I lost my purpose, what if I lost my purpose, what if you lost your purpose in life

Flying into space is just your dream You can also have ideals Ideals are reality Dreams are present and illusory You don't have to give up the whole forest for a tree A person's life is to find the ideal goal to achieve the goal and the ideal to find and achieve But your ideal must be positive Don't say it if you contribute to society We are not so great Live well Live happily is your parents' greatest wish Don't make them sad Your parents are also old It's time for you to take care of them!

Hehe, in fact, almost everyone has your confusion at different times, you are a boy, boys, social pressure is greater than girls, this is unavoidable, I think you have to learn a technology first, you graduated from junior high school, it will be better to find a job in this way, than to do nothing, be honest, and one day, everything will be fine, believe in yourself.

Don't give yourself too many excuses, that will only lead to disorientation. Down-to-earth, persistence will be rewarded!

Many people at this age have the same confusion as you.

Don't be nervous. Follow your current path.

Go down quietly.

You're going to change a little bit.

You'll slowly find out where you're targeting.

I think it's a good saying: make excuses for success, don't make excuses for failure.

The only way to achieve a goal is to work hard, everyone is the same, if you can't fly to reach it, just do it, if you really have a goal and it's important to you, nothing is a problem.

I graduated from junior high school! Nothing! Let's find a big brother to mess with!

1. First of all, we must immediately stop the current sluggish state of life, let ourselves change, have the courage to abandon the life of the current family, and let ourselves stop this emotion and change ourselves. There will always be a lot of unsatisfactory things in life, don't be depressed, let yourself be optimistic.

2. If you lose the goal of destroying the mountain in life, there is no big deal, stop immediately, change immediately, and find a new starting point in life, it can be a rest or a trip, no matter which way, as long as you can make yourself feel happy, it is a good thing.

3. If travel and rest can't find the goal of their life, then contact more with family and friends, understand more about the purpose and meaning of their life, parents give us life, friends give us emotions, and there are many people who give us too much, we can't give up on ourselves.

4. Lost the goal of life, but we can complete the original goal, life needs to move forward, life needs to change, then we should set a new goal for ourselves, if we really can't think of any goals, let your parents or partners set goals, if you don't know what you live for, then live for the people you love.

5. In fact, we will always encounter all kinds of things in life and work, many things are good, and there are many things that are bad, good things will encourage us, but bad things will hit us, what we have to do is to make ourselves stronger, whether it is external or internal, it is good for ourselves and the people around us.

6. Make yourself strong, let yourself change, let yourself stop having a bad mentality, for people who have no goals, it may be difficult to do it at the beginning, we have to give ourselves a time cycle, maybe next month, next week, maybe tomorrow, you are a different you.

When in your life you have lost yourself, lost your purpose, lost your happiness, and felt like you couldn't do anything? How do you deal with this state?

Hello dear, I'm happy to answer for you, if you are lost by you, or when you can't do anything, you should adjust your mentality and enjoy life, because you yourself have said, we can't do anything, we can't do anything to be irritable, it's obviously not worth it, life is like a train, someone gets on the train, someone gets off, the person you care about is off the train in the middle, the train still has to continue to move forward, we also have to look forward, don't let those irrelevant people, spoil our mood, Delayed us from enjoying the scenery along the way.

There's one sentence I can't remember who said that. "People often fail because of their lack of self-confidence." Without self-confidence, there will be a lack of confidence in everything you do, a lack of creativity, and a lack of fear of difficult challenges.

The cultivation of self-confidence I think that you should affirm yourself more, discover your own strengths, and don't always compare yourself with others. ）

It doesn't matter if you don't have a goal, the main thing is that you have to find your own direction, what direction your future career is going, for example, chef, management, car, clothing, etc., etc. You have to find the direction of your own efforts, and as for what you can achieve in the end, it is based on a question of accumulation and grasping opportunities.

The more you read and communicate more with your friends, your direction and goals will slowly emerge in your brain, which will run through your entire brain, and you will work more seriously and harder!

There are a lot of things like this.

Inadvertently when it exists.

Didn't even notice his presence.

But once lost.

will feel that he is still needed in life.

This is the so-called black of the near-ink.

Be in the middle of it. I don't know what I need.

People are lazy creatures.

Too lazy to even think about it.

Reluctance to find out. lost.

I know it hurts. will learn the lesson.

It's good to know.

It's also because of the pain.

So cherish what you have.

People are always fickle, and some people only know how to cherish and realize their mistakes when they lose, so I think the first thing people do after losing is to regret it, but at the same time, they will understand and understand some truths.

There are some things that are missed, and they are missed for a lifetime. People are changeable, and they can't keep an unchanging promise, but they can't keep a fickle heart.

People will only know to cherish when they lose, but I don't ask for it, just nostalgic for the past, which is also wrong, and we must continue to look for it.

Losing is losing, try to adjust your mindset.

There is nothing to lose and nothing to have

"When God closes a door for you, He will also open a window for you in another place", I think you will be able to understand the meaning of this sentence. On the surface, you have experienced two major setbacks in your life: falling out of love and losing your job, but on the other hand, this is not necessarily a turning point that will make you brave and upward.

