love, and the other party uses this emotion to engage in pseudo-love, so as to satisfy a certain need of himself, which often does not last long.

3.Real love is not going to the material at the beginning, first of all, the spirit and then slowly contact the material, on the basis of the material to go better and further, if the beginning is to go to the material, then you will bear a lot of spiritual pressure.

In fact, I think a relationship starts from liking to a certain extent, which is also what we say: "Confession is the end of victory, not the clarion call to charge." "The beginning of a relationship is going through:

The mutual affection of the first acquaintance - mutual appreciation after acquaintance - the familiarity and tacit understanding of long-term love. In this way, I think it will start a sweet love, and the process does not have to be rushed, let alone fast-food love. It's porridge simmering slowly.

When you fall in love for the first time, you must know these points.

Youth is a journey, and a young first love will make this journey more fresh and fragrant. The ignorant feelings and throbbing heartbeats are all light and sweet. But as a girl, there are a few things you must know when facing a boy who is in love for the first time.

1. Stay rational and adhere to principles. When you are in love, you are blind and one-sided, and you are often blinded by the love filter. If you don't have a good grasp of the future and can't calmly face all kinds of unexpected accidents, you must think carefully about the problem and then make a decision that is beneficial to both parties.

In the face of him, if he makes unreasonable demands, he must be clear about the principles and bottom line at all times, and resolutely refuse.

2. Manage your own life circle. You have to understand that love is the spice of your life, not a life-saving elixir. You can't fill your world with him.

When taking care of his sweet love, you have to maintain your friendship circle, and managing your surroundings will make you more comfortable and comfortable in love.

3. Keep a polite distance from the opposite sex. Especially his good friends and brothers, he should stay away. This is not only responsible for the first love, but also for himself.

Not seeing anything different is the foundation of a long-term relationship. When you enter a relationship, you rise to the level of a partner, and you need enough loyalty to make your love more solid, and your sense of gain and happiness is also thicker.

Fifth, be coquettish in moderation, but be aware of the general situation. As a girl, the fairy attribute of tsundere will make others feel unreasonable, which is harmless and can increase the sweetness of your love, but, in the face of the overall situation, you must judge the situation, weigh the pros and cons, and recognize the general situation. Don't do something stupid that you will regret in retrospect in order to prove how much he loves you, it will be more than worth the loss.

Fifth, appropriately seek foreign aid. Onlookers are clear, this is true. If you are hesitant and do not understand the situation, you can ask for help from trusted friends appropriately, and listen to different voices will help you recognize the source of the conflict and get along with him more calmly.

But the idea must be taken by yourself, after all, this is your own love.

The feeling of love makes people live in a candy house, and every day is the sweetness of macarons. There are dreamy pink bubbles that will blow into your arms and fall on his shoulders. May you all have sweet love!

First of all, you have to pay attention, then you have to attract, and then you have a good feeling, and then you have the other person's personality quirks and so on, and she will accept it, and then she has a little bit of affection, and then she has nothing to talk about, and then she finds that she likes it, and then she is satisfied, and then she can't do without it, and then she has love.

The mother and fetus are single and lack the experience of falling in love, have not experienced the joys and pains of love, do not know how to deal with emotional problems, and do not know how to get along with the opposite sex. They often have all kinds of romantic imaginations about love, but in fact they don't know how to pursue and maintain a relationship. In this case, the mother and fetus need to learn how to deal with emotional problems, learn to get along with the opposite sex, and increase emotional experience in order to better start a relationship.

2. Psychological disorders.

There may be some psychological obstacles in maternal and fetal singleness, such as low self-esteem, anxiety, depression, etc., which can affect their ability to get along with the opposite sex. For example, they may be afraid of rejection and dare not actively pursue the opposite sex; Or they are overly sensitive and over-interpret the words and deeds of the opposite sex, leading to misunderstandings and unnecessary suspicions. These psychological barriers need to be overcome gradually through self-regulation, seeking psychological counseling, etc.

3. Narrow social circles.

The social circle of the mother and fetus who are single is likely to be narrower and the social circle is narrower. If most of your friends and colleagues are married or in relationships, they may feel more lonely and unconfident. Moreover, a narrow social circle can also make it difficult for them to expand their circle of friends, further limiting their chances of starting a relationship.

In the face of the above problems, the mother and fetus can take the following measures to overcome the difficulties and start a relationship.

1. Increase emotional experience.

Maternal and fetal singleness can increase emotional experience by participating in social activities, joining interest groups, making more friends, etc. By communicating with each other, understanding the preferences and values of others, increasing knowledge and understanding of the opposite sex. At the same time, mother-to-fetal singles should also pay attention to self-improvement, improve their charm and attractiveness, and increase self-confidence.

2. Overcome psychological barriers.

Maternal singleness requires recognizing one's own psychological barriers and taking a positive approach to overcome them. You can learn how to deal with emotional problems and how to get along with the opposite sex by reading psychological books and participating in psychological counseling. At the same time, you also need to learn to self-regulate, relax your mentality, don't be too attached to love, and maintain a positive and optimistic attitude.

3. Expand your social circle.

Singles can expand their social circle by participating in social activities, joining interest groups, participating in volunteer activities, etc. At the same time, you can also make more friends through online social platforms such as WeChat, QQ, etc. In the process of socializing, we should learn to actively communicate and actively express our thoughts and feelings to increase our own attractiveness.

In short, it may be difficult for a mother to start a relationship when she is single, but as long as you take positive measures to enrich yourself, expand your social circle, and overcome psychological barriers, it is possible to find your true love. The most important thing is not to be too anxious and clinging, maintain a positive attitude, and believe that you can find your own happiness.