Why do everyone only see the happiness of others? 15

Because I have become accustomed to it, I no longer feel that I am also happy, and I will always envy others.

During the Chinese New Year last year, I saw an article written by Jiang Fangzhou, titled "If someone is exposed, someone will be injured", it seems to be on Youth Digest. Hope you have time to take a good look. The article is written about this problem, the writing is sharp, very sharp, but very true.

I remember that when she described seeing others posting their happiness, it was called envy, jealousy, and hatred, and there was also a word called hiding in the corner and vomiting. Everyone wants to live happier than others, which is understandable, and at the same time, I think everyone has the psychology of wanting to "bask" their own happiness, which is absolutely understandable. But dear friend, if you understand this mentality, you should know that you should not worry too much about your own inferiority for the sake of the happiness of others.

"Sunning" is a psychology that everyone has, and choosing not to sun is also a kind of self-immunity. Maybe I'm a more conservative person, but I also understand the "hurt feeling" of secretly envying others. In fact, everyone is the same, as long as you work hard to live and feel with your heart, you will still be very happy, and I always think that people who can have a stronger ability to perceive subtle happiness are the happiest.

You only see the happiness of others because you only choose to see the bright side of others, you know? The key is still in yourself. So, I think your statement itself is a bit problematic.

You're pushing yourself too much, and people who have worked hard probably won't agree with you. There are also other people's efforts and failures. So, happiness is a reward for hard work.

I guess that's what happiness is all about.

Who has said that all the celebrities who post their happy marriages on the Internet have left. It's incredible, but it's like a reality. But what is even more tragic is that this kind of happiness is very lethal for most of us.

But friends, understand that the happiness you want is real and warm.

There is no need for us to worry about the happiness of others, cherish the life we have, and strive for the life we want, which is the truest and warmest happiness. I hope that we can have our own happiness in the new year and strive to cultivate the ability to perceive happiness. I would like to use this article to encourage you.

Everyone has happiness, and if you can't see your own, of course you're left with someone else's.

Try to feel the happiness around you.

Because they are not content. Everyone envies others, they envy others so happy, in fact, they don't know, when they turn their heads, they will find that there are many people who envy him.

I'm used to my happiness! Habit becomes natural, and I don't feel it anymore. In fact, if you think about it carefully, you are also happy, everyone has everyone's happiness, let's experience it yourself.

I was admitted to the first place in the school.

Today's holiday doesn't have to be a gift exchange, just put your mind to it.

As a man, he was able to support his family and get home from work with a hot meal. The wife is gentle and virtuous, the children are motivated and sensible, do something they like in their spare time, play games to see the small and return to the fingers.

If you have money, of course, you can also travel, which is a man's happiness.

As a woman, it is a woman's happiness to have a stable job of her own, so that she has the confidence not to reach out for money, her husband is considerate to her family, her children are filial, her family is harmonious, she is young and beautiful;

Each type of person has its own sense of happiness, and I think this kind of happiness is not the same, just like Lu Xun's ancestors Qi Sheng said:

The joys and sorrows of human beings are not the same, I just think they are noisy.

Nowadays, people like to stand on the moral high ground to evaluate others.

However, it is impossible for human individuals to empathize with these four words emotionally, because this sentence itself is understood in the current society, and it will be a perfect match for the following explanations:

1. Most of the time we don't care about the feelings of strangers at all, because this society makes everyone feel tired, and even if we want to care, it may be misunderstood as caring with other colors; 2. When we care about others, we don't actually understand the development of things, but we just try to understand from our own perspective, so we are undoubtedly creating a fake intimate relationship and trying to pull in the relationship with each other in this way; 3. If you connect everything with yourself, the weight you feel in your heart is indescribable.

True love is not something that can be expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted to the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned about him (her), and I hope every minute.

You can see him (her), you will think about him (her) all the time when you can't see him, you will be excited, your heart will beat faster, and you will be together.

When you feel very warm and safe, a person who truly loves will willingly take care of him (her), care for him (her), give him (her) everything he (she) wants, and watch the heart of the person you love.

It will also follow.

Heart, see him.

She) annoying. Annoyance will follow annoyance, but you will do whatever it takes.

Make your loved ones happy and happy.

True love. One person.

You will want to grow old with him (and grow old together), and you will look forward to bringing him (her) the greatest happiness with all your love, and you will also get another happiness in this process! I often think of him (her) and be happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, without him (her) it seems to have lost something, with him (her) I have happiness" I hope you can adopt my answer

I hope you can be happy", too

If you still like him, it's impossible to smile and bless! My heart will really hurt, I don't want him to have a bad life, but I don't want him to be happy because of others, because I think he is my own happiness, and I am his real happiness!!