For example, through this test, you know your own shortcomings in your career, shortcomings in love, if you take this experience as a kind of learning, learn lessons, sum up experience, and then start over with greater confidence and strength, you will have a greater chance of success. Failed love lets you know why you failed and what kind of love you need; The failure of the career also makes you understand the difficulties and twists and turns of entrepreneurship, and how to better create your own business.

In fact, the more severe the blow of this kind of life, the more it can test and exercise a person's perseverance and ability. Life cannot be smooth sailing, everything goes well, and failures and setbacks are inevitable. It is necessary to adapt yourself to life and become strong in the trials and trials of life.

You might as well learn the spirit of spring, the greater the pressure, the higher the bounce. The people who can face difficulties in difficult situations and overcome difficulties bravely are the people who can best experience the taste of success. So, let yourself be optimistic and continue to climb to new heights in life.

I wish you to get out of the haze as soon as possible, usher in the sunshine and spring flowers.

Find a new direction again, dwelling on the past will only affect your heart.

I really hope that when I wake up, things will be better. All the thoughts of the night become the star above the head, pointing to every right path. ​

I don't think the problem is at work, it's not so much about changing jobs, it's about changing your mindset! You know, attitude is everything! You can't sleep well because you don't have the right mentality, maybe you want too much, and you can't achieve the kind of life you want, so you are anxious, unmotivated, and feel as if you can't be interested in anything!

The first thing you have to do now is pick up your phone and chat with your parents, friends, anyone, even strangers. Then, follow Aaron Kwok's instructions, get moving, it's a must, play ball, walk, run, anything, enjoy the process. Just get a good night's sleep on the weekend, wake up, and cook yourself a nice meal, or find a place to cook for you, hee-hee!

You can also choose to go to the bookstore, look at the latest new books, and then buy a few, adjust it, sometimes, give yourself a little quiet time and space, read a good book, make a cup of coffee or ter, and have some sunshine, wow, this is a happy thing! If you are bored and you are silent, then you will become more and more silent, this is my experience! Everyone goes through a period like this, and I'm sure you'll recover soon!

In fact, look at what you have now, and then think about what you may have in the future, as long as we still breathe, it is already a very fortunate and thankful thing, so don't waste time in unnecessary worries, remember, life is a mirror, you smile at it, it will smile back to you! I hope your mood can get better soon, and your heart will be clear!

You think, love is beautiful, isn't it going to become dull after a few years, you may be tired, so you will have no energy and no motivation.

Since you work in the township.

The job should still be good, and you can't give up easily, so as not to regret it later and take a leave of absence and plan to go out for a walk.

When you get back to nature and are full of beautiful scenery.

You will find that there are no distractions in your mind.

It seems that you still have something on your mind, and your mood is very depressed! Then take a look at Tokyo Love Story.

You will be very happy when you watch the protagonist in it, and it is easy to fall asleep, and you will forget everything you learn from her!

Hope you're happy!

I don't think you hate your current job, but you probably don't like it either.

Yes, you say that you have lost your life goals now, so create an atmosphere for yourself to calm down and think about your life goals and then carry them out.

Life is like this, going to work and getting off work, looking for money to live. But in addition to work, you have a lot of space, nothing is important in a person's life, only a strong body is the best, isn't it a little introverted and doesn't want to talk, then exercise more and nourish the body.

You should be thankful if you can see the sun every morning How many people are afraid that they won't see the sun tomorrow Adjusting your mindset is the key.

Buy a new dress and put it on to work, go to work, see colleagues take the initiative to greet warmly, take time to rest at work, drink some coffee, take a look, chat with friends, travel on weekends, don't feel how difficult it is to travel alone, if you change jobs, it will be like this after a while, because this is the emotion that everyone has, don't you feel like a machine, but this is precisely life, if possible, do more public welfare things, then you will drink and gain more.

You live in the world of mature people, obviously you can't find happiness, it should be because no one understands the happiness you used to like, you don't understand why others are happy, forcing a smile is tiring, girlfriend can't do without, life is going to be a little turbulent, the choice is in your hands, why ask others, you have to bear the happiness and pain, I dare to say let you resign, I don't dare.

Personally, I think there are two possibilities for work, one is to find a job that you are interested in, and the other is to find a job that makes money, so that at least you can have money to live the life you want. I have also been confused, and when I am confused, I have to keep trying and challenging to discover my interests and goals.

Looks like you're going to have to plan it, and there's no one to help you with.

You should cultivate more hobbies, make a few more friends, at the beginning you force yourself to play with them, chat, especially friends of the opposite sex, after a long time, maybe you will be integrated, it will be good, and then there is to set yourself a task that seems impossible to complete now, and then make unremitting efforts for this goal, such as chasing a person of the opposite sex that you think is not high, or read more books, famous books and the like, learn some new things, such as what you think you can't learn yourself, like playing the piano, Singing, photography, drawing... With hobbies, with pursuits, I feel that day by day is very fast, and there is not enough time, as for your work, I feel that you seem to be more leisurely, and there is no pressure, I don't know if I guess right, then it is better for you not to change jobs, fill up your spare time, and find courses for various hobbies to go to school.