What are the signs that a family is beginning to decline?

What are the signs that a family is beginning to decline?

Some families are mostly very prosperous at the beginning, they may have a big family, and there are some people who are officials, most of these families are enviable. But in Chinese history, there are many families that prosper from the beginning and begin to lose in the end. If a family is about to begin to decline, what are the more obvious signs?

Personally, when a family begins to decline, there are these very obvious signs:

01, the descendants are idle all day long, and no longer work hard, if a family wants to be strong, it can't just rely on the efforts of a certain generation. Don't take what we often say, now that the post-80s have laid down the world for us, it is up to the post-90s to inherit it themselves, everyone always says that the post-90s can't be idle, they need to continue to work hard, and the same is true for a family. If it is said that in a big family, the seniors have laid the foundation for the younger generations, but the younger generations are idle all day long and do not work hard, then in the end, the family will only decline.

Although it may be rich and powerful at the beginning, in the later stage, the family will definitely suffer a blow and slowly decline.

02, the hierarchy is too obvious, the child lives without his own ideas, when I was in the book "Home", what impressed me the most was that the hierarchy at home was too obvious. Their family is full of feudal ideology, and only the older people in the family are heaven and earth. And if a family has a very obvious hierarchy, and children can only listen to the ideas of adults in everything and live without their own ideals, then the family is bound to decline.

You must know that if you want to make your back self-reliant, you must first have your own ideas and be able to walk the path you want to take, so that you can realize your life value and better carry forward the family. On the other hand, if a person lives a very poor life, has no ideas of his own, and has to listen to other people's opinions on everything, then the family will only begin to decline.

03, do not seek new development, only gnaw at the old book Nowadays, although some families say that the economic conditions are very good, but this is also the foundation laid by parents, when the foundation of parents is in the hands of children, we have to seek new development opportunities. Nowadays, some people don't know how to do business at all, and they don't seek new development, they will only blindly gnaw at their old roots, and what their parents do, they will do themselves. If you will only inherit your parents' industry, you don't know anything about it, you don't have any innovation, and you don't seek new development, then the family will slowly become lonely.

In fact, whether it was before or now, you can see that there is such a family, the original family power is very strong, but in the later stage, it began to slowly return to the ordinary, and even ordinary families are not comparable, and the reason why they will eventually be lonely is also because of the above reasons.

The decay of a family often appears as a "loser", a person who is lazy, always rude to others, and does not want to make progress, and the relationship between husband and wife is also rifted, and there are families that are not harmonious, and there are people who have morally corrupt behaviors in the family or families who have touched on legal problems or even constituted crimes.

This sign can be described as an idiom, the signs of rebellion and decay will undoubtedly begin with their own relatives and friends, who gradually distance themselves from themselves and are no longer as enthusiastic as before.

There are these signs that a family begins to decay. The child begins to be disobedient, and the more he talks, the more he talks back. My husband doesn't come home, he often fools around outside, and he doesn't listen to his wife at all.

Answer; When a family begins to decline, there are the following signs:

1, the husband and wife are out of harmony, 2, the family members have gambling and alcoholism**, 3, the family is inseparable from the word "luxury".

4. Tutoring disorder.

The main sign is that there is a loser in the family, that is, whether the family has money or not, if there is a child in the family who can spend money and will not make money, then it is the strongest sign that the family is beginning to decline.

Others have said that the family and everything is prosperous, and the decay of the family is because there are more conflicts in the family, so it is said that it is down.

The main reason for the decline of the family is that the husband and wife are not in harmony, the views are inconsistent, they always love to quarrel, the children are not angry, and the parents do not pay attention to the children's learning.

Home and everything is prosperous, and good luck is good all year round.

It is irresponsible for a child to leave it alone and leave it to the elderly to raise. Children squeeze money out of the elderly, and take it for granted. If something strange happens, you should be vigilant.

A family, if it was originally in the moment of its thriving career, suddenly encountered a series of changes. Especially in this family, if everything suddenly goes wrong, and even if the family invests in business or does other things, but encounters "strange things" that continue to break money, then we must be vigilant. This shows that our family members may encounter the influence of some unfavorable factors, and this unfavorable factor has formed a "butterfly effect", which will make their family economy sink deeper and deeper, and the bad luck of their own family will come one after another.

That must be that parents will always ignore each other, and often quarrel over trivial things, and always don't want children.