What is it like to be strong inside?

Able to control their emotions reasonably. Many problems can be solved smoothly, but they are lost to our emotions. A lot of regretful things can actually be remedied, but they are lost to our emotions.

Many unnecessary contradictions can be avoided, and they are also lost to our emotions. Emotions are a way of expressing emotions given to us by God, as a kind of our attributes, it should be controlled and used by us, but our hearts are not strong enough We often can't control our emotions, anger, anxiety, doubt, grief, can control us at any time, so that we can't control our behavior, everything is not going well. Therefore, I think that the biggest advantage of a person who is really strong in his heart is that he can control his emotions, behave in a friendly manner when he should be angry, and calm himself a little more when he should be anxious, in fact, many problems are not a problem. ‍‍

When your heart is strong! All the realms in front of you will not be put in the heart, let alone joy, anger and sorrow, people are trapped by the realm in front of them every day, the mind can not get a little peace, these realms are actually changed by our own hearts, if your heart is settled in one place, what others say can not be heard, what they see do not know, what they eat can not taste ......So if the mind is not moving, there will be no realm, the heart is moving, everything is moving, the heart is moving, everything is moving!

No matter what happens, you can still maintain a stable state of mind and not easily sway due to changes in your surroundings, which is called strong endurance.

Once you are disturbed by things and have a bad mood, you can quickly adjust it, which is called strong recovery ability.

As long as you are brave enough, you can cultivate all of this.

The key is whether you dare to put yourself in an unfamiliar environment, without shelter, without understanding, without love. And after you have the ability to solve your own survival and development problems, you still have the ability to shelter, understand and care for others.

The more you can give, the broader your landscape and the higher your achievements.

The action is 100%, and the heart can be strong enough not to be disturbed by the outside world. I don't think it's about being strong inside, it's about your ability or belief that at least one of them is strong enough. ‍‍

To borrow a sentence: Those who have not cried for a long night are not enough to speak about life. Thomas Carlisle For myself, my inner strength is that I cried in the quilt at night, and the next day was a beautiful day, there is no hurdle that I can't pass, there is no mountain that I can't climb, and no matter how bad things happen, there is always its meaning and value.

It's good to do your best for your feelings, and when you break it, you have to always believe in yourself and believe that the world is still beautiful. ‍‍

Realize that no one has "saved" you but yourself. Whether it's going to graduate school or falling out of love, how desperate you struggle, how long you have to indulge in sadness, to be honest, it's up to you to decide. If you want to change the status quo, you can only be cruel to yourself. ‍‍

Accept the gap and work to close it. Accept fragility and work to weed it out. Accept the pain and work hard to get hurt. Receive success, and try to forget about it. Don't let others influence your path. Not afraid, not afraid, unyielding. ‍‍

Do not debunk. They act, watch, and do not debunk; They lie, listen, and do not debunk; They brag, listen, do not debunk; They pretend, look, and do not debunk; They are hypocritical. Don't debunk it, return to your own world and live your own firewood, rice, oil and salt reading homework.

reminds me of a line in the movie "Dirt": "Don't be afraid, you must know that others are as afraid as you are, and I am very afraid, but I don't let people see it." It's all deceitful. ”‍

No matter what happens, know it: it will pass. No matter what happens, don't give up on yourself, don't indulge yourself. No matter what happens, do what needs to be done. ‍‍

As long as my heart is stronger, then it must be a more exciting thing for me.

It's just that I was bullied to the point that I had nothing to say, and my heart was extremely cold.

Calm and fearless.

Those who are strong in their hearts have generally experienced suffering that ordinary people have not experienced. Because this kind of person has suffered, the psychological quality of the whole person will be relatively strong. Among the people who have the impression of being strong in their hearts, Wu Qingfeng in the entertainment industry is very consistent. <>

Lip-syncing", "no talent", "girly", "plagiarism", etc. are all malicious to him. In the face of these doubts and doubts, if it was the young Wu Qingfeng, he would definitely go up to fight without saying a word, trying to tear off these rumor labels by force. But after so many years of experience in the entertainment industry, Wu Qingfeng has long learned to restrain his edge, and he has become more rational in dealing with those.

Many people think that Wu Qingfeng's transformation is cowardice and cowardice. But in my opinion, it is the heart that is strong. The impulse to face rumors and bad words at a young age becomes calm and calm after the baptism of years, which is precisely a kind of growth.

Concession is not cowardice, nor is it unconfident, but a kind of relief and calmness.

Wu Qingfeng is a very talented person, and his songs have a strong sense of resonance. Everyone who listens to his songs will be brought into the air and be moved. And you can also see his psychological process and his growth from the song. <>

Of course, in addition to Wu Qingfeng, there are many people with strong hearts in the entertainment industry, such as Chen Yanxi and others. Chen Yanxi: I think she is strong in her heart because she has a very big sense of gap. From Shen Jiayi, the goddess role sought after by tens of thousands of people, to Xiaolongbao, who was ridiculed later, her experience has been full of ups and downs.

