Why is fate so unfair, is fate unfair?

Friend, you have to believe that fate will not always favor a certain person, nor will it ignore a certain person, I used to think the same way as you! But this semester I found out that there are actually a lot of good girls around me, I thought I must be single in this life, but I didn't expect it, hehe made a friend... You work hard, pay more attention to observation, seize the opportunity, but don't confess easily, otherwise others will look down on you.

Do you want to find a girlfriend or a wife who will be with you for life?

If it's the former, then I don't have anything to say, ask someone around you for help, or something like that.

If it's the latter, then I advise you not to be too anxious to see if there are any problems with your interpersonal communication, is it that you can't meet girls in your life? Personally, I believe in fate, the world is so big, there is always your other half Or you should strengthen the belief that you will start a business first and then start a family

I guess this thing has a fate! Can't force it! It's not fair or unfair, human life is like a parabola, there is only one analytical formula corresponding to it, and all we can do is to be ready to meet the appearance of him (her) in your life!

You shouldn't complain, you just see the sweetness of others having their girlfriends company, but you don't know the sadness --- love inside, not just happy laughter!

What's unfair about that? Don't care how much others have, the last one is going to live with you for a lifetime, as long as one appears, it's enough.

Unfairness is absolute, fairness is relative and illusory. It's better to accept reality.

You are not as eloquent as them, and you are not as handsome as them. They don't have any money.

Most likely, though, you haven't met your true destiny yet.

For children from poor families, it is fate that feels powerless and shrouds their lives!

The word fate should be said separately, life is the basis of quantity, and quality is the possibility of quantitative upgrading and change. The first is fate.

On the one hand, the resources that poor families can provide for the growth of their children are limited, barren or even negative (such as the illness of family members, family debts, family financial difficulties, etc.). ）。In this way, the resources needed by children from poor families in the process of learning and growing up, such as more advanced, high-quality early education, learning materials, materials, learning resources such as famous schools and famous teachers, etc., are not comparable with children from rich families at all; On the other hand, what is more important is that the children of poor families learn from their own families the basic outlook on life and worldview, for example, hard work, hard-working, kindness, loyalty and honesty, etc., have been proved to be meaningless in the social practice of their own family elders from generation to generation, and the final result is that the child is still born in a poor family.

Therefore, in the process of learning and growing up, children from poor families have no successful experience to learn from, but are in the process of continuous trial and error. The second is transport.

Luck is opportunity, and opportunity is essentially an opportunity for an individual to obtain external resources. But every time in the face of an opportunity, the children of poor families, due to the combination of their own poor resources and the inheritance of their poor family's worldview and values, etc., make him have to admit that in every opportunity, he will be deeply at a disadvantage, and he cannot change Yu Songxian. Nowadays, many people talk about knowledge changing destiny and learning changing destiny, but in today's class solidification.

Even if you have the talent to learn, it only means that you will have the best time of your life during your time at school, that is to say, a time when you can dream, but the moment you open your eyes and walk out of the school gate, you will find that damn fate will come back to you.

Then there is the vertical shooting, and the original rules of the current society are the law of the jungle and the Matthew effect.

The essence of social competition is to bully the weak with the strong, the weak eat the strong, the constant will always be strong, and the weak will always be weak. Therefore, the gap between children from poor families and children from rich families will become wider and wider in the process of learning and development. Finally it becomes out of reach.

In the end, the fate of the children of poor families is actually unfair in society, and the children of poor families will always be on the other side of injustice.

Fate seems to be unfair and chaotic, that is because you have an unpeaceful heart, in fact, fate is fair to everyone, and it is unfair because everyone has a different attitude towards the so-called fate, fate will not give too much to anyone and will not give too little to anyone, as long as you work hard, you will definitely have gains.

Sentence about fate:

1. If you are poor, dig ** and turn it into copper; If you are rich, you will pick up white paper and turn it into cloth.

2. Fate is the chance of testing a person's talents.

3. I want to hold the throat of fate, and I must not let fate make me succumb.

4. People should be like people, and they should not become puppets and be governed by capricious fate.

5. Measure the future with the general facts of the past and the present.

6. I can't control my destiny, I can only cooperate with it, so as to make it move in the direction I guide it to some extent. I'm not the captain of the heart, I'm just its noisy passenger.

Yesterday I talked about blind dates at dinner with friends.

When he was young, there were several times when the woman offered him extremely generous conditions and asked him to join him.

At that time, he felt that he was young, and it would definitely not be a problem to spend a few years earning 3 million. So his pride didn't allow him to agree to such a transactional marriage.

But now that he has come step by step, he feels that it is better to enjoy the blessings.

To sum up, one sentence is "It's all skin envy"!

Many people will have a sense of arrogance when they are young, and my life is up to me.

But after being beaten up by society a lot, arrogance turned into frustration, and naturally I had to believe in the fate of the statement.

Of course, it's not that hard work is useless, but in many cases, it doesn't necessarily mean that if you work hard, you can become Ma Yun and Ma Huateng.

As many masters say, how much wealth a person can have in his life, how big an official he can be, and what kind of daughter-in-law he marries are all determined at birth.

Somebody will jump out and say, no! Do people with the same characters live the same?

I think "fate" is similar to the bucket theory, your wealth, official luck, career luck, marriage luck can be seen as a bucket, and how much you can get in the end depends on your lowest board.

This is what everyone is born to die, the same eight characters, the same height, the same gap.

In addition, there are factors that affect you, and you can make up for your shortcomings here, so that the amount of things you get will increase.

For example, two children with the same eight characters, one from a poor family in the countryside and the other with a rich second generation, but they were born in different environments, so even if they have the same development trajectory, the height is different.

In ancient times, there were relatively few things that had an impact on people, so when you look old at the age of three, there will basically not be too many variables or mistakes in the calculation of eight characters.

Nowadays, there are too many factors that affect people in this social change, so even if the mission is destined, there can be different levels and lows.

Efforts on your own can also change your "destiny".

So, friends who see this reply, I hope you can face up to the four words of "fate", many things are born and cannot be changed, it may be that your parents can't give you a good life, maybe you live in some shortcomings, or you may not be destined to engage in the industry you love, these destined factors will add a lot of restrictions to you, so that you can't become the person you want to be, but don't feel sorry for yourself. Plain and plain is the true meaning of life.

Here is also a word about fortune telling.

I have always felt that fortune telling is a physical examination, and don't lose confidence in life because the results of the calculation are not good. If there is a problem in the physical examination, we will solve the problem, treat the disease if there is a disease, and prevent it if there is no disease.