Let s talk about what kind of matchmakers you have seen?

The matchmakers I've seen are all the kind of eunuchs who are not in a hurry and are in a hurry to die, and I can't wait to urge everyone to settle down after just meeting twice, and urging them to get married in less than two months, I think marriage needs an emotional foundation, and it is very helpless to meet such a matchmaker.

In the past, most of them were two matchmakers, one on the man's side and one on the woman's side, and as soon as the two matchmakers were combined, they met with them. But now it's four, five. And now we have a strange rule here, for example, a few matchmakers take a man to meet a woman, whether they agree or not, after meeting, the man has to give the matchmaker 20 yuan per person.

For example, if there are five matchmakers who take you to meet the woman, then you have to give 100 yuan to make sure that everyone can get 20. Of course, when it's time to eat, please have to eat. Once you say it's successful, it's time to give money.

In the past, we had an honest man, who was over 30 years old and still single, but he also saved tens of thousands of yuan for marriage. This gang of matchmakers has teamed up to deceive him. found a married woman from other places, and when the honest man saw that the woman was good, he made a big deal to get married.

didn't want to get married, so the woman and the matchmaker secretly ran away on the night. It took a long time after calling the police to catch the gang. Hey, blind dates, blind dates that are not for the purpose of marriage are all **.

I have an older brother who is getting married, and the bride price money has been given. The engagement money and bride price money add up to about 60,000 yuan! There are also earrings, necklaces, rings and so on.

As a result, in the first few days of marriage, the girl was reluctant and proposed to break up. And all the gifts and gold goods will not be returned, which makes the matchmaker worried. The worried matchmaker almost didn't want to live.

In the end, my uncle sued the woman. And only a small part of it comes back. Since then, the matchmaker has never been a matchmaker.

My sister-in-law worked as a matchmaker and introduced her relatives to my cousin. The woman is not very beautiful, and my sister-in-law said bluntly that she looks average, but she is very sensible. Later, my cousin and his mother saw his future daughter-in-law, and said to my sister-in-law, "You still say it's not beautiful, I think it's beautiful!"

Makes my sister-in-law speechless!

There are no strange people in the world, how good it is to say that the other party is high, in fact, after seeing me, I feel that it is completely two people, and there are many matchmakers who are just to get red envelopes, irresponsible, and I will do things for you at all

In our case, the matchmaker's original intentions have changed. His purpose is no longer simply to serve the unmarried, but to make money for himself, several matchmakers and several unmarried women collude to deceive, see several objects a day, see one to ask for red envelopes, to eat, and must have a souvenir to bring back.

When I just graduated, there were also many people who asked me for a blind date, and we called matchmakers as professional matchmakers. The people who protect the media must be very familiar with the conditions and conditions of the two families, and they are also familiar with the children of the two families, and know whether the temperament, age, and education of both parties are compatible.

When I was in my hometown before, I saw a matchmaker, a matchmaker who costs 400 yuan for a meeting, this is just an intermediary fee, if it is said to be done, you will have to take a few thousand yuan, which really ruined my three views.

When I went home for the Chinese New Year last year, there was a matchmaker in our village who came to introduce me to a blind date, but I haven't seen anyone yet, and I don't even know if it can be a fundamental thing.

In fact, I built a lot of people, after all, I think about a lot of relatives, all kinds of types, there are a lot of matchmakers who haven't given you a blind date, and you want benefits, or some nobody, just blow the woman to say how good, I actually went to see it and it wasn't so good.

2. Why is it not good to be a matchmaker 1, customs and legends say that there are some areas that will be unlucky for three years to be a matchmaker, and it is said that helping people match will affect their fortune and marriage, that is to say, they will give their marriage to the newcomer, so the general matchmaker is a married person. 2. If the two ends are not good, if the marriage is completed, everyone will be happy, if it is not successful, the newcomers on both sides will complain about the matchmaker, thinking that they have made a bad coal, and some people even fight. Anyway, the matchmaker is in the middle, neither is the left, nor is the right.

3. There is no scientific basis for superstition that in fact, there is no scientific basis for being a matchmaker, mainly because of the hint in people's hearts, what they believe will come, and now many young people do not do matchmakers not because they are afraid of bad luck but because they have insufficient experience and limited resources.

In our rural area, there is a saying that being a matchmaker will be unlucky for three years. Therefore, everyone has reached a customary custom, after the newlyweds get married, they need to give the matchmaker a red envelope, commonly known as thank the matchmaker. There are also places that will buy a pair of shoes for the matchmaker, which mainly reflects that the matchmaker said that the matchmaker is not easy, and the shoes that are tired for the marriage of men and women are all running away, which reflects the difficulty of marriage and the difficulty of the matchmaker.

The consequences of not thanking the media.

