Why did the heavens treat me like this? It s not fair

If you love her, you should understand her, love her, and don't care if you really love her, just this once, as long as you really love her, she will be yours sooner or later. God is fair to everyone, everyone is born empty-handed, it depends on whether you are willing to work hard, to learn, to change yourself.

People will always take credit and unfairness for their own unhappiness, but have we ever thought about what we have gained from the people around us? In fact, a kind of long-distance life is also something that we can enjoy, because it gives us thoughts, and if you write about that feeling, you will feel how beautiful it will be to exist.

Don't dwell on this matter, not today, another day, if you don't come back in half a year, then you will be even more miserable.

Life is not just about having x, changing angles, looking at people, looking at her warmth, even holding hands is a kind of happiness.

1First of all, be sure to calm down first. When you are treated unfairly, you may feel very aggrieved or angry, but no matter what, these emotions will not solve the problem, you must first control your emotions, calm yourself, think about other things, and shift the focus of your emotions. Because, only when you are sensible, can you make the right decision, don't wait until the fact because of your quick success, regret it.

2. When you feel that you can look at this matter in a calm mood, you should think about the whole thing carefully, and don't rush to confront the person concerned. If he is your leader, such a direct and rash theorizing, in serious cases, may cause you to lose your job; If the person is your friend, it may damage your friendship. So, be sure to think the whole thing through, because there may be inside things that you don't know, so always remember that impulsiveness is the devil.

3. When you think about the whole thing, your emotions will gradually stabilize, if you still feel and can be sure that you have indeed been treated unfairly, then you have to see how much damage this matter has done to your interests, if it does not touch the principle of principle or cause you a lot of loss, then you don't need to be sad about it, complain to your lover or good friend if you are not happy, and turn the page. Just think the whole thing is to make yourself more mature.

4. If this matter is very serious for you and has a very bad impact on you or your future development, then, before making a decision, you must think about what kind of consequences you will have if you do that, and whether you have the ability to bear such consequences. If you are at work, the biggest consequence is that you will lose the job, then you have to think about whether you have a better place to go in the future, otherwise, don't be too impulsive to go to the leader or the party to theorize.

5 Of course, if things are related to their dignity or touch their own principles, then they must fight for what they identify, there is a saying called "crying children have milk to eat", if you have been tolerating in exchange for not understanding, others will only think that you are a bully, so when it is time to fight for yourself, you must stand up bravely, instead of being afraid of this and that, only promises. Of course, you need to weigh the middle degree.

6 The most important point is that when you want to solve a problem, the way you speak will determine the development of the whole thing. It is true that you have been treated unfairly, but if you want to solve the problem, you must pay attention to your tone, not be unforgiving, and it is best to bring it up at the right time in a very peaceful way. It may only be because of other people's mistakes or not noticing that this kind of problem is caused to you, so if you can deal with it in this very tolerant way, I believe it can also win you better popularity.

Why do you say that!

Everyone will have difficulties.

No one is going to have smooth sailing, and I don't know what happened to you.

But you're certainly not the worst, nor the unlucky.

Anyway, there has never been any injustice in this world. Fairness is relative, there are no absolutes. Therefore, everything still wants to open a point, and the so-called contented people are always happy, which still makes some sense.

Since you were born in this world, do what you can do, and don't force the rest. Life is short, only once, grasp the moment. You must know that there is no absolute fairness in this world, only relative fairness.

God may close a door for you, will also open a window for you, don't blindly complain about the sky, the opportunity is reserved for those who are prepared, failure may be ninety-nine times in life, success is only once, if you fail can only sigh to the sky, complain about the sky, and do not continue to work hard to face, only blindly complain about the sky, success will never come People are born in this world, they are crying, no one is smooth sailing, everyone has a drink of cold water and plugged their teeth, and there are disasters when they are not alone, don't complain about the injustice, There are too many people in this world who are not as good as you, don't complain, there will always be a blessed and double solstice. God is the same for everyone, but everyone's luck is different, and those who are born with poor conditions need to work hard the day after tomorrow. If you are born with good conditions, you may not be happy every day, come on.

There are still conditions that are not as good as yours.

People live for a lifetime, in fact, we will all encounter some ups and downs, but some people don't say it, but bear it silently. So we must accept all the injustice, face it calmly, don't have any negative emotions, because complaining can't solve the problem, it will only make you feel tired, although I don't know what troubles you encounter, but no matter what difficulties you encounter, you must think calmly, let your heart settle down, and face it bravely, this is the way out to solve the problem. We will silently bless you!

Heaven is fair to everyone. The reason why you feel that God is not doing justice to you is because you feel that you are not getting what you deserve for your efforts.

When something happens, you should first find the reason from yourself, and don't complain.

A hard work, a harvest. Believe in yourself, every effort you make will not be in vain, it is a part of success.

It should be said that God is very fair to people. It is estimated that people like you who want to live or die ... Complaining about these things really won't solve the problem. Let's think about practical methods.

Heaven is the same for everyone. It doesn't matter what happens to you. It's all about solving it with heart. There is no love that cannot be solved. A person's life. There will be a lot of things. Let's take our time.

Seeing this title, I don't know what you have encountered, people may encounter a lot of hardships and ups and downs in their lives, but no matter what we encounter, we must be brave to face it and find a way to tide over it, instead of giving up on ourselves.

Seen too many terrible things.

Things, on the contrary, feel that everything will be fine.

With too many bad emotions, I know how to deal with them.

If you can kiss, don't talk, don't quarrel if you can hug, don't be in a daze if you can act, and don't shirk if you can reunite.

Don't treasure good things, and don't wait until tomorrow for what you can do today.

From now on, do your best to do what you promised yourself, and try your best to reach the places you promised to go.

The world is too dangerous, and time should be wasted on good things.

"God is never fair, some people go to Peking University with a little effort, and some people can only be Puyi no matter how hard they fight. Instead of talking about the things that can be seen on the outside, let's just say from the inside, some people are naturally optimistic and have a good attitude, and some people are naturally sensitive and easily injured, pessimistic and disappointed. ”

Is Heaven really fair?

There's no way, let you catch up, either change it yourself or go with the flow.

People are born in this world, they come crying, no one is smooth sailing, everyone has a sip of cold water to plug their teeth, and there are also disasters when they are not alone, don't complain about injustice, there are too many people in this world who are not as good as you, don't complain, there are always blessings and solstice.

Friend, you're complaining. It's not that God is unjust to you, it's because you didn't try. You should examine yourself. Don't complain here. There is no use in complaining.

This world is not fair, we often compare with others, why do others want to have any version, but I have nothing, the right may not be able to enjoy things in his life, others can easily have it, this is the reality, it is useless to complain about God's injustice, because it is unfair, recognize the reality, work and live in a down-to-earth manner, don't think too much.

Why do you say that, first of all, you have to value yourself. Your destiny is not given to you by God, you have to create it yourself.

Don't complain about God's injustice, it's meaningless, everything needs to be looked at from both sides, whether it is that you don't have the congenital conditions or you don't work hard enough, if you don't have the innate conditions, then don't grab it, no matter how hard you try, it's useless? If you have the innate conditions, then you have to redouble your efforts the day after tomorrow and strive to achieve your goals, instead of complaining about others, which is meaningless.

If one thing is not good, there will naturally be another good thing

Please don't say that, God is too lazy to take care of your affairs, God is not interested in targeting you, just like you treat microorganisms, if you want to destroy them, you will be wiped out, and you will not target one!

There is no absolute fairness, it is all relative, close a door for you, it will open a window for you, and the suffering will pass after all.