How can you forget about the people you like??? 5

Updated on psychology 2024-05-16
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Remember: don't try to try to forget something, because the more you try to forget, the more you can't forget. Remember one more truth: true forgetting, you don't need to work hard.

    Remember who said that:

    If I want you not to think of a big pink stupid elephant at this time, then you will immediately have a big pink stupid elephant in your mind, right?

    So, don't want to forget him, time is the best medicine, you live your life, do whatever you have to do, go crazy karaoke, crazy shopping, crazy sports, it's all right. When I miss him very much, I write a note to recall the bits and pieces with him, so that everything in the past is forgotten in the notebook. I used to try to forget about a man, and then I wrote a long note and sent it to him, and he was noncommittal, but, slowly, I felt that he was gradually moving away behind me, and I realized that it was not the same to live without him, and I could have been like him for a few months, but I got a lot out of him, didn't I?

    I know how to care about my friends carefully, I know how to treat gains and losses with an optimistic attitude, I try to make myself able to afford to let go, and I know that happiness needs to wait with a persistent heart. Isn't there a saying: if someone is willing to wait, someone will always show up.

    Don't wonder how you can forget him, because you know it's futile, don't you? You know you can't forget him in a short time, do you? So aren't you deceiving yourself like this? And then to deceive us all?

    Time will dilute everything for you. If you want to say ruthless, the years are the most ruthless, and he can destroy the strongest heart. Be the best yourself, be the most fulfilling yourself, be the most beautiful yourself, constantly improve your temperament, quality, economic ability, and improve your own conditions as a loved one, you will find that there will be more suitable for you, and the most worthy of your love will appear.

    Don't try to forget him, because he will forget you ......You have to think about what he is doing when you think about how to forget him. Be kind to yourself, he doesn't cherish you, then cherish yourself before you are cherished.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Deliberately forget, will remember deeper, so don't deliberately forget, since you want to forget her, it means that the traces she once left in your heart should be relatively deep, let everything tend to be flat, what to do and what to do, don't let yourself often be alone and think hard, as time goes by, you will slowly forget.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Far away, distance is the grave of love.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Time can dilute everything; You can shift your goals and focus on work or whatever.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I'm the same, I want to forget, but it's not something that can be forgotten for a while, time is in charge.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Time is also to start a love again.

    The key is to look at yourself, see how much you gave at the time, and how deep your love was.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The best thing to do to forget anything is to write it down.

    So, write down all the memories of you and the people you like.

    In the future, it will be much easier to start a relationship that really belongs to you, and you may not be able to completely forget it, but when you look back at the memories that you thought were very good, you will feel that you are not without him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you really love someone, it's impossible to forget it!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The person you really love cannot be forgotten by man, only by time.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't think about forgetting, you'll forget it slowly. It's true.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Find a new one that you like better.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Let time rush to talk about everything, memories!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Empathy, don't love, but what is needed... It's time.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Missing out on someone you like is the biggest regret in life.

    If you have low self-esteem and dare not pursue and confess and miss it, then you may have to leave a lifetime of heartache and regret in your heart! may not be able to let go of it for a long time, may be heartbroken every time I think about it, and may blame myself for the rest of my life!

    It's one thing to have an opportunity, but it's one thing you can't afford to seize it; It's another thing if you don't dare to catch it. The former is objectively unable to grasp, and the latter is subjectively automated, so can it feel the same? It's definitely different!

    So, be confident, be confident! If you are not confident, you may not be able to grasp anything, and in the end you can only complain!

    To add a note, whether it is missed for objective reasons or for subjective reasons, missing is missing, try not to think too much, let go of what should be put down! Life needs to go on, how can you travel lightly when the burden is too heavy, isn't it?

    Alas, in life, there will always be some people or things missed for various reasons, and they should be released!

    How many people in the relationship are like this, because they were too strong, they didn't know how to cherish, they cared too much about face, and if they were not careful, they missed the person they loved, I thought it was no big deal, but in the end, that person became my lifelong regret.

    When you end up missing that person, you may not feel anything at the time, but as time goes by, your heart will hurt more and more.

    That person is no longer with you, you are no longer qualified to love him, all this makes you very mad, you even feel completely unacceptable, but these pains will always be forgotten with the passage of time.

    What should I do if I meet someone I like but seem to be missing? I think most people will choose to let go and persuade themselves that time can forget everything, forget that person, and we will meet the person we like so much again.

    It wasn't until much later that I found out that missing it was a lifetime, and after that, I met a lot of people, but I didn't have that kind of heart anymore.

    I thought that I could forget you if I was long enough, but I was wrong, time did not dilute my liking for you, but I knew my heart more clearly, I thought about you all the time, I wanted to be you for the rest of my life, but I have lost you, the rest of my life is still long, you are good, I want to live alone.

    We will all miss a person we like, and we may miss a relationship that should belong to us, but no matter what, life still has to go on, don't lose the joy of life because you miss someone, and one day you will make up for the regret you missed at the beginning.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Summary. Hello dear, there are the following ways to forget about the person you like 1, delete all the connections about him 2, don't always recall the past with him 3, work harder than before to make yourself better 4, don't pay attention to his dynamics 5, fill the emotional gap You can devote yourself to work, enrich your time, keep yourself busy, and let yourself have no time to think about him at all. Then you will slowly forget about his <>

    How to forget the people you like.