1. Bad luck for newcomers.

When the matchmaker said matchmaking, she relied on one mouth to say that both men and women were perfect in each other's minds, so that a good marriage was finally promoted. After the newlyweds get married, if they don't thank the media, there is a folk saying that the luck of the newlyweds will not be too good. And the matchmaker said that the matchmaker is indeed very tired, so it is reasonable to give the matchmaker a red envelope.

2. The matchmaker's unlucky solution.

Because there has always been a saying that the matchmaker says that the matchmaker is unlucky, the matchmaker's homonym is "moldy", which means unlucky, so you need to ask for a red envelope for the newcomer and be happy, so that the matchmaker's luck will also be better. Therefore, if the marriage between men and women is a matchmaker, then you must thank your matchmaker and seal an auspicious red envelope.

The matchmaker said that it was okay, but if you introduced the wrong person, you might hate you for the rest of your life. And if it's an acquaintance, it's not easy to refuse.

In ancient times, you had to find a matchmaker, because women didn't go out if they had nothing to do, they didn't go out of the door, and they didn't see many men from the outside world.

Do you have to have a matchmaker to get married?

Most of the newlyweds who are married now enter the marriage hall through free love, which saves the link of matchmaking, and at this time, many newlyweds have the question "Do you have to have a matchmaker to get married"? In fact, the role of the matchmaker is not only reflected in the matchmaking, but also if it involves the specific matters of the wedding, it is still necessary to ask a matchmaker to help the man and woman communicate.

Asking a matchmaker for marriage is one of the inherited marriage customs, and usually the matchmaker needs to guide the marriage process, which is called "matchmaking".

It's all natural love now,

1.Doctors, teachers, civil servants and other professions are on the lips of parents, and it is difficult to look at the type of non-financial support occupations

2.The eye edge is the appearance, the family conditions are the hardware, and the personality, character, interests, etc. are all attached or limb accompaniment. (So be sure to dress up well to improve your first impression).

3.When you encounter a hesitant personality, you will raise several objects of the opposite sex in disguise, so it is good to communicate sincerely when you encounter it, and stop loss in time when you encounter a perfunctory one.

4.Soul fit is weak in front of money, cars and houses, so you should still work hard to improve your self-worth.

5.It's hard to feel like you're on the head, it's important to recognize yourself, and if you ask too much for both parties, you must first have the value to match.

6.looks handsome, the conditions are good, and the level is obviously much higher than yourself, if the other party agrees easily, be careful of fraud.

7.Matchmakers will exaggerate, and the greater the hope, the greater the disappointment.

8.There are many blind dates, and over time, they become numb.

9.When the matchmaker is introduced, the first thing to look at is the economic conditions, and you are not so important, as long as there is no physical and mental problem, it is "good business" in the matchmaker

To be a matchmaker, you have to say four words:1. I wish the bride and groom, from now on, one person will hold the hand of the other, go down together, and work together to make happiness permanent.

2. Today you are getting married, I want to send my blessings quickly, I wish you eternal happiness and sweetness.

3. I don't know what marriage is in the world, but now I know the high walls of the siege.

4. The groom is glorious and full of face, the bride's eyebrows are busy, you love me to cultivate the same pillow, and work hand in hand to spend the vastness.

Introduction:

Since ancient times, China has called marriage introducers "matchmakers", such as "Peacock Flying Southeast": "A white matchmaker, poor and lowly have this daughter, and it is suitable to return to the family." But in addition to this common name, matchmakers also have many other names, such as matchmakers.

In the Tang Dynasty, Yuan Zhi wrote "The Legend of Yingying", writing that Zhang Sheng and Cui Yingying fell in love, and Cui's maid matchmaker set up a match, so that the lovers eventually became married, and later generations acted as "The Legend of the West Chamber" miscellaneous drama. Since then, "matchmaker" has become another name for matchmakers.

Matchmaker introduction is a more common way of mate selection in the period of monogamous marriage in human society, which is not only a common way of mate selection in the history of various ethnic groups, but also widely popular in the marriage customs of many ethnic groups in the world today. Media, according to the current interpretation, is the meaning of media, and in ancient China, media contained the meaning of strategy.

The title of the person who introduces the marriage.

Matchmakers play a matchmaking role in marriages in China. Female matchmakers are also known as matchmakers or sisters. In ancient China, marriage paid attention to the marriage of the Ming media, so if the marriage was not drawn by the matchmaker, it would be incompatible with the ceremony, although there were two lovers, they would also pretend to be the matchmaker's mouth to say the matchmaker, the order of the parents, and the words of the matchmaker, before the marriage ceremony.

The matchmaker will play the role of an intermediary from the time of the marriage, to the engagement and the promotion of marriage, running errands between men and women, liaison, coordination, detail mediation, making the atmosphere, saying auspicious words, wishing the newlyweds happiness until the end of the wedding, and collecting matchmaker fees. Customs vary from place to place.

It is a person who matches two people into a husband and wife.

The old man under the moon is a well-known figure in Chinese folk, he is in charge of the marriage of men and women in the world, and binds the feet of men and women with red ropes in the dark to determine the marriage.