How can you tell if a girl is selfish?

Getting along with others and having a grateful heart is actually the most basic thing. After all, at the beginning of a person, nature is good, and whether a woman is good or not has an inseparable relationship with her character. Whether it is life or love, a woman with good character will remember the help of others and try her best to repay each other.

And a woman with a bad character, when she is favored by others, will only feel that she deserves it. No matter who the other party is, from her lover or relatives to her friends and colleagues, she takes herself too seriously, feels that others should be good to her, and never appreciates and reciprocates others.

People who are too selfish often do not have too good character, such a woman only thinks about her own gains and losses in everything she does, and attaches too much importance to her own interests. Even between lovers, she will not have any regression and will not consider your feelings. Therefore, both men and women must learn to recognize people, a woman who only cares about herself, her character is really not good.

With such a person, you have to learn to take care of yourself, otherwise she may leave you with nothing.

See how she treats her siblings and her father, mother, and relatives. If a person does not even love his own relatives, even if this person loves other people, it is also false. I knew that there was such a young man who became a deputy director**, and the unit generally reflected that she was harmonious and amiable.

But she treats her few poor relatives who have no power, including uncles and aunts, as if they don't exist or are not her relatives.

See if she likes to take advantage of others, whether it is relatives, friends, or strangers, they do not forget to seek benefits for themselves, and never think about giving profits to others.

See how she treats his former boss. When the boss is still her boss, she can please the boss in every possible way, and even make cattle and horses for the boss. But as soon as the boss is transferred, or the boss is unlucky, she can immediately turn her face and deny people, or insult her former boss, which is not an objective and fair evaluation, or even falls into the ground.

Such a person has a filthy personality. I've seen quite a few of them.

They are always sensitive and suspicious, always like to guard against others everywhere, and they are worried about being taken advantage of by others.

When he gets along with each other, he always talks about interests, but never about feelings. treats family, friendship and even love relatively indifferently.

1. Endless demands.

If a woman is selfish, she will not know how to give, she will only want something to ask you for, and if you buy it for him, she will face her trap, and he will ask you endlessly, but will not buy you anything.

Second, there will be no empathy.

When you talk, chat or even quarrel with a selfish woman, he will not listen to you, he will only think about himself, not about you, will not empathize, will only not let himself suffer losses. It will even ask you for it, endlessly.

3. Don't know how to give.

A selfish woman will not only take endlessly, he will not give, he will only reach out and ask for it, and will not give you anything.

Fourth, self-centeredness.

A selfish woman, he only doesn't empathize, he only thinks about problems centered on herself, only thinks about her own gains and losses, and does not pay attention to the gains and losses of others.

Fifth, mercenary.

A selfish woman will definitely be mercenary, only looking at profits, and only doing what is good for herself. He would certainly not do anything harmful to himself.

I don't think what you're doing is particularly selfish, but you can only say that you're thinking a little more about it. You are afraid that after the notes you have compiled are used by others, your grades will improve more than yourself. It's understandable, so let's take a look at my experience.

There are many manifestations of selfishness, the most common of which is not caring for others when eating. When I was in my first relationship, when my boyfriend went to dinner with me, he never took care of me, never asked me what I wanted to eat when he ordered, but would gobble it up as soon as he ordered it.

I remember one time I wanted to eat spicy food, but the other party felt that Zhichi faction couldn't eat spicy food, and I wanted to put some chili peppers myself, and the other party thought I was hypocritical. I know that the other party can't eat spicy food, I should understand, but why don't you buy two servings when you buy food, one is spicy and the other is not spicy.

Later, the two of us also broke up because of the meal, and in the end, this person became more and more excessive, and it didn't matter if I was full or not during the meal. When the two of us eat, we often pay for the AA system, but every time I always can't eat, because after the meal comes, the other party eats half of it, and the remaining half, and the two of us are half of each other, this kind of life makes me feel particularly aggrieved.

Once I went to eat Malatang with the other party, I went to get the soup, but I didn't expect the other party to eat all the dishes, and ate all the dishes I liked, at that moment, I felt that this person was really not suitable to live together, because it was too selfish.

With a selfish person, you may not even have enough to eat, which is not an exaggeration at all, because I have experienced it myself. Therefore, if a person is particularly selfish when eating, don't be with this person, because after being with this person, you can't even solve your own stomach.

There are 7 common manifestations of selfish people: 1. Self-centeredness; A selfish person only has himself in his heart, he never thinks about others, even if he sometimes thinks about others verbally, but when it comes to personal interests, he will never make the slightest concession. 2. Withdrawn personality.

Due to their extreme selfishness, their personalities can become cold and distorted, so they have few friends. 3. Greed. The common manifestation of selfish people is greed, greedy for money, fame and fortune, and even to the point of calculating and calculating.

4. Ruthless. Selfish people have no feelings at all, and even if they have a fake relationship with you, they have a more greedy purpose. 5. Stingy.

Due to their extreme greed for profit, they have developed their own unique miserly personality traits. 6. Suspicious. Selfish people tend to be suspicious, they doubt society, they doubt others, they doubt the world, they think that all the people in this world are calculating him.

7. Sensitive. The selfish person, because he is too concerned with his own interests, makes him very sensitive to the reaction of the outside world, especially those things that involve or do not involve him, because he is afraid of losing money, and he is afraid that others will take advantage of what he should or should not get.

First, he has to ask his boyfriend to take money for meals and things, and he never pays for it himself.

The two limbs are wanton, and they never care about the sedan chair people. Just care about himself.

Three, there are almost no friends.

People who don't have friends are most selfish.

How can you tell if a girlfriend is selfish? You can talk to her for a period of time, and you will slowly get some experience and cognition, so it is essential to teach me, keep teaching me, keep communicating, you can understand his inner world from the side, and you can know what each other needs.