Relationship problems. Should I go out of town to fight with my ex boyfriend?

Talk about it, scatter it, where are so many additions - he is a man centered around himself, too selfish.

I feel that all the things you said about him are shallow, and to put it bluntly, you don't know him very well as a person.

It is understandable that a woman is infatuated, but she can't lose her influence for love. You are now in the stage of emotional confusion, which is dangerous ......

Bet ......Do you think feelings can be used to gamble......!

Don't be a "puppet" of his mind ......!

What you have to do now is not to make him the only one for you, but to let you be the only one for him, and this is the right way!

I have the answer in my heart.

Since you hesitate here, it means that you don't love him 100%, like this, even if he has money, you may not be happy, and since he loves you, he will not break up with you, and he will not live separately from you, so it is very likely that he is now looking for a comfort. Fate has decided to separate you, and naturally he has a reason. Must not go!

Be careful. I haven't seen you in such a long time. Reality can change people.

You can fight guerrilla warfare with him, and don't be positive when it comes to the issue that calls you to go. And then you'll probably find out in a short time. Leave everything in one hand.

Whatever you do, leave yourself a way out, but don't go. 80 percent of the feeling is not a good thing.

What a girl is most afraid of is not that she has no money, that she is poor, that she is not suffering with her, but that she cannot see hope in her. This is the reason, not to give empty promises, but to work hard so that you can see hope, so that there is hope, can work together, and walk more according to your feelings.

I don't think he loves you anymore. Fool, if he loved you, he wouldn't have made you suffer! In a few years, what he has experienced and seen is enough to change a person, and he is no longer the same person he was back then! And you betrayed him!

But if you really love him, and not because of guilt, then please continue to love deeply! It may not be reciprocated, but if you express your love, you will have no regrets in the future.

If you end up hurting, leave. Alone, living freely, may be a little lonely. But when your love for him is a little lighter, and there is enough space in your heart to accommodate others, then find someone who can accompany you for the rest of your life!

Good luck!

Can you ask him about some things in life, do you know more about his current life situation and the way he behaves, this is a more tangled question, do you love him, does he love you, is he testing you by giving you a problem like this? You confess to him, talk about your economy, talk about your thoughts, say that you are willing to help him advance and retreat with him, and then he will still have the same attitude as before? Indeed, it is really difficult to say what a person has become without contact for several years.

Also, does your family agree? Rest assured? A lot of things are weighed by yourself.

There are always gains and losses. If you need to live up to his standards, it's like you. Or do you want to talk to him more?

Learn more.

I think that the baked cakes that return to the oven are not crispy, be yourself, you are so rich, what are you not doing well, are you not afraid that he will come back and retaliate against you? Organize your emotions, hurry up and invest in other feelings, find someone who loves you, and live a good life.

Personally, I think it's good not to go, if a man really loves you, he should want to give you the best of everything, instead of pulling you to the field, the so-called struggle is just an excuse, I believe that you also have this kind of worry in your heart, a man really loves you, he will fight by himself, and then come back to you.

In the end, though, it's up to you to decide based on what you know about him.

By the way, the people I hate the most are liars.

My girlfriend is the same, she betrayed me, I'm so sad! ......

We are stepping on the giant wheel of history, constantly repeating the tragedies of the past!

Are you betting on this?

Rather than give it a go, it's better to wait.

You have to be careful about this, if you love you very much, everyone is happy, if the love is only your money, then you have to think about it, if you think it doesn't matter, it's no problem.

You're very attentive, eating what's in the bowl and looking at what's in the pot.

You're so much like my ex-girlfriend, you never know how much it hurts for a man to get hurt! People like you should die quickly, and don't harm people in the world.

Together, you don't have a partner now anyway, and you can divide again if it's not suitable after being together, but if you refuse, you won't have a chance to be together if you regret it later.

When a guy lets you choose, he proves that you are already ambiguous about him, and half of them give up on you, and then you still want to build a relationship later? Did you just know each other?! Struggle together in the future? It still feels too idealistic, and it has to return to reality.

。。。You idiot, he's chasing you, how did you, give him the initiative... You should ask rhetorically.

Are you afraid that you have no one?

Well, "forgetfulness" is a familiar term, and it's hard to do. So you don't have to use the word "forget" to solve the problem. You can try to suppress it.

Do what you like to do and distract yourself. This is called "distraction". The goal is to forget about the relationship with the ex!

However, the "things you like to do" should be done together with the current person to enhance the relationship between each other. Care more about him. You said it before, he's so good.

good", it should be cherished. Don't throw away your hard-won happiness. You've already lost it once, and you can't afford it!

What's more, you're still his first love?! Hehe! Calm down and think about it!

