If your father said that, what would you say to your father?

He's actually worse off, and if you think about it from his standpoint, you can find out why he said that, you can repeat what he said to you, repeat, repeat, and then feel that behavior, and then think about it, and experience it.

The purpose of this is not to support your parents, but rather to make you more aware of the situation around you.

And then do something so that he can't just say that.

The key is to get your own way right.

Hehe, my situation is the opposite of yours, I didn't study well in college because of guilt, and I didn't find a suitable job after graduating from college, and I didn't dare to go home... I don't think I will dare to go home for ten years, maybe my family won't say anything about me, but I'd rather wander outside, ask myself to be what I don't like, work than go home, wander from one place to another... Maybe it's not easy for a woman to wander outside, but she just doesn't want to go back, and she can't bear to see her parents who have worked hard for many years...

It's been almost a year since I graduated, and some of my classmates who graduated with me still haven't found a suitable job, and they told me that sometimes their families not only don't support them, but they also say nasty things that are probably similar to what you hear. If you think about it from another perspective, it should be that they have raised their children for many years, and now the children have learned to be independent, but on the contrary, they are still at home, and they feel that their psychology is not very balanced.

It's all like that. Parents talk too much, don't mind too much, don't hold grudges. He is looking forward to Jackie Chan. If you are older, you have to endure and try to find a job as soon as possible......

It's like I didn't have a job! When you can make money, things will be better!

For many people, the feeling that their father is old may be in certain moments, such as seeing him slow moving, hearing and vision loss, changes in his face, or some health problems. At this time, people may start to think about their father's life experiences and pressures, their contributions to the family, and their impact on their own upbringing.

In this case, you may want to say something to your father, but for various reasons, you may not be able to say it in person. This can include certain stubborn, lazy, reluctant fathers to express their feelings, or it can be people's own psychological disorders. Whatever the case may be, here are some things you might want to say to your father:

1.Thank you. Thank you for all you have done for your family, your hard work and sacrifice are the most precious treasure of our lives. I appreciate your continued support and attention, and thank you for all the help and guidance you have provided me to grow into the person I am today.

2.I love you. While expressing emotions may not be my forte, I genuinely want you to know that I love you. You are very important to my life and growth, and I will never forget the importance of you and lead elimination in my life.

3.Don't worry, I'll take care of myself. I know you've always cared about me, but I'm going to take care of myself so you don't have to worry too much. If you need me to help you, I'll do my best.

4.I will come to see you from time to time. I know you don't like people worrying about you, but I still want you to know that I'm going to come to see you often. If you need any help or have any ideas to share with me, I will do my best to help you.

5.Let's do something fun together. Although you are old, we still have many opportunities to have fun time together.

We can go on a trip together, learn something new, or do something other fun. I believe these times will make you feel happy and satisfied.

In conclusion, whatever you want to say to your father, the most important thing is to express emotion and gratitude. Fathers are important pillars in the family, and their contributions and sacrifices are the cornerstone of family and personal growth. When we feel that they are old, we not only need to pay attention to their health, but also need to make them feel cared for and respected.

Rephrased: Father said this was his hope for us. The original sentence is a direct sentence spoken by the father, and if it is changed to a paraphrased sentence, the angle of the sentence will be changed, and the punctuation marks and personal pronouns of the corresponding sentence will be changed

1. The direct sentence should be changed to a paraphrased sentence, the colon should be changed to a comma, the double quotation marks should be removed, and a full stop should be added. 2. The "I" in the dialogue here refers to the "father", and the first person "I" should be changed to the third person "he" after paraphrasing, and the second person in the dialogue has also changed and become the narrator's perspective, so the second person should be changed to the first person when changing to a paraphrased sentence, that is: "you" should be changed to "we".

That is, the father said that this was his hope for us.

At some point when I grew up, I felt that my father was old, and when I first saw him resting at work, his back was already slightly rickety, and his eyes revealed a trace of exhaustion. It was only when I realized that he was no longer as energetic as he used to be, but that he began to work silently for our family, that I truly realized that time had turned its way out of favor for him.

Sometimes, I want to say something to my father that I can't say to my face. I want to say thank you to him for his quiet dedication and hard work, even though he never mentioned his exhaustion and distress to us.

I want to tell him that I understand his efforts and that I understand what he has done for us.

At the same time, I also want to tell him to stop worrying about our future.

He has laid a solid foundation for us, and his hard work has enabled us to live a relatively stable and happy life. Everything he gave was worth it, and we will live up to his expectations.

Most importantly, I want to tell my father that he is no longer alone. He has always been our support and we will always be there for him. We will take care of him and care about his health and well-being.

He will no longer have to bear all the responsibilities and burdens, because we will share his worries and anguish. It was only when I grew up that I came to understand the greatness and selflessness of my father's love.

The words I want to say to my father, although I may not be able to express them in person, will tell him with my actions and care that he is a hero in our hearts and will always deserve our love and gratitude.

At some point when I grew up, I felt that my father was getting old, and it was when I realized that he couldn't cope with all kinds of things as easily as before, and his health was a little worse than before.

There are some words that cannot be said to the face of Kuanlukou, and I want to say to him:

1.Dad, I really appreciate your hard work and care all the time. I know that you work hard to provide us with a better life, and that you always carry the weight of the family in silence. I really appreciate you.

2.Although we occasionally have conflicts and arguments, I want you to know that I have never doubted your love for me. I know you're doing it for my good, even if sometimes I can't understand what you're doing.

3.Dad, you really should take more rest. I know that you always work for the happiness of your family, but you also need to take care of your body. Please don't overwork, I'm worried about you.

4.I want you to know that no matter what happens, I will always have your back. If you need help or have any difficulties, please feel free to let me know. I will do my best to help you.

5.Dad, I want you to know that you are special in my heart. I am so blessed to have you as a father, you have given me so much to make me what I am today. Thank you for your continued love and support.

These words may not be able to be said to his face, but I hope that my father can feel my heart and care for him.

For example, when studying the lesson "Falling Peanuts" in Volume 9, Lesson 22, because the author's writing background was after the outbreak of the Sino-Japanese War, the corruption of the Qing Dynasty made Taiwan a Japanese colony. The author Xu Dishan's father, out of patriotism, still abandoned the family property, took the whole family back to Fujian to settle down, and lived a poor life.

At that time, people could not and could not speak of decency. But from the perspective of modern society, there are different value orientations. It is difficult for students to understand this.

Incorporate questions in teaching: What did you read from your father's words? I arranged group cooperative learning, and through the key link of the interaction of expressing their opinions, the difficulties were solved, and the preliminary group learning had the following results.

Father means that we should be useful people, not people who are good-looking and useless.

To be a person who is good for others, you can't be decent.

To be a useful person, it is not that you cannot be decent.

Because dignity is identity, and it means that Na Na has a good-looking face and is very glorious. If people don't pay attention to decency and are sloppy, people will hate celery when they see it. So we should talk about decency, but we can't just talk about decency.

There are many things worth remembering in a person's life, and at the same time, a person's life must also continue to learn, constantly improve, in your life that you have just begun, you are like the rising sun, vibrant, full of sunshine, but Dad must tell you that the road of life is a long, full of grinding, full of challenging process, you need to cultivate your own good learning and living habits in the process of growing and learning now, and develop self-confidence, optimism, studiousness, and a positive attitude towards life. That will be your greatest treasure later in life, and it will accompany you throughout your life and help you get through a bumpy period until you succeed. Finally, Dad wants to tell you that you will always be Daddy's pride and favorite. Remember: