I m dating my boyfriend right now! My family is firmly against it! What should I do?

Use the love of both of you to influence your family, and time will settle them!

Listen to your family's opinions, yes. My friend and I also disagreed with my parents at the beginning, because I was still in school, he was at work, and then we separated, but he contacted me and came to me, and we dated again, and after my parents met him, they didn't have any opinions.

If you really want to live with him for the rest of your life, you don't want to think about it so much, the family will accept him one day, if not, you should listen to your family's opinion.

If you love him, you will stick to it to the end!

I'm sticking with you!

My wife's mom was like that, but I'm used to it, and I'll joke with her mom when she catches us.

Are you and your boyfriend in tow, or is it your family and your boyfriend? As long as you truly love each other, don't give up.

It's always right to listen to your parents, after all, they have encountered better things than us, if you want to be happy for a lifetime, listen to your parents!

Ours is just for your reference, the key is up to you.

The experience of you and a good friend of mine is very similar.

I told her that there are only two ways to go, either you and this boy make it clear and clear.

Either you make it clear to your family that he will not marry in this life, and the family must have an understanding.

You can't hide it from your family, something will happen sooner or later.

Moreover, parents do not favor their children, they are all for the good of their children.

Since they don't agree, there is a reason why they don't agree.

If you think that this boy is worthy of your love and worth everything for him, then can you not even want home?

Even if your parents say something like breaking off your relationship with you, it's angry.

No parent doesn't want their child, even if she does something wrong.

Do you understand? You love each other so much, why do you have to argue?

You think it through.

I'm sorry, but I'm excited when I talk about this, because your affairs are too similar, and her affairs have not been resolved yet, and sometimes, I feel sorry for her when I think about it. In fact, the boy is not as good as she thinks, we can all see it, but she can't see it herself, maybe it's just a fan of the authorities. She won't listen to what we say, there's nothing we can do, she'll regret it sooner or later, really.

I'm not cursing her, I'm worrying about her. That man was not worthy of her love at all. ）

Two options:

One: Breaking up, although it is very painful, but it is only temporary, and you will slowly forget the past after a long time, otherwise your parents will not agree, and you will be hurt in the end

Two: Communicate with your family, let them understand your feelings, after all, it is you who really want to marry, not them, but they must also do it for your own good, and they don't want you to be hurt in the future

So you better think about it carefully, the person who really knows you is still yourself!

I guess you'd better break up.

Although my heart hurt at the time, I had to face it sooner or later!

You also have to think about the people in your family.

You can talk about a period of fun first, and if you think it's good, you can continue to develop, and if it's not good, you can divide it. But if you want to be optimistic about the other party's character, if you want to find a second-rate person, it will be sad.

Don't let yourself suffer.

Actually, it's nothing.

Fall in love! Hehe, I advise you to wait a little longer. For 17-year-olds, they are still very hazy about love, and they are also the most afraid of being hurt. If your mental quality is okay, you can also try the Tao.

Try it but not deeply! so as not to be able to extricate themselves.

Elementary school students have girlfriends, and you're not in a hurry.

Time will slowly smooth everything out, and your family will slowly recognize your boyfriend.

Because your family actually loves you very much and is afraid that you will be hurt.

So if you're not good enough, capable enough, and convincing them enough, they won't give you a relationship.

To put it simply, the older generation can only be dragged for the purpose of getting married.

The thoughts are relatively close.

This is called a generation gap, and it is more difficult for them to understand.

But that doesn't affect you, although you may not be able to go shopping, watch movies, or anything like other couples.

But if you can escape for a date, you will cherish it.

How is your relationship, is it appropriate? Sooner or later, the right family will agree! But you have to listen carefully to the reasons why your family disagrees, and it is better to be cautious in your life.

It's completely useless to hide like this all the time. Why is your family dissatisfied with your boyfriend, find out the reason, and prescribe the right medicine. Take your boyfriend home more often, let him please the family member who is most softened first, and then break them down one by one.

Don't give up trying just because you fail once. Of course, it's all based on his love for you.

Divide it! Family talent is the most important.

Why doesn't your family agree?

I won't always disagree, I will expose my boyfriend to my family from time to time What is my identity, I want to go, but don't be too frequent to improve my boyfriend's image in the family and then turn around and mention it slowly and slowly probe the wind I think the time is good Just have a showdown It shouldn't be difficult If it doesn't work anymore, just say that you have lived together If the family doesn't care about these That's the old way One cry, two trouble, three hanging, of course, it's not that serious, for example, the specific way to make trouble is also carefully pondered by yourself You have to start according to your family's preferences and interests You have to make your boyfriend suffer a little But it's worth it for him.

I wish you all the best of luck to your families soon.

If you are over 18 years old, then you can do your patting, as this is legal and reasonable. If you're not full, that's hard to say, because your parents are your guardians and you should understand that they are doing it for your good. Science and practice have proven that the probability of success in minors is not large, and it is not good for the body and mind.

What is the reason why you are not allowed to procrastinate? If you are young, you can keep in touch When you are an adult, if the other party still loves you, you continue to start, if the door is not right, look at you, you are not afraid of hard life in the future, you are not afraid of relatives looking down on you, you really love each other, you insist on your love.

I think you'd better do your family's job, and I hope your boyfriend behaves well in front of your family

Use the facts to prove that you love him, so that your family will only marry you and him.

If he is a worthy person, the appraisal goes on, and your family will eventually compromise.

Oh, it's about the same as me, and I love my girlfriend too. Time will tell, don't worry, I believe it will be good, don't waver.

