How can you tell if you re a spare tire?

In life, in the time spent with the opposite sex, we are often confused by all kinds of complex relationships, sometimes you especially want to pull her and ask: what kind of relationship we have now! This is especially problematic when two people are approaching a couple, because one person has fallen into the illusion of being in love, and the other may just be saying to you:

We are best friends! And you still maintain an ambiguous relationship than friends, in this case, most of you have been listed as a spare tire position, so where can you see these problems in your life? Then today, I will take you to discuss whether you are suspected of having a spare tire!

First of all, you have a very good relationship, sometimes it is better than which couples, sometimes you can talk about a small topic for a long time, and you seem to be a couple in the eyes of others. No matter what sad things she has in her heart, she is willing to share with you, you seem to be a listener, listening to her complaints, listening to her dissatisfaction with life, she can tell you all her stories, after a long time, you feel that you know her better than anyone else, and she accepts her care one by one, but she is still in the circle of friends every day What should no one do if she is single. Then you are sure that the spare tire position is sitting firmly.

There is also a situation, she has a lot of friends of the opposite sex around her, she is ambiguous with you during this time, don't want it, but after a while you will find that she suddenly doesn't look for you, and the contact between you suddenly becomes very few, and every time you look for her, she will shirk it for various reasons, when she is looking for you again, she seems to be hurt again, and you are a burst of meticulous comfort, and after her mood is better, it disappears again. She sees you as a healing place, and when you confess to him, she neither refuses nor accepts, she will say that she doesn't want to be in a relationship right now, or she doesn't want to hurt you or something, and then you will say: I'll wait for you!

However, this is a long, long time, as if there is no expiration date. In this case, I believe I advise you to let go as soon as possible, and in the end, you may not be able to wait for the person you want, and you will waste your youth.

Finally, I want to say that there is nothing wrong with a spare tire, because you are a spare tire, so there is still a chance. How to turn from a spare tire to a positive front has been written, friends can go to the front to see, here you also hope that each of you can say goodbye to single!!

If you want to judge whether you are a spare tire, you can feel it, sometimes you look for him out, is it very willing, usually sick, whether he comes to take care of you, whether he comes to you when there is something, and thinks of you when he is fine.

The other party is always out of touch and does not disclose the relationship. Don't let anyone around you know you're there. Congratulations, you're a spare tire.

I usually look for me to see if he often comes to me, whether he often comes to me when things are in a hurry. If this is often the case, it is probably a spare tire.

When you doubt whether you are a spare tire, then you must be a spare tire.

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Tell him something, see if he helps, if he doesn't help, it's a spare tire.

I'm not even your boyfriend's spare tire, right?

If you feel that the other party likes you, and you can't get the other person, and the cycle goes back and forth, then it's a spare tire.

If you receive the amount, yes, hehe, you should pay attention to it.

If a person is always playing ambiguously with you and is unwilling to confirm the relationship with you, then he is using you as a spare tire.

Send these 7 words to a boy to know if you are a spare tire.

The answer is simple, it depends on his attitude towards you.

If you want to know if you are a spare tire, you should pay attention to the following points:

First, he never took the initiative. He never takes the initiative when he gets along with you. If you don't go to him, he'll never come to you.

He will never be there when you need him, but he will be there when you are needed. He will only ask you for help when he has something to do, and he will talk to you when he is in a bad mood. If you feel humble in your relationship with him, then you are likely to be just an emotional catharsis or a tool for him to use.

Second, always maintain a close relationship with you. They always maintain an inexplicable relationship with you. It always gives you the feeling that your relationship is special and makes you feel that you have a good chance to move forward.

He will even talk to you about some deeper topics, such as how his family is and what his relationship experience is. But once you want to develop further with him, then he will choose to take a step back. If you feel that there is no hope with him anymore and take a step back, then he will choose to take a step forward.

He just wants to keep the feeling of hot and cold and inseparable from you. So that you are in a state of gain and loss every day.

Third, refuse to allow you to approach the circle of his life. When they are with you, they will make you feel that she is your lover. You can have some intimate manners, but he always refuses to post on Moments and refuses to ** your relationship.

Your friends think you're already together, but the people around him still think he's single. He never takes you to see his family and his friends. The reason why he did this was to create a persona who was still single, and then they could continue to develop relationships with other people.

Or maybe you're just one of his many lovers.

That's how people treat you. If people say that they are cold and hot to you, then you must be a spare tire. People who really love you will care about you very much, and they will not perfunctory you or prevaricate you.

