After being introduced to a blind date, how to deal with the method of introducing people to blind d

Updated on society 2024-05-19
37 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    When you arrived at her store, it was the first official meeting, and you weren't talking about love in front of your parents, what were you embarrassed? It's good to have the mentality of seeing your neighbor, but this girl next door may become your girlfriend. If parents want to talk to you, they generally care about your family background, work, and education, but they are not their daughter's boyfriend, and these problems should come to an end.

    Don't be too deliberate when talking to girls, be improvised, and if you want to go out to eat, take the initiative to carry a bag, hand a tissue or something. If she doesn't speak and stares at something in a daze, pay attention to what she's looking at and find a topic. If she can talk, then you can talk too.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    In the vast sea of people, you are looking forward to her or his arrival, if you feel a little overwhelmed, then tell you not to rush --

    First of all, "search" for the matchmaking agency where you are located or in the area you expect, or ask which one has a good reputation through friends and acquaintances, or you can inquire about 114 stations, grasp the general situation, choose a few matchmaking agencies to go to the field to see, and then choose 1-2 matchmaking agencies to register as a member. All formal matchmaking agencies that have been established for a long time, have abundant resources, moderate fees, and high cost performance are generally credible and reliable, and the success rate is not low.

    A thousand miles of marriage are tied by a thread. Now there are matchmaking agencies everywhere in the country, which is a standardized industry, belonging to the intermediary service industry, and there are all countries in the world. In view of the fact that the old, middle-aged and young people of all ages in contemporary Chinese society, the single groups in all professional circles are very large, and there are many unmarried, divorced and widowed people, so there is a vast market demand, and there is no lack of multiple choices.

    I believe that in a large-scale formal matchmaking agency, you can generally cast a net, carefully screen, target positioning, and constantly debug, so as to improve the quality and satisfaction of matchmaking. However, you should keep in mind that the threshold and conditions for choosing a mate should not be too harsh, maintain a certain degree of flexibility and flexibility, do not draw the ground as a prison, limit yourself, and do not look at the height of this mountain, which will result in a delay in the original good opportunity. In short, I wish you all the best and your dreams come true!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's not as complicated as you think, it's very simple, she asks you to go to her store, just thinking that there should be no negative meaning. She said that it is normal for her parents to want to see you, and if you think about it, if your parents know about it, then your parents also want to see her, because your parents care about you, so her parents also care about her and want to see what kind of boyfriend she is looking for. This is also a normal thing.

    You don't have to be too nervous when you go to her store and see her parents, you can say whatever you should and what you should do, and you don't have to be too nervous. Isn't it just a meal! If you chat, just talk about the topics that the two people have in common, and she should ask you some information, and you can just reply truthfully.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Big brother, calm down! I'll be your love advisor. First of all, you have to know the situation of the enemy army. Knowing one's own situation and that of the enemy. You first report the situation of the enemy, I need to know the details of the enemy.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    First of all, it is necessary to dress up well, many people will feel that in the process of blind date, if the other party can accept all of themselves, including the appearance of no makeup, they will not dislike themselves in the future, but in fact, people love beauty, and people with a good external image will have a good impression, think about it, if the other party is also sloppy and sloppy, and come to see you without tidying up at all, your impression of him will definitely not be good, let alone want to have further development.

    **From the web.

    Secondly, to be prepared to chat, a situation that is easy to appear in a blind date is that the two sides check the hukou chat, in fact, since it is a blind date, it is not wrong to know more about a person's information, but understanding the information requires skills, compared to the hukou chat, under the guise of small talk.

    Mining information in a relaxed atmosphere is the best way to promote the blind date atmosphere and achieve the purpose of understanding information.

    Therefore, before the blind date, it is necessary to improve your ability to chat, so that you can chat with each other on the blind date, and you will not be embarrassed by the first meeting.

    In the current era, blind date is actually an opportunity to get to know people, as long as we look at it correctly and make reasonable use of it, maybe one day, your true destiny is in your blind date?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    First of all, make it clear that the introducer is asked by your parents to introduce you to the person for your own good. If the person he introduces is to your liking, then you can meet first, talk further, and talk about it everywhere first.

