What to do if you disappoint your best friend

Updated on psychology 2024-05-18
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Let's calm down for a while, and then contact after two or three days.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Best friends won't be so easily angry with you, and even then, it's easy to forgive you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It depends on what you've done. A true good friend is usually not counted so much.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Maybe you and she have been dating alone many times, or you may see each other as boyfriend and girlfriend, and the best time for the two to talk and laugh together is at night: people have weak defense skills at night. If she starts to hide, don't force her

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    No one is perfect.

    I don't know what you did wrong.

    But if it's really a good friend.

    Will forgive you. Who hasn't made a mistake.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Since you're the best friend, I'm sure your friend won't be too careful, but if you do do something wrong, you should apologize

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    1. I understand that you have difficulties, I understand your difficulties, and I also respect your reasons why you have to do this. It's okay, I'm not angry, I'm just disappointed, that's all.

    2. Maybe everyone has a dead end, they can't get out by themselves, and others can't break in, I put the deepest secret there, you don't understand me, I don't blame you.

    3. Do you want me to tell you, how can you not be hurt by others, don't give or accept anything, don't expect anything, then you won't be disappointed and won't get hurt.

    4. I am human, I am fragile, I am not strong; I can't help but be disappointed back and forth, and I can't bear the repeated betrayals.

    5. Anything that has been said or agreed to be made is just a few mouthfuls of spit into the air, and no one will take it seriously.

    6. There is a kind of person who only does two things: you succeed, and he is jealous of you; You fail, and he laughs at you.

    7. Best friends, who usually tease each other, are the ones with the most ruthless mouths, but the ones with the softest hearts when you need them.

    8. Before you know it, how many people have left; No matter how good a friend is, the lack of contact will be weak; No matter how deep the feelings are, they will break if they don't know how to cherish them.

    9. I forgive you again and again, but what about you? Every word I ask you is half silent.

    10, I just ask, hold a hand, and take the head to let Cong Lao not give up; I only wish that I can win the hearts of one person, and the white heads will not be separated.

    11. I wish Sakura to accompany you crazy, laugh with you, cry with you, and grow old with you. In fact, we are all afraid of shedding tears, because we have all loved once.

    12. I can do a lot for you, but I also have the ability to destroy it all with my own hands.

    13. People have said that there will be no eternal love in this world. Between you and me, if even short-term love can't exist, it's better to let go of each other. If you love you, you will be allowed to pursue your happiness. As long as you are happy, I will be happy.

    14. With believing and expecting, and disappointment and chilling, I think I don't dare to listen to the so-called arrangement and future anymore. Even the all-important wait, I began to waver.

    15. When you learn to give up, you can bear all the disappointments and lies. I don't want anything, what can you do with me.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    At the beginning of the incident, my fingers grabbed his throat. His hands and fingertips clutched freedom, and his eyes roared with hatred. When I grabbed him, there was panic and screaming all around.

    I pushed him onto the locker, and the loud thud of the locker echoed through the gymnasium. He was a little dazed, but he plucked up the courage to pounce on me. I grabbed him by the neck with my hand again.

    I still remember the feeling of the tendon before I lifted my leg again and threw him out. He fell onto the bench and slammed into the locker with a thud louder than the first.

    The boys in the locker room screamed, a boyhood desire to kill. Around that time, the coaches ran in, knowing they must have had a fight.

    I looked at Kevin. I'm wondering what he's going to do now that we're caught. If he had told them that I had started the fight, he would have driven me to death.

    I didn't. It's both of our fault, but standing on top of him, it's easy to put the blame on me.

    But he didn't. He lowered his head and snuck through the carriage. Perhaps he knew that the investigation would be just as bad for him.

    Maybe he just wants to avoid all the consequences. Maybe he just doesn't like gossiping when he's just as wrong. Whatever the case may be, in the midst of the commotion in the locker room of a group of preteen boys, the coaches did not notice that he slipped past him as they tried to figure out what was going on.

    I took the hint and followed him because the coaches asked whoever spoke to explain. Kevin and I are good boys. We take all the nerd advanced classes together.

