How can a person who has lost himself find his own direction?

People sometimes get lost, but it doesn't matter, the important thing is to find the right direction after being lost, and then move in the right direction. What you're saying is like talking about how people don't make mistakes. First of all, you need to enrich yourself, and if you are a student, you should study hard, and this is the most important thing.

When you get to work, you'll find that things change faster. The relationship between people and people will also be more complicated. Believe in yourself.

None of it was smooth sailing. The more frustrated you are, the more courageous you are. The key is that you have figured out how to deal with it?

First of all, you must know what your desires are, understand what you yearn for, and work hard according to your goals, which is the direction of your life.

I want to say, are you really sure that's the ego. A lot of things are like learning, and you really learn to know that I'm just three minutes hot, and that's not what I really want.

It's like traveling around the world, many people are shouting that they want to travel for a lifetime, whether they have really worked hard, or just shouting, and after you quit your job with a hot head, you have been traveling for a few months, and you don't know where your next destination is, and what the meaning of travel is.

If you're sure that's what you want, and you've been trying to do it until you make a decision, like traveling around the world doing a strategy or something, all kinds of airfares**, all kinds of hotels**, and money**, and so on, then quit your job. Instead of thinking that it's my job that limits me and prevents me from accomplishing my goals.

Even the busiest person will have a few free hours to play on the phone, busy is not an excuse, if you use those hours to work hard and maintain enthusiasm for a year, then you can say, that's what I really want. This is when a decision can be made.

I believe that a year is not a long time for a real goal, because it is a lifetime thing, if you want to pursue yourself.

I don't seem to have looked at the question carefully...

I may give up my job for the sake of myself, provided that this future standard of self can make me happy and happy, and I don't have to worry about eating and drinking. It is unlikely that I will give up my self for work, because it is not me, it is someone else who is living for me, not me, and I will be very tired, unhappy, full of self-blame and negative energy, not because of my financial ability, but because of my unhealthy psychological state.

In addition, there is also a kind of person who may do a line of love and find their own meaning in their work, which is also a good way.

There are always moments of confusion in life, when you are confused, do you feel very helpless, the days are chaotic, and there are irrepressible dazed emotions in your heart.

The first point is to set your own goals.

Establish goals for yourself Establish goals is not only the need for success in life, but also the need to stimulate people's potential and maximize value creation. In fact, when you have a goal in mind, your subconscious mind will mobilize all your energy to work hard to achieve it. However, when setting goals, we must pay attention to making them fit our own realities and not be too ambitious.

The second point is to boost your self-confidence.

Play to your strengths People grow in the process of overcoming low self-esteem and building self-confidence. People are born in nature, and they are very different, but comparatively speaking, people have their own strengths and weaknesses. When you do things, you must pay attention to your strengths and avoid your weaknesses.

If you always do things that are not suitable for you, and always compare your weaknesses with the strengths of others, then you can easily have an inferiority complex and dampen your confidence. Believe that your efforts will be rewarded.

The third point is to plan ahead.

There are many ways to do things, and I think one of the most effective ways to plan and act on a plan is one of the most effective. Plan well and act according to the plan, not only can improve work efficiency, but also experience the rhythm of work, so that you will not treat work as a kind of hard labor; Rather, as a kind of enjoyment, you feel the pulse of life at work and grasp the rhythm of life. "Doing things in a way and acting efficiently" is one of my creeds, and we must pay attention to methods and plan well in our work.

People who don't have a plan are forever driven away by work.

Fourth, develop good self-discipline.

In real life, the reason why some people lack self-confidence is because of the long-term accumulation of frustration, that is, because they have not dealt with some small things in their daily lives, and they continue to accumulate, and as a result, they continue to increase psychological pressure on themselves. If you don't let the transactional work be pressed and entangled, you will feel relaxed psychologically, which is equivalent to removing the reason for the existence of inferiority, and it is easy to cultivate self-confidence.