The family disliked her boyfriend because the doctor was unlucky and forced us to break up

Updated on society 2024-05-28
54 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Fainting, it's really hard to do. But first give you an emergency method, temporarily promise your parents, break up with him, and ensure that this year is safe and smooth. As soon as the Lantern Festival is over, you are discussing this matter with your parents, of course, love is your own, if your boyfriend is very good, it is still recommended that you stick to it and slowly convince your parents.

    Of course, your contingency should be explained to your boyfriend so that he can help you through the difficult situation before convincing your parents.

    In addition, let me talk about my personal opinion: In fact, it is really good to find a doctor, this time my father is sick, how difficult is it to find a doctor? If you marry a doctor, many things will be much easier.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You can find a time to talk to your parents about the benefits and disadvantages of becoming a doctor. Your parents' understanding is only one-sided, doctors are angels who save people, of course, doctors are not gods and there are patients who can't be saved, but that's only a minority. Your parents will be anxious that you break up to show that your parents don't know enough about him, after all, they are likely to live together in the future, and it is important to understand each other.

    Now that you have someone you like, don't give up easily.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    How good it is to have a doctor at home, how uncomfortable it is to have someone at home, and how convenient it is for someone to be in the hospital. Offense, your family is a bit unreasonable. As long as you and your boyfriend are happy, your parents feel the benefits of having a doctor and son-in-law, so they will naturally not be guilty.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Ask your parents, don't you get sick? Won't feel unwell? Won't there be any mishaps?

    I'm not cursing your family, I'm just telling the truth! Each of us needs to thank the doctors. Because my sister is a doctor.

    It's not that in order to maintain reputation, in fact, being a doctor is more painful than the patient's family.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Live your own. You won't live with your parents for the rest of your life. Identify your choice. Grab the happiness! The opposite of being a doctor is a profession that accumulates virtue. How can I say that it saves people's lives. Hehe.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's a lot of flattering during this time, and when fifteen is over, let's talk about what your boyfriend usually does, of course, it's all small things.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If anyone is sick, they want to know a doctor.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Do your work carefully and take your time.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's okay if you don't pull someone to death! After all, they are also living people! Care.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Water flushing is useless. Let's burn a handful of dried mugwort leaves in the car.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's okay! If there is no infectious disease, no special treatment is required, and I helped a friend carry the dead, and it will be fine.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I've been busy with this for the past two days, and I don't feel it...It's just a matter of the heart.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    No, the family needs popularity, and it will become prosperous when outsiders come, and friends from afar will be happy!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's okay, don't think about it, the two of them are quite pitiful.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's not easy for the grave keeper to be sincere, so be considerate of him. Today's young people will only be quite civil servants, and no one will be a grave keeper at all, don't care what others think, ask yourself if you love him.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you love her, even if he is a family member who digs out dung, he can't change you, let alone control you, communicate well and let go of prejudice.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Either change the family's mind about him, or break up, or be with him but ignore the family, this will be a little harder, it is recommended to choose the first one, tell the family from a rational point of view, let them understand the profession, give up prejudice.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's really unlucky! If you can, tell him to change jobs.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    As long as you like it, you have to convince your family seriously, and it is best to get their approval. Otherwise, everyone will be unhappy and will not be happy, especially your parents, you are their baby. Don't break the hearts of adults.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you don't change it, if you don't do it, you can lie.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You don't have to like it. You can tell your family. It's not a decent job, but it's enough to support a family.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I think grave keeper is also a profession, there is no distinction between high and low professions, if you like him, you should bravely accept it.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's good that you don't dislike it, what you want to live with him is that you are not your family's ......

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The family makes sense, be obedient.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Do you mind, if you don't mind, just be brave together.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Your mother's idea makes sense, you still ask from the side, what is the other party's family like, if it's not good, you don't have to rush to get married, spend more time with your boyfriend, and recognize his true colors.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Try to show your mother that you are sincere, and persuade her not to look at the whole.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Is reality really bad? Stick to your own opinion and keep your parents' opinion.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Hello to you! Families with a bad reputation do have a lot of problems that can manifest themselves!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Reputation is important, so it's best to ask clearly. Wishing you happiness!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Listen to the old man, it may not be five tones.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    That's right, reputation matters.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Although it is said that a marriage without family blessings is unhappy, it is he who lives with you for the rest of his life, if you have the financial ability and the relationship is in place, you can hold on, but you should also persuade your parents more, and show your determination while respecting them. I really don't agree, you can send money to your parents regularly after you are together, care more about them, alas, everything needs to be worked hard ......In fact, my parents are quite different in age, although my mother was also very aggrieved at the beginning, although the family has only begun to improve in recent years, but we have been very happy these years, my mother is very concerned about Dad, and Dad sometimes buys a couple cup or something, hehe.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If you think this man is worth it, you should stick to it, you don't know what to do now, it's just that your love for this man is not firm enough, and you're not sure if you can get the due reward for falling out with your family for him! It is impossible for the family to insist on breaking you up completely because of the man's appearance, after all, the family is thinking about your future happiness, they are all from the past, and can roughly predict whether this man can give you a happy future, you are now in a period of confusion, and all your thoughts are rooted in your man, at this time, you should calmly analyze, analyze the feelings, economy, life, and all aspects of your relationship, listen to the analysis of your family, just listen to it, and the decision is still up to you in the end.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Let me say a realistic word, a marriage without family blessings is unhappy, you can persuade your parents to give up if not, or be prepared to be unhappy in the future marriage often quarrels and insist on being with him.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    This matter does not depend on your boyfriend or your family, the key depends on whether you have the ability to choose your marriage partner independently, if you are financially independent, the family is willing to pick and choose at will, anyway, you can call the shots, if you rely on your family for food, clothing and transportation, maybe you have to get married and take a 350,000 or 70,000 from the family, then you will listen to what the family says, this is called respecting investors.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If you really love each other, don't give up, love and marriage are all your own, it's up to you to decide, just listen to your family's opinions, their choices can't replace you, happiness is your own, if you really love, he is also very good to you, really love you, then stick to it. Tell your family how important he is to you. You must think about it well, and you must consider the pros and cons clearly.

