I go or don t go, I should go or I shouldn t go

The situation sounds a bit troublesome. Actually, you can think about it clearly. First.

If you are in a relationship with the requirements of looking for a lifelong partner, then it is a little hasty to make such a promise when you have just been in a relationship for two months, because the temperament and temperament of two people, the principles of doing things, moral beliefs, life standards, etc., need to slowly surface in the day and night, and two months still sound like a long-distance relationship, such a promise can not be fulfilled for the time being; Second, what is the reason for the family's opposition, is it because he is not a local? Is it far from your home? If this is the reason, you have to consider the practical problem, how many brothers and sisters you have with him, what are the family conditions, how to share the burden of your parents, it is very realistic, if you are an only child in your family, your parents will definitely not want you to marry far away, you have to think clearly; Third, whether in love or married, a woman must understand that she is an independent individual, she is never dependent on any man to survive, that is to say, he must have self-respect and self-love, self-improvement and self-reliance, family is important, but without the material created by work, everything is empty talk, so, so far, it is the best choice to grasp your own stable job.

Finally, I advise you that women are deeper in emotional problems than men, please give love on the premise of protecting yourself, no one likes the taste of heartache. Good luck.

Hehe, I only made my decision last night.

I'm in the same situation as you, we've been talking for half a year, my family doesn't agree, he is now in Shenzhen, and I work in a public institution, I also promised him that I would go over, but I think about it, I'm 21, I should think about it for myself and my family, it's not that I don't love him, it's just that it takes time.

I'm over, I can't guarantee that I can live with him for the rest of my life, but if I don't go over, he can understand, I think if we are together in the future, the relationship will be deeper, and it's not that a long-distance relationship will be fruitless. He's too, and now when he hears me say this, he's irritated. So I don't mention it now, he said he wanted to be quiet for a while, and I asked him to be quiet for a while.

If you really can't be together, there's no way around it.

Moreover, don't talk about it again, you can take the time to go to his place, and if you really want to go, you can ask him to help you work before you go, don't be so presumptuous, you should be mature.

The above is my personal opinion, I wish you happiness.

2 months is actually not a long time, maybe you feel really, really good for each other, the two of you may be good together in the past, or there will be a lot of new problems that have not been encountered before or are difficult to solve. I think that at the moment, your one is definitely not as important as your family, so let's slow down and decide to talk to your family, and let time and distance beat your feelings.

I advise you not to go... If you really love you, you will think of you.

And you're only in a two-month relationship, at least think about these things after half a year... It's hard to find a job now... If you're in the same city, there's no need to change jobs.

If you are in two places, you will do it first... Wait until the love period is over

It's a bit of a pity to go over there now... You don't know him very well.

In case there is any discord... You've given up here again... Isn't that worth the cost?

Now you have at least a way back

Oh, you have to do a good job in state-owned enterprises, he lets you go, nothing more than to be with you for a shorter time, benefit your selfish desires, the distance is beautiful, don't go, let him miss you more, men are concerned about you every day, love you more deeply, don't listen to my brother, state-owned enterprises are not so easy to go to the place, for the future life, I mean you can not go, love is very important, life is satisfactory, love is smooth.

Support is not going, it is better not to go in this situation now, if he loves you, he will give up everything for you. He should think the same way you do now.

If you plan to live with him for the rest of your life, you might as well go to get to know him, and if you want to study well, you can find a better one. Tell me not to go if you don't plan to live your life, you don't know the place well, you don't have to rely on him for the time being... In this way... There is no regret medicine·· Leave a way out for yourself in everything. I just walked into the abyss of love and was bound to step into the hell of marriage.

I just gave up my previous job and familiar environment because of love, and came to this strange city, where I didn't even have a friend, and it was really tiring and annoying to start over, but I was very fortunate that my husband and I loved each other, and now no matter how bitter it is, at least there will be love in my heart It will be very sweet, I was a gamble at the beginning, and if I lose, I will go back and start again, and I will be happy for a lifetime if I win.

words in my opinion. It should be better to go.

Now that I have promised someone. If you genuinely like him.

It should be with him. After all, the second half of a person's life should be spent with the other half.

If you miss it, you won't be able to do it anymore, so go with your heart.

After all, your family is not the one who will accompany you for a lifetime, although it will break the hearts of your family.

But after a long time they will understand, after all, they just want you to do well.

If he's the one you want to be with for the rest of your life, go for it.

It's better to be realistic in life, or don't go.

It's not just a matter of work. If you lose yourself, what is the point of love. You live for your own happiness, not for your commitments.

Of course, love will confess to her!!

No one can help you with this, measure it yourself, what is important?

If you don't have a job, will he be able to support you? Life is very realistic....

Communicate deeply, preferably with both parties.

The final decision on this kind of thing is in your hands.

Your own classmates, what kind of personality is she, and what is her moral character? Then there is whether your financial situation and time can go once, if you are in the spirit of playing, relaxing or other purposes, you can go to see, if the situation is really good, you can stay and continue to work, if it is not good, or if it is not good, you can come back.

It should be said that Ningxia's development has been good in recent years, and the GDP in the first few months of this year should be ranked in front of the overall ranking.

Yinchuan is a Hui residential area, and it is indispensable to have ethnic minorities, but the Hui are relatively better, not as strong as the Uyghurs in Xinjiang, so there is no need to worry, and safety should not be the main issue.

Because of the rapid development in recent years, it should be said that there are some special opportunities.

If your classmate can think of you, it means that you have a good relationship, he recognizes your character, and it also shows that this kind of work needs to be done by someone he trusts, so he will invite you over.

Of course, you need to make your own decisions about the specific situation.

Anything is possible!