The weakness of human nature is still the strength

Weaknesses can often become strengths at certain times, and strengths can become weaknesses on the contrary, these are human nature. Recently, I have also been in such a psychological entanglement, and my views are often the same as yours, and now I dare not be open-minded to the person I like, and I always show my own expression as the opposite meaning, and I hate myself very much. As she did that day in the park when she watched a scene between a monkey and a monkey, she saw joy – a play between a monkey and a monkey man; What I saw was pathos - the monkey trickster forced the monkey to do what he didn't want to do, and the mother monkey fought hard to save the monkey.

Afterwards, think about it, it doesn't seem to be anything, everyone is useful in this world, if the heart is empty, it means that I haven't found my place yet, and other things are according to my current thoughts, nothing, it doesn't matter, as long as it's life, maybe I'll do it, as if I have seen everything, just wait for myself to let go and do it.

What you do is the behavior of a normal person, but your heart is starting to be abnormal, I don't know what your mindset was like before reading these philosophy books, if it is like the above, then you are reading these books in vain, because it does not change you, but if this kind of mentality is produced after you read these books, you have been poisoned by these books, you can't get out of the books Whenever you see real things will make you have essential thoughts, Man himself is an organism with many thoughts, much more than in the books you read, so what is written in the books is only some of the personal experiences of the human beings they come into contact with, not all of them, you are not a philosopher, you don't need a philosophical life, because people in reality are the purest.

If you look at real life and accept the relationship between good and bad, good and beautiful, greedy and selfish, and so on, you will naturally know what kind of person you really are.

People who study philosophy have such essential thoughts, so there are few who can control themselves, and most of them will fall into the devil (personal opinion).

You're distressed, have you thought about the reason? It's because you think too much. There is nothing in the world, and mediocrity disturbs itself. Just quote, no insult to your meaning.

To love beauty is vanity? Love, friendship is hypocrisy, is it for self-gratification or is it rewarded? First of all, you have to set yourself up as a person, not a god.

And as a human being, there is a need for both physical and psychological needs. In society, it is necessary to establish friendly and mutually helpful relationships with others. There is nothing wrong with that.

You're a girl, aren't you? Why do you have to think so much, people's troubles are ** to recall the past, and worry about the future. Live every moment you are present and enjoy every second of happiness.

If you don't live long and think too much, you will lose a lot of good things... Good luck.

From this point of view, you look at the problem from a more singular perspective, which is the root of the problem. For example, if you see the act of helping others, you will think that it is just an investment. Of course, there are times when that's the case, and if you can see that, it means that you have quite a bit of insight, and that's something to be sure of.

But at the same time, it is undeniable that helping others is indeed a good deed, at least with a good component.

Buying fashionable and expensive clothes is not the kind of vanity in your heart, it is human nature to love beauty, and buying this kind of clothes is just to make your appearance look better. Don't think about it, not everything is like this.

I am now doing psychological counseling, at the beginning of the beginning, there are also your confusion, the main reason may be your own non-acceptance and misunderstanding of some knowledge, the problem of time, it is best to communicate with more professional people when learning these, to avoid misunderstandings, and it is better to believe in books than no books.

People are like this, since as a person, don't think you're dirty, otherwise you will fall into the cleanliness of your soul, you will lose hope in life, everyone is drunk and I don't feel good when I wake up.

You should read Hegel, he's the master of spirituality.

I think that's the essence of human thought, which is objectively necessary.

Human nature is innate. It can be changed.

But why think so much.

There is more than one in the world, so why bother with those trivial things.