    If the blind date is not to your liking, you can't look at it at all, then you can make it clear to the introducer directly, there is no need to hide it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    These things are indeed what you are doing wrong, people come to blind dates, they must be unmarried, you are asking this question a little inexplicably, people will definitely think that you are abnormal, you have to learn more about how to communicate and communicate with others, read more books of this kind.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Actually, I think any girl can't accept it when you ask this, you think, if they are married, will they still go on a blind date with you? Maybe this girl thinks that you are asking a question is a superfluous move, and thinks that you shouldn't ask this question, now many people can't get in touch with the opposite sex because of work or other reasons, so through the way of introduction, I think it can also be used if two people are really very fateful to finally be together in this way, but you yourself are not particularly familiar with the blind date, so you must pay attention when talking and chatting.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Make excuses to say something, or that I already have a partner.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The introducer is the key in the blind date, and there are the following 5 criteria for judging whether the introducer is reliable:

    1) Look at the relationship between you, the blind date and the introducer. Generally speaking, who the introducer has a better relationship with is more biased towards which side.

    2) Look at the person who introduced you. If the introducer does not look at the matchmaking degree of the two blind dates, as long as it is the opposite sex, they will introduce it to you; The introducer is impatient, and Zhique has brought a few dissatisfied people to think you are picky......This kind of introducer is unreliable.

    3) Look at the motivation of the introducer. It is often unreliable to introduce red envelopes or other benefits for the year. It's not reliable to be in a hurry to ask for money before the thing succeeds!

    4) Listen to the language of the introducer. It is often unreliable to say that the blind date is particularly good, and only to say that the man is good and not to say anything bad.

    5) Look at the introducer's achievements and circles. The introducer is not as good as you, and the people around him are not very reliable, so just pass directly. The introducer is experienced, has many successful cases, speaks and does things realistically, and is generally reliable!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There should be, if not, I will not go to your house, nor will I do those intimate things with you before. It is recommended that you get along with each other more and get to know each other better. Let's see if there is any fate to the end.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It must be interesting, the other party said that he was embarrassed, and he didn't refuse, and he also promised you to go to your house tomorrow, which means that he is interesting to you, he likes you very much, and you have both kissed, and the relationship is very stable.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    A: She has hugged and kissed you, and she definitely wants to have a relationship with you. Besides, since she came to celebrate your birthday with you, it must be 100% interesting to you, so you have to cherish her.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    In this case, I feel that this girl is actually quite interesting to you, after all, when you invited her to your house, and then went to celebrate her birthday together, he didn't refuse, but he felt embarrassed, and then said that he would go to your house the next day, which can actually prove that this girl is very interesting to you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Like him. It should be, I already have a fancy for you. Otherwise, he wouldn't have been forced by you like this, and then agreed to your request. In fact, the most important thing for two people to get along is to look at the feeling, if the feeling is not right, how to go? It's also useless to pursue.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This woman is interesting to you, but the girl is more reserved and tactful, so let's get ready for work tomorrow.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    This girl must have feelings for you, otherwise people wouldn't come to your birthday party, wouldn't it be a little inappropriate? In fact, it is just testing you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's definitely interesting to you, if it's not interesting to you, I won't let you touch it at all, and I won't celebrate my birthday with you. is not interested in you, and the other party will resent you when approaching her.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Obviously, she has a good impression of you, she values your ideas very much, and she thinks it's too quick to meet your family at your house after knowing you for two months, but after you put it forward, she quickly changed her mind and agreed, she should attach great importance to you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Although the two of you met on a blind date, the development of a relationship is still not so deep. If he wanted to go to your house, he would definitely meet your parents, but he felt that it was too early, because he was not mentally prepared to come to your house, so he asked this question. In fact, this woman already has deep feelings for you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you know each other on a blind date, if you both can talk about it on a blind date, and you have the same mountain view, can you be together? You have a good impression of him, you ask him, and if he says it, he doesn't particularly refuse. Then he will come to you.

    If you say that you have a crush on him, then the two of you are together, and you have to respect each other and each other. Love each other, but don't overdo it, because there are a lot of young people nowadays. It's still not good to be together for a long time and have sex.

    You should also get it, and you should wait until the day of your marriage to be together. In that case, you'll be right for the rest of your life. If you take each other very seriously, you will pay real feelings.

    You're right?

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I think in this case, the girl probably thinks it's a bit early, but from your intimate description, she actually likes you too.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    kissed everything, hugged everything, and asked her if she was interested in you. If she doesn't mean anything to you, she won't let you kiss her in general. If you kiss, it means that he accepts you, and you can further develop your relationship.