If you want to know if you are a spare tire, you have to ask the other party or when you contact the other party, you can feel whether he really likes you? Or does he love you, and when he spends time with you, does he have any friends of the opposite sex? If a friend of the opposite sex gets close, don't get together with him, maybe you're a spare tire.

If you want to know if you are a spare tire, you need to leave him for a while, if he likes you, he is reluctant to let you go, if you are just a spare tire, it is dispensable for him. If you leave him and don't come to keep you, then you are a spare tire.

If you want to know if you have a spare tire, you have to see that you like that girl, and she doesn't have a lot of relationships. A guy who has a lot of relationships, if anything, you should actually ask him, what kind of relationship are they? If people are in a relationship, you will have less contact with people, so that it is not easy to be used as a spare tire.

See if she is dating several boys at the same time, or has close contact with other boys, if there is, then you have the possibility of a spare tire, if she doesn't really love you and ignores you, then you are mostly a spare tire.

If the other party's attitude towards himself is hot and cold, and he does not agree to associate with himself, but he does not explicitly refuse himself, he always gives you a hope from time to time, but this hope is fluctuating at this time, he should have a wake-up call, and he may have become someone else's spare tire.

It's that you pay a lot to that person, but she doesn't pay something for you, you can ask her out to play, watch movies, eat or something, if she always refuses, she just doesn't give you a chance, then you are probably a spare tire, and you don't take ** but feel that it is natural to use your money, but he will not spend money for you.

You can see if the person you are chatting with is hot and cold, sometimes chatting with you hotly, sometimes ignoring you coldly and violently, if there is such behavior, it may also mean that he treats you as a spare tire.

First of all, see if the other party is in constant contact with friends of the opposite sex, secondly, see if the other party is willing to confirm the relationship with you, and finally see if the other party is willing to introduce you to your relatives and friends, and is willing to announce your existence.

Slow to reply, or even no reply.

To like a person is to think about him all the time, read him, care about his dynamics, attach importance to his messages, and reply to every message he sends carefully. If a woman ignores your messages, replies slowly, or even doesn't reply, then there is no need to work in vain. She must be using you as a spare tire, and she will ignore you if she has no feelings for you, so give up as soon as possible to find her own happiness.

It depends on whether the other party will deliberately avoid you in the process of interacting with the other party. If it's a spare tire, you send a message to the other person, and the other person always replies intermittently. Because he will only take care of you when he is in the window.

If you confess to the other party, he is always secretive, always avoids your relationship, does not say no, but does not recognize your relationship, at this time it is likely that he will use you as a spare tire. Hope this can help you, thanks, hope.

1. I didn't reply to the message very late, and I didn't answer it many times. 2. I don't know what he (she) is usually busy with when he (she) is free, but you ask him (her) and keep shirking and saying that he or she is not available. 3. I have never been alone with him (her) on important holidays.

4. Asking him (her) to eat, watch movies, go shopping, etc., often give you an ambiguous one.

At this time, you can judge according to the way the other party chats with you, if he replies to your message faster, and when you ask questions, he is particularly serious, particularly rigorous, and then he will also express his love for you very much, which means that you are not a spare tire.

If the guy is always picking up long chats in front of you and often going home halfway from a date, then you can be sure that you are a spare tire.

It's very simple, you go to the people around him, ask your own opinion, well, if he is a person who doesn't know you well with the people around him or doesn't know him well, then he may tell you the truth, so he does treat you as a spare tire for you.

See if the other party you like often perfunctory you, whether they don't treat you sincerely, often ask for you, but don't pay to you, this is a kind of performance that you are a spare tire.

The most typical characteristic is that she will not introduce you to friends or family, and the girl is not interested in your friends or family. When she needs to see friends or family, she will excuse her and say that my family has a bad temper, or that our relationship has something to do with other people. Whatever the reason, what she means by this is that she doesn't want to waste costs dealing with your relationships with family and friends.

She also doesn't want the other boys in her circle of friends to know that she is going to be famous.

I think the best way to tell the difference is to see if a girl is very attentive to herself. But sometimes it's very sad, sometimes it's indifferent, then you have to pay attention to whether you're a spare tire.

If you want to determine whether you are a spare tire, you can send a message to the boy or girl you like to see if he responds in a timely manner, or the attitude of the response to determine how you usually feel.

See if the other party has friends of the opposite sex If the other party always gets along with different members of the opposite sex, some people say that he has many girlfriends, and when you ask him about these, he always makes some excuses and is not sure.

The answer is simple, it depends on his attitude towards you.

Send these 7 words to a boy to know if you are a spare tire.

If you receive the amount, yes, hehe, you should pay attention to it.