Love is selfish. No one wants to see someone share their favorite man.

But sometimes we have to face reality. `

What if he doesn't love you and you get it.?

Since it is already an impossible fact. Then stay away.

If you can't see it, you won't be so sad.

All that's left is blessings. There is heartache in the blessing.

To love someone is to make him happy.

I don't know when this sentence started.

But how many can really do it?

People are happy, people don't want you anymore, will you be happy?

I won't, I'm not that great.

But I will also silently bless him in my heart, hoping that he can be happy forever.

Not for anything else, just to find an excuse to comfort yourself for your hypocrisy.

If you really love him, you will definitely do this, if you don't love him deeply, you will only want to possess him.

I believe that true love is acceptance, not endurance; It is support, not domination; It's a condolence, not a question.

True love, to thank but also apologize; Be considerate and considerate; We must admit our mistakes and correct them.

True love is not to stare at each other, but to look in the same direction together.

Perhaps, love, is not the search for a perfect person; Rather, learn to appreciate an imperfect person with a perfect eye.

If you hold hands, don't do it, just say break up.

Maybe love is to give willingly and share bitterness and hardship.

Don't wait until you lose it to know how valuable it is; Don't wait until you're hurt to beg for forgiveness; Something is lost and will never come back.

If a person confesses to you, please cherish him no matter what, her love for you is disgusted, even if you can only be ordinary friends; Perhaps there will not be a second time for a person's innocent confession.

Because of kindness, so cute; Because it's cute, it's beautiful; He Xing yearns for beauty because of his beauty; Because of yearning, so in love.

It's not because you're lonely that you love each other, it's about making those who love each other not feel lonely.

It's love, not time, that is able to ** all the trauma.

In a person's life, there will always be a large period of blandness, interrupting unsatisfactory encounters, it is love that makes us think of beauty, and there is still hope.

With love, you don't feel that hardship is a burden.

It is far more important to cherish what you have now than to pursue what you don't have.

Because you neglect yourself, you hide yourself, you always see others and forget that you exist.

True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think of him (her), you will be excited when you see it, your heart beats faster, you will feel very warm and safe when you are together, real love for a person will be willing to take care of him (her) care for him (her), give him (her) everything he (she) wantsSeeing the person you love happy you will also be happy, you will also be troubled when you see him (her) troubled, but you will do everything you can to make the person you love happy and happy, the real love of a person will want to grow old with him (her), and he (her) will be in love, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, and you also get another happiness in this process! I often think of him (her) and I am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, without him (her) it seems to have lost something, with him (her) I have happiness! Love is a gratuitous giving, is willing to help, is each other's heart induction, since you choose love, we must treat it sincerely, cherish it, support him (her) when he (she) is in difficulty, when he (she) is happy with encouragement, when he (she) is happy, happy together, sad to him (her) comfort.

Rather than ignoring its existence when you have it, only to regret it only after you lose it. To love someone is to make him (her) happy forever, to be his (her) eternal safe haven, to protect him (her), even if it is the slightest harm. True love for someone is not as simple as we imagined, an affectionate hug, a deep kiss, an unchanging vow, an unfading token, all of which are tasteless, dark and dull in the face of true love.

The most important thing to love a person is to respect his (her) own independent time and space, let him (her) devote his (she) energy to the struggle for his ideal career, and urge him (her) to make full use of the time at his or her disposal, help each other in the short space with each other, support each other, share weal and woe, contribute to each other's ideal cause, and strive for a better future together!

Thank you for the trouble to adopt!

Not necessarily. Look at and be watched. It's a couple, which one do you say is happier?

It means that you take the initiative to pursue your own happiness. However, if the other party does not accept it. It may not look like it is happy. But if you can accept it, then you are happy.

Being looked upon means that others are pursuing their own happiness. But what if you don't accept someone else's pursuit? Then the other party is unhappy, you can't say happiness, you can't say unhappy. It's an unrelated encounter.

On the whole, if you look at and be looked at, this pair, if it appears at the same time, is definitely happy; If there is only one, it is often a misfortune. Of course, if it doesn't show up at the same time, it doesn't matter, it's all passers-by.

Of course, being able to be looked upon shows that you have an appreciated side, which is a thing worthy of high attention, but it is not happiness.

It's just your own opinion, I hope it will be useful to you.

Think about whether the person you are most distant from will feel happy when they look at you? Happiness or unhappiness is a kind of mentality that can be chosen, some people simply live and feel happy, and some people want to get heaven and earth but feel that God is unfair to them for some small setbacks or things that cannot be obtained.

Then whether he is a person who longs to be loved or not is very important.