See if the two of you are really suitable, whether the two of you can overcome some problems together, both parties are firm in their love for each other, and use actions to convince your parents. It's not easy to find someone who loves you now, we all have to cherish the person who loves us, try not to do things that hurt our parents' hearts, and communicate more with our parents. Bless you all.

It's better to think twice about this kind of thing, after all, you have to live a lifetime, keep a fresh mind, test more, other people's is just a reference, the road is your own, just don't regret it.

Cherish it. , there are a few people in your life who let you give up, haunted by your dreams.

Don't miss out. All kinds of regrets.

If there is only one trade-off, get to know your boyfriend's parents and family, and if the character is not good, then forget it.

Finding a partner is a matter of two people, and marriage is a matter of two families.

Calm down and think about why your mom said that, maybe it's true.

Be sober. Listen to adults. Your parents won't hurt you. It's hard to say about men.

It should be remembered that the doorman has this statement and advise him not to be a far-away daughter.

Be sensible, listen to your own heart, your own happiness is in your own hands, even your parents can't interfere with it, this is my character

With the person you love the most, your parents will be fine after just getting angry for a while.

You can also force each other to die and see who is compared.

It's better for men not to believe it, they are not good people, and they are the best at pretending.

Why does your mother think like this, just do what you like, and don't ask your family to get money in the future.

Don't listen to the old man's words and suffer in front of you, reflect on it It's not easy for your parents to raise you.

Follow your feelings, it doesn't matter who forces whom!

I think it's up to you to choose whoever you love the most.

Cherish the people who love you, love you, and give you happiness.

It is not easy to be able to find a love that belongs to you, it is even more difficult to be with your loved ones, if you think that he is a person you are worth paying, then, you should believe in yourself, although it proves that your parents, and the facts see that you are right, in fact, they also greet, if you make them feel that you are really happy with this guy, then I think they have no reason to oppose you.

But you have a certain is that the person is looking for his good for you or the person you love, and you are not the moment, but the classic, tested from all aspects of time.

You need to know that you are dying with him, your family, and you may face a lose-lose situation, and he is not burdened with such pressure.

Don't let yourself regret the day, it's good to think about it really seriously.

Actually, as long as you don't react too aggressively. Because the mentality of parents is understandable, don't make fools around and do stupid things on this basis. You are in the third year of junior high school, they think it will affect your studies or you are too young to worry about you suffering, if you study, study hard to show them, and you can also keep a low profile.

On the basis of what you still wish to talk about ... Of course, you can think about it yourself, do you want to insist on it, after all, you are going to graduate, and you will have a shared experience in the future, maybe it is just a flash in the pan now? Right?

Now that you are an important moment of elevation, it is understandable that your family will oppose you. Listen to your family's opinions, and keep a sober and rational attitude towards this love. It's good to be able to balance the people you love on both sides, but if you can't, stand up for your family.

If your boyfriend loves you, he will understand the situation and help you through this period, rather than making you turn against your family. This is a great time to experience each other. ​

Do you know what love is? Puppy love is not a problem, don't treat this as a lifelong event, be careful to get mental illness or something, then the matter will be big.

You two just have a normal relationship. However, for now, it is still necessary to focus on academics. After all, I don't know as much about love as I do. Listen to your parents' advice. Think more about the future.

You should study hard, let your boyfriend study well, the current age is in the study period, study for your future to be better, both of you study hard, and lay a firm and solid foundation for both of you to have enough conditions to be worthy of each other in the future. Now let the two of you go out together and live independently without relying on your parents, it is estimated that you will not be able to live for half a month, because you currently lack cultural knowledge and have no ability to live independently, let alone have children.

In junior high school, breaking up is just an inevitable ending.

Believe me, there really is nothing to be done in a relationship now. Your current age is still ignorant. If you can, it's best not to cross the line just yet.

Otherwise, you'll regret it later. Many people have been dissuaded, but no one has listened. Don't feel like you're the exception.

You don't need to define whether you love or not, you just need to seriously find a happy feeling with your boyfriend in studying together. Don't spend all your time playing and missing each other, but learn lessons together, and you can still get along.

I think it's better for you to finish your studies first.

Now that you are in love, there is no result, it will only make you grow up.

Isn't it just what you want?

It's really up to your boyfriend? If he really loves you, his parents wouldn't be a problem, would they?

If he really chooses his parents, it means that he doesn't love you, maybe he will find all kinds of reasons to tell you that men are basically excuses for saying such things! Just make yourself feel less guilty!

Don't be suspicious now!! Work hard every day, go to school, and make yourself better!

Be confident, you are not confident in how others love you!

So don't dwell on that now! Work hard in the past two years! Don't grab your boyfriend vertically and don't let him escape!

Don't be too pessimistic and be confident!!

It's normal to have five years of hard time. It's normal for parents to object, and it has to be done through the efforts of both of you.

Did your boyfriend pass this on to you, and if so, you left him The question is that it all depends on your friend's attitude.

You should watch more Korean dramas!

If you don't have fate, let's divide it! Actually, I say this very hard, but when you get to graduation, what the doesn't agree with you? As long as your boyfriend is not assertive, you should break up!

Your boyfriend is not looking for a daughter-in-law! As long as he doesn't understand this, you have been together for five years, that is, fifty years, you are like this, hehe, in fact, I also broke up for this reason, although he really wants to be with me, but he can't be his parents' master, he will only be embarrassed when we are together, so we broke up, we can only say that we are not fated.