    Don't let yourself regret it for the rest of your life.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Talk to your family more as long as you feel good and don't regret it later.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    The problem depends on the mainstream, what reasons do your family members force you to break up, and the subject should observe the worldview, outlook on life, and values of both parties, and if there is a big difference in this regard, then you should listen to your family's opinions more. Instead, you should demonstrate your own discernment. Since you are meeting your family, it means that you have been dating for a while; Since you think that your boyfriend doesn't behave very well when you see your family, it means that he is not usually like this, you ask a frog to destroy your boyfriend, why is this happening, is it deliberate?

    Still too nervous?

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    First of all, I really want to say to you:- Marriage is a matter for the two of you, happiness is in your own hands, don't be held back by your parents, although they also want you to live a good life, but you have to understand that a house can't control love, if you have feelings, are you still afraid of being exposed to the wind and sun?

    To put it bluntly, as long as you are willing, you can directly apply for a marriage certificate, can your parents agree? If they break with you because of this, then they want your marriage to be selfish, raw rice cooked and ripe, and fate in their own hands.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Uh......Parents of good power!

    They don't like him for any other reason, such as character, your parents definitely want you to be good, and you have seen many more people than you, and the girl's family doesn't have much youth consumption.

    If the other person is good and loves you, just wait for him to succeed in starting a business, and then everything will be easy to say, be honest with her parents, talk to her heart, and her assertive and considerate daughter will be understood by her parents, don't run away from it.

    If you don't have a deep relationship, you don't have to continue.

    Bless you!

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    It's all the house's fault...

    You are the nth right because of the separation of the house, and I don't know how many times a day a script like yours repeats it, a lot.

    People don't seek to be right, but only to be emotionally aligned. . .

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    You first persuade your parents to see if they can negotiate and lower their requirements for your boyfriend, and you can't blame them How can there be any parent in the world who wants their daughter to suffer?

    You're so old and still thinking about running away from home? Your parents are sad and sad, can you bear it? If you go with your boyfriend, will you drink the Mistral Wind after that? Have you thought about it?

    If you have to choose whether it's a parent or a partner, I think you'll choose seriously!

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    There's no way, only let your family slowly accept him, do a good job of your parents' ideological work, it's not a problem for a man to have no money in his family, as long as this man is self-motivated, wouldn't it be good to make money, why care about his family, not to mention what kind of family he was born in and what kind of family he was born in is not something he can control.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    I think this is the best time to test your boyfriend's affection for you, and while you are still young, you have to tell him to fight hard so that your parents can see that he is sincere to you and that he is capable of taking care of you. In fact, the fundamental problem in this matter is not your parents, but between you and your boyfriend, and the happiness you live is what your parents want to see the most.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Since he loves the right person, what if his parents oppose him, he knows that your parents dislike him a little because of his poor family, and if you are willing to follow him, he will definitely work hard to make a career. Men are very face-saving!

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    The previous paragraph is very similar to my roommate. The conditions between myself and my boyfriend are very different. But it is inseparable from him. I think it's time to test whether your boyfriend is a potential stock. Support him well and hope that he can bring you happiness.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Do you love him very much? Does he love you very much? The parents' approach is just to hope that you can live a little better, and you ask yourself, if you follow him in the future, life is not very good, can you bear it?

    You have to believe that if you insist on being with him, your parents can't stop you, and they're blocking you for your own good, even if it's a little bit more powerful.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    If you can stand the test, then you can succeed by spending it, not dividing it, and not getting married.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Let your parents recognize his potential.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    The first thing is that you have to make up your mind, do you really love him? If you are together in the future, will you have conflicts over money and hurt each other's hearts? As the saying goes, a poor couple mourns everything, but if you are really ready to endure hardships with him, no matter who obstructs you, you will not be able to separate you!

    Parents want nothing more than to make their child happy, if he can give you the happiness you want in the future, then why don't you stay with him? But the premise is that he must be a motivated person, it doesn't matter if the family background is not good, but if people don't work hard, they can't be saved, if you let your parents see your hard work and determination to be together, I think your parents will not obstruct too much!

    Is the little brother you are talking about the second child of your family? It's good to have a little brother, and many things will be taken care of in the future! It's just that people shouldn't feel superfluous at any time, everyone can be born strong, isn't it?

    Don't shy away from facing the problem head-on and making rational and mature decisions, okay? Wishing you happiness!

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    If your age can wait, I think you should let your guy show some grades.

    If he's really the guy you want, that's up to you. Happiness is earned on one's own. Do you understand?

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    If this love can really withstand the challenge, you might as well cut off contact with your family first, try your best to assist your lover to complete your career, and then go home in a beautiful way, but, husband and wife, many times, can share hardships and hardships, can not share wealth Hehe, please think twice! ยท

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Marriage without the consent of both parents is annoying, unless you live in another city. Aloof.

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