It s so unfair! Why, it s not fair, why!!

This is normal, it can be seen that he is a person with extreme low self-esteem and no sense of achievement. It is precisely because you blindly accommodate and obey him that he has found such a little self-confidence and plays prestige in front of you. This is something he didn't have.

I dare to conclude that he knows very well in his heart that you are by his side and that he is happy. But if you disappear from him, he'll probably break down too.

Besides, he always criticizes you like this, and from one side he is also deeply emotional, and he does not treat you as an outsider. Think about it, if he didn't have a deep relationship with you, or thought you didn't have deep feelings for him, he wouldn't be so casual and indulgent, right?

All in all, you should still calm down with him and have a good talk, and say what is in your heart. It can be seen that you are also an introverted person, even if you are wronged, you don't want to confide in front of him, for fear of losing your demeanor and hurting his self-esteem.

This is just a little bit of my opinion, I hope it will be useful to you.

It's because you love her so much.

Spoiling him too much. Appropriately snub for a while.

Let him guide you well.

Otherwise, it will be like this for the rest of your life

It's going to be very, very tiring.

Let me tell you, that man is definitely not sincere, forget it as soon as possible, go and meet other better men, there are so many good men in the world, are you still afraid that you won't find it?

Such a man is not a man.

If a man wants to make others better, he must first be good enough, he can't always ask you to be like this and that according to his own standards.

If you leave him, he'll regret it 100 percent.

The two of you are just not suitable to be together, there is no fate, sometimes I see a handsome guy and an ugly girl on the street, or a beautiful girl with an ugly man, I always feel strange, but in fact, it is not a matter of conditions, two people need a tacit understanding in their hearts, and they are very comfortable together. Don't change anything for a man, let alone obey his words, then he will think that he is a cow (although he himself is not necessarily good, but you will create such an illusion for him), and as the days go by, he will feel that you are not worthy of him (although you are better than him, but whoever makes you listen to him for everything, change for him). As a rule of thumb, men don't like women who are in a hurry, they all like to have an appetite.

I think you'd better split it. Like I used to be very uncomfortable, but later I found out that there are so many good men, and I was fortunate to share it with him, how old is he!

From your description, I feel that this man doesn't know how to cherish you, and there is a saying that you don't know how to cherish until you lose it. Yesterday I saw an article that says that couples live together for a month after divorce, but do not interfere in each other's lives. Men have always complained that women are not good here and there, but when women really leave, men find that they really don't look like a man without women, they can't take care of themselves at all, and their lives become messy.

At that time, men understood the importance of women to themselves, so many people only understood to cherish after they lost them. You can snub him for a while, let him understand how important you are to him, and when he knows how to cherish you, I believe that you will have no problems, and I wish you happiness.

Definitely. My girlfriend and I are about the same as you in terms of conditions. It's just that the economic conditions of me and her family are not very good.

But she has a short temper and says something excessive, even extreme, at every turn. I shouldn't be very bad with her, every time I get off work than she plays and goes back to cook. She usually does everything she does with tea, water, massage, etc., but she always takes these things for granted.

She made me thank her once she made breakfast. The other day, something made me completely hopeless, and I was ready to leave for a while.

I envy your boyfriend! I suggest that such people break up and forget it.

I also believe that a better one can be found on your terms. You don't necessarily need a better one, but you must find one that suits you.

Really don't hesitate, I've got your back. Wishing you happiness!

This kind of person should leave him ruthlessly, let him regret it for the rest of his life, and just think about what he wants and don't weigh his own pounds.

There is nothing in the world that is fair, and if you want to be fair, you have to rely on your own efforts to ......

There are so many things in the world that we think are unfair. I think there are several reasons why we have such an exclamation: 1

Our expectations were too high. Maybe we put in a lot of effort, but the result of this effort is ordinary, ordinary, or even worth mentioning in the eyes of others. As a result, we did not get the corresponding return, even if it was a word of praise and recognition.

2.Our capabilities (or strengths) are not enough. When our strength is still very weak, some people will deliberately ignore our efforts, and we are powerless to fight for ourselves and defend ourselves.

3.We lack the means to work around. If you do the same thing in a different way, it may have a greater impact, and then there will be a greater response.

So, let's not lament that it's unfair, and hurry up to improve ourselves. This kind of unfairness is the motivation for us to improve ourselves, and it is also a scenery on the road to our growth. If you can face it squarely, it will be your treasure.

I hope what I said helped you.

That's how society wants to open up.