    Hello dear, there are the following ways to forget about the person you like 1, delete all the connections about him 2, don't always recall the past with him 3, work harder than before to make yourself better 4, don't pay attention to his dynamics 5, fill the emotional gap You can devote yourself to work, enrich your time, keep yourself busy, and let yourself have no time to think about him at all. Then you will slowly forget about his <>

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  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    There are 4 steps to forget about the person you like: 1. Accept reality; 2. Find out more about the shortcomings of the people you like; 3. Tell yourself that you don't need to deliberately forget; 4. Start a new relationship.

    1. Accept the reality and realize that no matter how much you like it, you can't have it, you can only like it.

    The reason why people can't let go of a person, or a favorite thing, is because they have expectations. Expecting to get, expecting to have it forever.

    Therefore, if you like someone, but the reality has doomed you to not be together, then recognize the reality, accept the reality, and no longer fantasize or expect.

    2. Find out more about the shortcomings of the person you like, and think more about the problems you may find when you are really together.

    Sometimes, the more you stare at the merits of the person you like, the more you feel the pity of loss, the more regretful you are, and the more you can't forget.

    In the early stage, when you are thinking about it, you can think more about the shortcomings of the person you like, and try to find the shortcomings, and gradually dilute the impression of that person in your heart. Gradually, I forgot about it.

    3. Tell yourself that you don't need to deliberately forget, and let the other party naturally fade in your heart.

    If you really want to forget someone, then it may mean that you haven't let go of your heart, and it is even more difficult to forget. Therefore, you have to tell yourself in your heart that there is no need to deliberately forget the person you like, you just need to remember, not deliberately remember.

    4. Start a new relationship, or cover the traces of that person with a fuller life.

    This step is to use this coercive intervention, or rather a deliberate act, to forget a person when the first three steps have not worked much.

    How to adjust your mindset when you fall out of love

    1. Learn to grieve regularly.

    When you just break up, pain and sadness are inevitable, but this sad emotion cannot be suppressed, and it must be channeled and vented in time.

    2. Divert attention from life.

    When you fall out of love, the most common reaction is to lose confidence, resentment, or to fall into self-depravity and escape from reality. At this time, we have to arrange some fulfilling work for ourselves to do, and we have no time to take care of the pain and troubles in our hearts.

    3. Rationally analyze the reasons for the breakup.

    After suffering for a while, we should face ourselves rationally and analyze the reasons for the breakup calmly and rationally. Now that the breakup is a fact, it is necessary to dare to face the reality.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Ways to forget about the people you like:

    1. Determine the degree of liking:

    The first thing to do is to be clear about how much you like it and whether it's worth the time and effort to forget. If it's just a slight loss of affection, or if the other person already has a partner, then forgetting may be the best option.

    2. Focus on other things:

    Shifting your attention to posture to other things, such as work, study, travel, sports, etc., can make your life more fulfilling and alleviate emotional pain.

    3. Find a new hobby:

    4. Learn to relax:

    5. Ask for help

    If the emotional pain is too severe, you can seek professional help, such as counselling or**. This will allow you to better understand your own feelings and find better solutions. <>

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Deliberately forget, will remember deeper, so don't deliberately forget, since you want to forget her, it means that the traces she has left in your heart should be relatively deep, let everything tend to be flat, what to do and what to do, don't let yourself often be alone and think hard, as time goes by, you will slowly forget, and forgetting is not something that can be forgotten by talking about it, but also to see what type of person you belong to, If you are emotional, it is best to find something or activity that can attract your attention to distract your emotional fluctuations; Or go crazy with your best friends and forget about your play. It's best not to listen to any love songs, otherwise you will backfire. I don't know about the other types, you have to face everything by yourself, no one can help you in it, go your own way.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Forgetting is a much deeper memory. So, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted...

    Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future...

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The more you want to forget, the more you will remember, and the memory is more firm, it is better to open your heart and not think about him, but it will slowly fade away. Don't deliberately forget someone, just let it be!

    I hope your mood can gradually improve, remember that life is short, we should cherish what we have now, not regret what we have lost, and it is the right choice to live happily every day.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Raising this question itself shows that you value love and righteousness, you can't be as soulless chic as some people, so you can't forget it at all, not only can't forget, his life status may also affect your mood for a long time, all of this comes from your dedication, from your emotional investment, if you want to forget unless your soul can be cut, so don't forget it, your love and righteousness determine your loveliness, there should be someone who understands you to help you heal the trauma, dilute all unpleasant, Let's wait together ...

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's over! You should understand that you are destined to be hurt. Forgetting is the stupidest decision.

    Even if. Time has diluted everything. Someday, someone, something, will touch the deepest memories in your heart.

    Forget to use it..? A person's life. It's not easy to remember a few people.、Instead of thinking about how to forget.,It's better to think about how to remember whatever he brings you.。。

    But he has always appeared in your memory, don't deliberately think about how to forget, but think about how long you meet your beloved.

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