And since marrying Chen Xiao, he has been hacked so much that he has not stopped, and it is rare to be able to remain optimistic in this situation. His psychological quality is particularly strong, he was not hacked from the beginning, he experienced glory, and then fell into the abyss of being hacked, but his whole performance did not have any sense of decadence, which is beyond the imagination of ordinary people.

Generally, they have experienced hardships that are very acceptable to people, and have experienced particularly painful things, so their will is tempered, and their hearts can become stronger.

There is a saying: don't laugh at someone else's scar, because that's a wound you haven't suffered. You can never imagine what a desperate moment a person with a strong heart went through.

If a woman marries well, she will be happy, and if she marries badly, her life will be ruined!

I'm okay with a friend, and I have a garage.

She knew a man who went to the city from the countryside, and she thought that this man looked ordinary and stable, and his clothes were a little rustic, so she thought he was safe and reliable.

But after getting married, this man is lazy, and he always uses her money to mess with flowers and play cards, and he really has no choice but to divorce.

But the man. After the divorce, he didn't do his job, he went to dance and go to the mahjong parlor to find a married woman to talk about extramarital affairs and cheat money, and the old and young ugly girls ate it all! Show off how many women you've played with.

Therefore, he can't see his character on the outside, many men don't look at him as ordinary and stable, but he is scheming inside!

They first fall in love with a woman and then borrow money, and this money will not be repaid, (borrowing money in the name of love makes women unguarded, and borrowing is not.) If you don't borrow it, it's not, women only suffer dumb losses).

They are much more shrewd than handsome guys, but they don't have so many ghost eyes in handsome.

How many women have suffered such a man's loss.

Inner strength is not necessarily the result of experiencing suffering, but it must be the result of mental maturity.

People who are strong in their hearts, have they experienced it helpful now? What went through? Life is inevitably bumpy, and people want to be an invincible warrior.

But the world is unpredictable, there are always unexpected things happening, such as emotional ups and downs, career setbacks, life setbacks, etc., who can be calm when encountering these things? Calm can be calm. A person with a strong heart, if it is not a natural thing, but has experienced too much, gradually becomes inner, full, and strong shell, even if it encounters unbearable things again, it can live intact.

Generally speaking, such an excellent person has vigorously experienced some things that ordinary people will experience, and they have experienced some things in the end, but they have different ways of dealing with them, such as taking them seriously, having the courage to face them, daring to self-reflect and self-change, and so on, and so on, which make the difference between people, after someone is ridiculed. Choice of inferiority and amblyopia.

Even self-doubt, but some people choose to reflect and change, and gradually become excellent and strengthened, this difference in attitude towards life, is destined to appear There is a clear difference between inner strength and mediocrity. In fact, there are also possible aspects of experience that can also make a person strong inside.

People with strong hearts have been trained by many things, and I think their first reaction when they encounter things is to find a way to solve them, and they deeply understand that complaining is useless, but will make them more frustrated. After experiencing many things, my mentality has matured, I have become more stable, I don't panic when I encounter problems, I have a clearer understanding of my abilities in all aspects, and I am calm and confident.

People with strong hearts will look back on the past and cherish what they have now even more when they look back on the past. They will understand the world better, and their hearts will become softer. They are upright and kind, and they never forget the hardships they have experienced, nor do they embarrass others.

What others are going through may be what they have been through.

People who are strong in their hearts generally have great abilities. If you have your own ability, you will not be afraid of all kinds of hardships in life or work, and because you have the ability, you will especially believe that you can have a way to solve it.

Secondly, people with strong hearts are generally very clean and pure. There will not be too many distractions about life and work, and they will be able to be natural and natural, and this kind of person's mentality will often be particularly good, and they will not be happy with things or sad about themselves.

There is a relationship between a person who is strong at heart and his experiences. For example, I have experienced a family accident, or I have suffered a lot of blows at work, etc. Actually, that's what we often call power.

experienced repeated defeats during the period of struggle; Experiencing the confusion of the bottleneck period; experienced the bitterness of lonely exploration on the path sought.

A person with a strong heart is a person who knows the world but not the world, even if he has experienced more, he will not forget his original intention, he will stick to his principles and kindness. I won't let myself live a depraved life because of some desires.

A person with a strong heart usually has the ability to be alone, although some will say that he is lonely and unsociable. But for him, low-quality socialization is not as good as high-quality solitude. He will not be mixed in interpersonal relationships for a long time because of the so-called gregariousness.

In real life, many people will put networking among them an excellent ability. As everyone knows, this so-called ability will hurt you.

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