    No one will doubt us anyway. None of the other boys told us because none of the teachers asked us about it that day or later, and we certainly wouldn't tell them.

    That was in sixth grade. This is the first memory I have of Kevin Lynch, since he moved to the small town where I live two years ago — the time we had a fight when we were 12, and that's what a 12-year-old boy does.

    It wasn't until the off-season a few years later that we became friends. The off-season is a place where one goes, if one's exercise is over for a year and is not ready for the other. We've all played football and it's around November.

    For the rest of the year, we competed in weightlifting. The two of us were very close in strength, so we were divided into two groups as observers. When one of us is under the bar, if we can't do it, we rely on the other to save us.

    We are both vulnerable to each other at the same time because we will rely on each other to be the one who drives you to climb upwards.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I am not in the same place with him because of work, and because I am too busy, I have too little contact, and my feelings have gradually faded, and I rarely send messages to greet each other.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I lost my best friend because I graduated, and the two of us parted ways after graduation, so I lost him.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The two sides were in a different place, and because the distance between the two people was too far away, they couldn't enhance each other's feelings, so they lost her.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Because I'm so stingy, both in feelings and in life. And I also have a short temper and often get into arguments with my friends. I feel especially sorry for the loss of these friends.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's a feeling of great remorse and regret. I once had a very good friend Li, I once thought that we would have a long-lasting friendship, but no matter how strong the friendship is, there will be a broken day, I have never been able to accept, our friendship has gone through seven years of ups and downs, and finally it is still broken.

    I remember the third year of junior high school, we made an appointment to go out to live together, dream for a year together, go to class together, go back to the dormitory together, eat together, go shopping together, study together, go crazy together, every time I don't do well in the exam, you will encourage me and support me, that year you gave me a lot of chicken blood, did not make me depressed and complained, at that time I was full of self-confidence, firmly believed that I could be admitted to the high school that I thought was impossible, we worked together, encouraged each other, sometimes we were happy in the bitterness, no matter what we didWe all thought of each other, and we shared all the joys, sorrows, and sorrows with each other. Laugh with you, go crazy with you, cry with you, and be willing to do all the stupid things with you. This is my best friend, my Li, and losing her is the most painful thing that makes me feel the most!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I don't know what kind of loss it refers to, but no matter which kind of loss it is, it's very painful in my heart, maybe it's okay to live away, two people just don't communicate anymore, and you can know that each other lives well, it's really a pity to die, and when you think about it, your heart hurts so much that you can't extricate yourself, what I want to tell is a story about death.

    I have a group of friends who play very well, from junior high school to college, and even some have been playing together since kindergarten to this day, and they have a deep relationship with each other, I think if nothing else, everyone will always play together even on the day they get old, but accidents just happened.

    It was the spring of my freshman year, and one morning I suddenly received a ** from a friend, saying that a friend had cancer and left us in the early morning. I also said you were kidding, how could I not believe it, oh don't lie to me. Because that boy is really very sunny, and his body has always been very healthy, although he is always not serious, but he is really a very good person, and he has always been a lively person in our little friends, and sometimes we have conflicts, and he always coaxes him here and there, I really can't imagine this kind of thing happening to him.

    My friend said it was really true on the ** side, and my tears fell all at once, and I was sobbing.

    My friend was crying over there, she said he was so bad, he didn't tell us about his illness for a long time, you said he was so bad before, how could he still be like this at this time, it's really sad, he told his dad before he left that we would definitely cry so he was reluctant to leave, so don't tell us, but how can there be such a stupid person. We're all people who have such a good relationship, but we're not there when he needs it most.

    I'm really sad, and I still don't dare to go to his neighborhood to this day, he used to be the best to me, always bullied me, but he was also the best for me, he always wanted me to buy him lemon tea at the intersection, he liked to eat fried rice made by me the most, and he always lost to me quietly when he played cards together, why did he just leave.