    Her plan to come to your house tomorrow also proves that she is interesting to you and treats you as a love interest.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It shows that this girl already recognizes you very much, and he is actually quite happy when you invite him on your birthday. And he is closer to you, in fact, he is still willing to know more about you, after all, the birthday he attends is to feel that you value him very much, and he can also get to know your friends, and take the opportunity to get to know you closer.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You've been together for two months, and the other party agrees to go to your home for your birthday, which means that she has a crush on you and likes to be with you.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Of course, it has a meaning for you, and if it is not interesting, it will not let you kiss it, and it will not agree to go to your house.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Since the girl has no objection, it means that he wants to know you very much, especially wants to be close to you to your birthday party, and he will be very happy, because he thinks that you treat him as his own person and like him, so he wants to go so much. Two people will succeed together because they both appreciate each other.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You and the blind date girl have known each other for two months, and you are going to invite him to your house on your birthday, he hesitated before, and then agreed, indicating that he is still interested in you, and he still wants to date you.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    The girl on a blind date shows that he still recognizes you, and he is also willing to communicate with you, in-depth communication, but in terms of rhythm, she feels a little fast, but he finally accepted, which means that he recognizes you and wants to learn more about opportunities with you.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I met on a blind date, I think the following situation, this girl must be interesting to you, like it, otherwise I wouldn't have promised you to celebrate your birthday.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I didn't refuse you at least have a good impression, and invited to your house, do so many people in your family want to meet their parents, I may also think it's a little fast, if you determine the relationship to meet your parents, you can, if you don't determine the relationship, either two people live together, or it's a day in advance

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Because you are blind dates and acquaintances, but you have also kissed and hugged, so you should have fallen in love at first sight, and he did not refuse when you invited him to come, which shows that he likes you.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    She must be interesting to you, otherwise she wouldn't have come to your house on your birthday.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You've both hugged and even kissed, you're already boyfriend and girlfriend now, and if it's inconvenient for the other person to just mention it on your birthday, you should immediately say that you have to be there even if no one else comes.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Blind date acquaintance, we are blind date acquaintance, you have known each other for two months, and kissed and hugged, now we are still developing very well, I see that you believe in consciousness and pain to understand it, because you are not talking about it yourself, it is a blind date to know, to understand it well.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Look at the screenshot, you should have just met, if you don't resist the other side, you can add each other, slowly understand, as for whether it will be successful or not, it depends on your future display.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It's okay to talk less, but don't say the wrong thing.

    What to talk about. The specific and boring profile should be understood before the two meet. When you go on a blind date, you don't have to dwell on it like an interview, at this time, you should show your personality characteristics, hobbies, specialties, what you have seen and heard, in short, to show a living person.

    1. Interesting facts about work - saying these can show that you love your work.

    2. Travel experience - if you have all been to places and similar experiences, it is naturally the most appropriate topic.

    3. The latest movie - Talking about gossip will always seem a bit chicken, but talking about the latest movie is undoubtedly much better.

    4. Hometown terroir - people who love their hometown always give people a feeling of reliability, stability and affection.

    5. Longing for life - talk about the state of life you yearn for the most, and paint a future for the other party that you will work for.

    6. Personal interests - you can understand each other's interests when you go on a blind date, which is a topic that is very important for the future and easy to cause laughter. Pay attention to the scale.

    7. Childhood troubles - who has no troubles in childhood, saying it does not affect your glorious image, and it also makes people feel that you are kind and cute.

    8. Baby child - although not yet, showing love is invincible. Or you can emphasize your original intention of not having children.

    9. Pet love - a person's personality can be seen from a person's pet.

    10. Fun of life - blind date is for the sake of living a long life in the future, what else can you talk about if you don't talk about this?

    What not to talk about.

    It's just a blind date, don't rush to set conditions, make demands, and don't mention topics that may cause similar misunderstandings to the other party. Don't make comparisons, whether it's comparing the other party with your ex-boyfriend (girl), the last blind date, or comparing other people's lives with yourself. Also remember not to complain, talk excessively, and show off, which are all signs of immaturity.

    1. Ex-boyfriend (female) friend – In any case, this is not a good topic.

    2. Money – You can talk about each other's careers, but don't ask each other how much money they have. These should be known beforehand, not asked at the blind date site.

    3. Disadvantages of superiors - it is easy to talk about the boss when talking about work, don't gossip, don't complain, this reduces your own image.

    4. Parents are high - three sentences without leaving their parents, which will give people the feeling of being too dependent on their parents.

    5. Garage watch bag - this kind of item that often makes people feel that it is a show-off type, it is better to mention less, and people can't see it.

    6。Multiple choice questions – something like "Is money more important or is wife important?" Who will be saved first when the mother and wife fall into the water at the same time? Don't ask embarrassing questions.

    7. Why come on a blind date - since blind date is already a reality, there is no need to specialize.

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