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One, people who are extremely jealous. Second, people who speak are not words and are duplicitous. Third, people who are morally corrupt and have no bottom line in doing things. Staying away from these three types of people will definitely purify your circle of life.
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Especially scheming people, people who speak unreliable, people with very low IQs, and smart people never associate with these three kinds of people, and they will not have any dealings with them.
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As the saying goes, those who are close to Zhu are red and those who are close to ink are black, so when smart people choose their friends, they will never choose people who have no credit, hypocritical people, and people with dark personalities, once they are friends with them, they are also very likely to be hurt.
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Don't interact with villains, don't interact with leaders, don't interact with subordinates, this is a necessary process for us to reduce our troubles in life, and contact with villains will only waste time, and leaders accept unequal status, it is difficult to become real friends, and contact with subordinates is the same reason.
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We can't participate in other people's family affairs, and we shouldn't ask blind relatives. It is a family affair that should be discussed and cooperated with each other by the family, rather than sharing the family affair with outsiders and allowing outsiders to participate in it. Every family has its own affairs, and you need to take care of your own family affairs, and you don't allow your family and yourself to suffer any damage, don't keep asking about their family's affairs, and don't force others to say it.
The ugliness of the family should not be publicized. It is not convenient to spread the word about undignified things in the family. When dealing with people, keep this in mind and never force others to talk about their own family affairs.
Respect others, do not allow others to feel resistant, it is not easy to become more and more unpopular, it is not easy to encounter a lot of hardships, and you will not feel that the road is getting more and more difficult to walk, and there are more and more troubles.
Whether it is between relatives or friends, try not to talk about love. Everyone knows in their hearts that there are many ways to borrow money, and not only from yourself. Since it is a variety of forms, you must not think of certain people and borrow money when you are poor.
No matter how rich a person is, how much money he has in his hand, don't always think about taking it, but you can't have the idea of not paying it back.
As a result of borrowing, many have become enemies. One party does not borrow, the other party does not want to, the contact between the two gradually decreases, one party lends out, the other party does not pay back, and the two can't even be friends. Not wanting to borrow, and not wanting to repay, may affect the emotion, and will make a certain distance between the two.
People get along with each other, it is possible not to borrow money from each other, and it is possible not to waste others' cheapness. That is, being able to do many other things without mentioning money. The better the person, the more he thinks, and it is not easy to destroy the association because of money.
When you want money and have a lot to buy, the best choice should not be to find someone to shout poor.
To be honest, no one wants to mention their own "bad things", and no one wants to hear others say these things about themselves. What I have experienced is very painful and I don't want to recall. As time goes by, I have long forgotten the similarity, and I don't want to be lifted by others again and add salt to it.
When communicating with people, before talking about something, remember whether the thing should be said or not, rather than not thinking about it, and say it immediately.
The listener has the heart, but the speaker has no intention. The one who speaks is negligent, but the obedient one is very attentive. Every word you say may cause harm to the girl, so you should be clear about this, and you can think about it when you speak.
When the two of them are talking, they need to have a certain grasp, and if they don't want to say anything, don't say it. In that way, no one will be hurt, and it will not be easy to have several enemies in life.
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The first is not to touch other people's privacy, the second is not to take advantage of others easily, and the third is to do things with as little favor as possible.
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When you interact with others, you will not touch other people's family affairs, never touch other people's emotional things, and do not touch things that will make the other person feel disgusted.
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In general, they know not to touch other people's privacy, or not to touch other people's sad past.
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I think this shows that the smarter the person, the more he looks down on others, and he will feel that others are delaying his time, which is a very bad character.
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This is that if the thoughts are not together, how can they communicate, and naturally they will not communicate.
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For me, socializing is a hassle and doesn't do it very well for me, and while some socialization is essential, I never do it and don't socialize effectively. If you are strong, you will have friends
In fact, a smart person, he doesn't need to socialize, and he doesn't want to be afraid of loneliness, but he would rather do something to make him happy, live a lonely life, and not be with people who make him upset. In fact, many people think that they need friends very much, so they make all kinds of friends in a mess, but in fact, when you need help, no one can stand up and support your waist. After people encounter this situation, they just want to make themselves work harder, they don't need to get help from others, and more often they can solve problems with money, they don't rely on human favors.
There is a saying that the aroma of wine is not afraid of deep alleys, and people are the same, when a person is very strong, he is not afraid of having no friends at all.
Ineffective socializing, wasting time
Personally, I don't like to waste time doing ineffective socializing, because I always talk to people about things that are not in the right way, and I don't have any interest in talking about other people, I just want to talk about things that interest us with my little sister. A lot of times, I'd rather take the time to improve myself and make me stronger, I like to talk to the person who makes me better, I want me to be useful to him, I also want all my time to be valuable, a lot of socializing is about complimenting each other at the wine table, it's really meaningless. I don't want to waste time, I just want to make good use of my youth, within a limited time, to achieve the maximum benefit, swelling, I myself in the value of life, in the future years of life will not regret that I wasted my time.
We don't need so many friends at all, we want people who can fight side by side with us!
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High-IQ people also have weaknesses, they may be more sensitive and stubborn, perfectionist, have poor interpersonal relationships, and do not like to participate in social interactions.
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Mainly because these smart people may feel that socializing is meaningless. So they may not be very social. And I feel that it is very troublesome to socialize, and it is better to be alone.
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Because some social interactions don't do much for people, but instead put a lot of pressure on people, some smart people don't participate in some useless social interactions.
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It is because socializing is particularly troublesome and cumbersome, and it also tests a person's social skills and language expression skills in the process of socializing, and many people are unwilling to waste time on this.
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Because smart people will feel that the people around them are inferior to themselves, and socializing is to make people who are like-minded with them.
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Over time, their language skills will deteriorate, which makes them even more socially unadaptable. When facing a crowd, they are embarrassed by their unskilled language.
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They know that no one can take away their abilities.
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Because smart people feel that others are different from their starting line, they have no way to communicate, and they can't understand what they say, and on the contrary, they can't understand each other.
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