Slap yourself in the mouth and tell yourself to learn to be a person first, and then talk about feelings! First block your ex-boyfriend's q, and then**delete, wake up every morning and remind yourself to be a sincere, cute girl again, and then do other things. Specifically, you should pay more attention to your boyfriend, and the most important thing is to reduce the time spent on the Internet a lot, you must control your Internet addiction, force yourself to study, form a habit, and you will have an effect if you stick to it for two days!

Remember, don't be frivolous! As soon as frivolous thoughts come to you, I advise you to slap yourself in the mouth!

There's nothing you can't get by, it's just that you can't go back to the past.

Please cherish your current feelings, otherwise it will also leave you.

Your ex-boyfriend must not be very emotionally oriented, or how would he have talked about so many girlfriends?

Don't be stupid, cherish what is in front of you, and don't regret it then! He is studying hard now, you should also encourage him, and you should work hard!

Pure hand fighting!

Completely cut off the relationship with your former boyfriend, cherish the person who is good to you now, I hate the person who is very sweet.

The past will always pass, don't make a mess of yourself.

It's best not to ask your ex-boyfriend anything, especially if you can't do anything.

Cherish the people in front of you.

Learn to cherish; You can't be half-hearted; Be single-minded;

You have to ask yourself about this, you should know what you want in your heart, whatever you want.

What are you afraid of, what are you afraid of? You ask yourself.

After four years of being with your boyfriend, you finally decided it was inappropriate to choose to break up.

This netizen who has never met can't get along, in such a short period of time, do you think he is the criterion for choosing a boyfriend? Then your previous boyfriend, you didn't choose the standard?

I'm not saying that the feelings of the Internet are not real, after all, the Internet provides a platform for otaku to make friends, as for what will happen in reality, it is up to reality to test.

Work well, live well!

Are you looking for a man ??

Still looking for a long-term meal ticket.

Netizen . You believe it too.

Just chat.

Otherwise.. You will regret it.

I'm done.

Don't be afraid, there are many people who are dating online. People on the Internet don't take each other too seriously and don't think of each other so badly, you must know that everyone is on the Internet, they are all the same people, so there is nothing particularly good or bad about the people you know on the Internet, just be vigilant and guard against people's hearts, and don't do things that are sorry for yourself before you recognize them, otherwise it will be too late to regret it. Also, it's best not to go where no one is around, unless you already trust him completely.

If I were you. I probably wouldn't use too much time for too many feelings. Because the feeling of meeting and online is much different

Let's decide after we meet.

I advise you to change your mindset, don't get too attached to your feelings, and trust that you will meet the right partner for you. Be vigilant when chatting online, we often make each other look very good.

I don't believe in such a relationship.

First of all, everyone has shortcomings! After a long time with a person, you will naturally know that there are few shortcomings? That's what you're missing to discover!

Why didn't the family agree? Solve the problem, or you will cut it first! I don't think I want the boy who introduced you, after all, marriage is free, what I just introduced is to coax you to get married, and then change your face, hehe!

Advice: Put aside all distractions and resolutely cut off the relationship with your ex-boyfriend, he will not bring you happiness, it will only bring you a lifetime of troubles, and devote yourself to the new environment and relationship.

Mom said: You can't have a man like your ex-boyfriend!

Find someone who can give you meticulous care and care for in life. Affection, love can be cultivated.

Knowing how to let go is also a mood, and you must learn to let go.

Live in the moment!!

Friend, let yourself mature slowly.

When you mature, that's when your problem is solved.

From your description, I feel that he should have completely let go of his feelings for you, I don't think you need to go to him anymore, if he really likes you, in the face of you taking the initiative to contact him, you shouldn't be indifferent, on the contrary, he shows avoidance and boredom, he shouldn't want you to disturb his life anymore. You're not willing to do this, are you? You don't have to know the reason for breaking up, all the reasons for breaking up are just excuses, the most real reason for breaking up is not love, since you have broken up, you also have to face the reality and start over, if you have been entangled in the past, it is difficult to suffer yourself for others, keep the last dignity for yourself, don't let him look down on you.

Half a year to ask all the questions about your breakup, and then I was even more confused about the unclear breakup, half a year in vain, girl, your heart is uncertain, every unfirm belief has to pay a price.

I suggest you take a look at the Korean drama "Where is Love", the love story in it is very moving, sometimes a woman is more proactive, it may work better, it is yours in the end. It is recommended that you be aggrieved for a while and find a reason to visit him once, and maybe everything will be clear. Good luck!

It's normal to not be able to let go, it's obvious that if he still loves you, he will take the initiative to find you, enrich his life, and slowly he will be covered by other landscapes.

Why women always can't forget the so-called ex-boyfriend, they are perfect in the minds of women, more than the current one, especially now that there is a problem, they are more important, he is so resolute, he has not explained it for a year, why should you, the only way for you to find someone who loves yourself, I know that what I said earlier is a bit excessive, others say that the problem of ex-boyfriend and girlfriend I am a little irrational, some things have to look forward, some things can't go back to before.