My first boyfriend got engaged and asked me to go, should I go? I hope you can sincerely help me

Updated on society 2024-05-13
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think it's actually nothing to go, as long as you want to open it yourself, if it's just a friend, it's normal to go to a wedding, you can ask your boyfriend to accompany you!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Avoid unnecessary disputes Don't go! It also makes your first love understand that in fact, there is nothing between you, and even if there is, it is almost over

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Well, I think you should go with your current boyfriend, and you should go and bless your first boyfriend, because you are friends after all. Moreover, everyone has a past, I think, your current boyfriend should be understandable, and you handle this initial relationship well, it will help you and your current boyfriend in the future...

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Or don't go, it will be very embarrassing after meeting, so you will tactfully refuse your first love boyfriend. This can at least avoid some unnecessary trouble, and the boyfriend can explain a little. Have fun every day!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Don't go, your first boyfriend can understand your feelings, live well and cherish your current life, and don't worry about those irrelevant things anymore.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Go, why don't you go, dress yourself up beautifully, if you have a male partner, follow it, let him know that you are reconciled, you are not reluctant to give up on him, anyway, you are not possible, it is also an end, remind him, and also tell yourself that you will go your own way in the future, and it will be good to say hollo after meeting him in the future.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's better not to go, in case there is a misunderstanding or this conflict, it is not good.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Go, since he gave him an invitation, you're going to go. And it's going to be very draggy.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Don't throw away the people you've been with just because of the novelty. People who can excite you may not be able to make you feel at ease. If you can't be single-minded, then you will never escape the cycle of novelty.

    Freshness is to experience new things with the elderly, rather than cycling through the old with the newcomer.

    It's like you feel that the person you're with right now is a good fit, you just don't see the bad aspects of him, and after you fully understand it, you may feel that he is not a good fit for you. If you abandon the present and choose the one you think is better, don't forget, it was watered by you with countless hours and energy, emotions and tears, remember that there will always be better people and the present is the best. Dreams are wonderful, but we live in reality.

    In this case, of course, we must proceed from reality and accept the so-called "inappropriate", unless we really can't stand it. To judge whether a person is suitable or not, we should not only look at the suitable aspects, but more importantly, whether the unsuitable aspects can be accepted.

    True love only begins to emerge when you feel that love is starting to fade. Of course, you can choose to give up and be with the person you feel better, but at the cost, you can never escape the cycle of "I think he is better". I have always believed that the best state of love should be that you do not like someone all the time, but like this person repeatedly.

    Once a woman falls in love with someone else, her patience with her partner plummets. You will find that your attitude towards him is getting worse and worse, you lose your temper easily, and find fault every once in a while. It's really enough for you to look at his right eye with your left eye.

    I would like to say that in this case do not ride a donkey to find a horse. Find a suitable time to make things clear and end the relationship. Then you can go to the outside world and arrange it yourself.

    In fact, the like-minded men you meet later also have their own shortcomings, but you haven't noticed it yet. Coupled with the "dislike" of your first boyfriend, it makes you want to change your boyfriend. If you have already decided that you want to be with the latter man, then you should immediately make up your mind to convince your parents and your first boyfriend, but I will tell you that if you are with the latter man, the possibility of marriage breaking up in the future is very high.

    Never let go of a man you've been with because of novelty. My advice is to communicate well with your first boyfriend and try to maintain the original relationship.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You should let go of this thing, because it is not conducive to the development of the relationship, and it is not conducive to the harmony of the relationship, and the other person does not like you, so I think you should let go of this matter.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Since you are engaged, you should be responsible for your other half in life, and you should not be in a hurry, because there will be many people who are better than your other half.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think at this time, you can choose to refuse to get married, and of course, you also need to return all the previous consumption to the other party, because this can be better.

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