    After he left, we were silent for a long time, and every time we went back and talked about him, everyone couldn't hold back their tears, but I knew that it was really painful to be sick, and he would be much happier when he went to another place, and I would never forget him, and he would become the worst little angel in the sky, always with us.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think a good friendship should be mutual, friends should be equal, no matter how good the relationship is, both sides should maintain each other, otherwise after a long time, people will really get tired, whether it is friendship or love, it is the same. Don't break your principles, don't cross the bottom line, respect each other, cherish each other, this is probably the best way to look like friendship. We all need friends in life, we need friends who cherish each other, but please don't forget, don't wronged yourself.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If it were me, I would have a hard time! After all, the possibility of becoming a friend in the vast number of people is very small, and the chance of becoming a good friend is even smaller!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The expectations of others should not be too high, otherwise it will only increase the troubles in vain and ask for hardships.

    Think about it, no matter how good the relationship is, no matter how good the friend, but after all, Zaoyama is two people, it is impossible to think about everything and do the same, and it is impossible to develop everything according to their own wishes. What do you think a friend should be, but she has her own thoughts and considerations, so don't expect others too much. The so-called hope is smaller, and the disappointment will be smaller.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    That's right, they are a stepping stone for your growth.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    There are some things that a friend only needs to do once, and you will have no good feelings for them. I would like to share with you 2 short stories about what made you feel disappointed in your best friend.

    1.Lies are repeated

    When I was in college, I had a good relationship with Xiaojun, but I was disappointed to find out that he had lied to me.

    I remember one time he said that his family was in trouble and asked me to borrow money. At that time, because of the good relationship, I lent him the money without saying a word, and he was very grateful. However, 1 month later, I heard that he gambled and often lost money, and it was then that I realized that he had cheated on me.

    From then on, I was very disappointed in him and asked him for money, but he couldn't pay it back.

    Between good friends, don't lie. A person who lies a lot is not worthy of your trust.

    2.Tell someone else your secret

    Two people are good friends, and it is inevitable that they will share intimate words with each other, and if a friend tells your secret to someone else, it will disappoint you.

    When I was in school, Xiao Liu and I were friends and were often inseparable. At that time, I would often tell him about the situation at home and the things he encountered along the way. I regard him as the most confidant person, and I often talk to him about my heart.

    I remember one time I told him about the bad family conditions, and he told others about it. At that time, I often saw people sympathetic to me, which was really unreasonable.

    Since then, I have been very disappointed in Xiao Liu, and I no longer often tell him about family affairs.

    In short, a friend who lies and tells others your secrets will disappoint you.

    I amHammer

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Because of a boy, he spread rumors about me behind my back and slandered me in all kinds of ways.

    There was a very bloody thing that happened to me, that is, the boy that my girlfriend liked liked me. When my girlfriend told me about it in a complaining tone, I looked confused and said on the spot that I wouldn't be with that guy.

    In fact, during the time that followed when the boy chased me, I did make a decisive refusal and did not accept any overtures from him. And the guy held on for two or three months, and after finding out that I was really not interesting to him, and not rejecting him because of my best friend, he gave up his plan to be with me. Of course, he didn't choose to be with my girlfriend in the end.

    Naively, I thought that as long as I didn't accept that boy's pursuit, my friendship with my girlfriend would continue, and we could still get along as well as before. But a series of things that happened after that surprised me.

    Not long after that incident, I met a guy I liked, and that guy also had a crush on me, and it happened that my best friend and he knew him, so we often went out to dinner and walks together.

    One day, the boy I had my crush on called me out at night and told me not to bring my girlfriend with him. I thought he wanted to be alone with me, so he went alone. After arriving, the boy took out his phone and showed me the chat history between him and my girlfriend.

    The content of my girlfriend's chat is all about me: I have a bad character, I have a messy communication, I have a leg with this man, I have a leg with that man, and I rob her boyfriend. Anyway, I was told that I was like a green tea, one on the surface and one on the back.

    At that time, after reading it, I felt unacceptable, and immediately cried, because I am usually really good to her, and I wash everything in her clothes. But I didn't expect her to slander me like this for a man. Later, we had a big fight over this incident, and slowly the two of us broke off contact.

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