Should I go to his house or should I not go?

First of all, you can take a look if you really want to get married in the future"This is your exact words, I think that in fact, you, or even him, may not be the one who is sure that the current person will definitely go to marriage with him. I think there are two reasons for this:1

You are 21, he is 20, it can be said that both of you are still very young, and in this era, it can be called early to get married at this age. So maybe neither of you has any plans to get married so early now. 2.

Even though the relationship is there, whether it is time to get married or not, you have not yet decided. Age plays a role here again.

So with you talking about those troubles.

I thought it would be better not to go now!

1.None of you have any plans to get married now, and I don't think you can even be sure that he or her is the one I must marry in my life. Hehe, of course it's just my feelings)

2.He didn't know if he should let you go. Then, he himself did not make up his mind to introduce you to his family in this way, after all, many things may be different when you bring you to the family.

If he thinks about it and wants you to go, then you can think about whether to go or not.

3.In the short term, I thought you wouldn't be getting married, so I don't think it's necessary to put it on the agenda so early. If you feel the need, you can briefly mention to your parents that you have a girlfriend or boyfriend, what kind of person she is, why you are with him, or what you plan to do with him.

You can chat with your parents and hear what they have to say.

4.Sichuan or Shandong, I don't think it's very important. Parents want you to marry closer, because they want to see you, they want to make sure if you are doing well, even if you marry far away, but you can be happy, I think they will be happy.

5.I'm afraid that their parents won't accept it. I think since he chose you, at least he recognized you. So you must be a person who can accept it. I think it's okay to get to know their parents and be more sincere, they won't dislike you.

After all, you have no plans to get married now, and you are not determined to bring each other back to your parents, so I don't think it's necessary to go to anyone's house for the time being.

One day you want to get married, and one day you really want your parents to get to know him or her, then think again.

With your progress and situation, I don't think it's good to see your parents too early.

Go and see what other people's parents do to you, just say it's a classmate, don't say it's a girlfriend, and see what his parents do to you before deciding.

Go, go, go! Did he mention you to his family? Do you know you're in love? He should let you go, and if he doesn't let you go, he doesn't love you. Sooner or later, you have to go. In today's society, you can skip cooking rice.

Parents' opinions are generally more conservative, but it's not for your own good. If you're sure he loves you, you might as well go for it! Let's take a look at his home, is his living habits?

If one day you get married, you should be prepared to see how his parents treat you? Falling in love is a matter of two people, but marriage is a matter of two families, don't you say? If you're not sure, you're not a friend, that's fine.

If it's sincere. Dizzy. It's useless to be sincere. Man is the animal that likes to change the most.

Look at how deep your relationship is. I think you're still young at 21...It's too late to get married around 25.

The most important thing now is the bitter money. When I can afford to buy a house. Then it doesn't matter if you're on that planet.

Because you have your own home. Go back to see your parents whenever you have time. Of course, these are all afterthoughts, and I think you can go without hurrying for now.

Let time exercise your relationship. Wait until you all feel like you're ready to get married. At that time, you can go and see your parents again.

Because you've been tested for so long. Tell your parents about the past few years. I believe for the sake of seeing"Minutes together for so long"They will make it happen to you.

If the time is short, parents are most likely to object.

If you really love each other, it will be a matter of time before you meet your parents, otherwise take this opportunity to behave well. Adjust the relationship with his family.