How much did the death of your young father affect your life?

<> have to say that it has had a great impact on me, since I was a child, I have felt self-prepared, watching other people's fathers reunite with the family, I will always envy from the bottom of my heart, simply, my mother still loves me, so that I will not collapse, so that I can grow up healthily.

It will make you cherish your loved ones more around you, cherish everything you have, value your body, care more about staying healthy, and make you pay attention to your own heart, see your own heart clearly, and talk to yourself.

The death of my father when I was a child still had a great impact on me, since I was a child, I was more inferior, very sensitive, stumbling all the way, I want to say to my father in heaven, you are not there, my son is going so hard.

I learned about the fragility of life, my father, such a great hero, has not trained me to be a man, so he left me, I know that I will be the only man in the family in the future, I must work hard to be excellent, share my mother's fatigue, comfort my mother's emotions.

The death of my father at a young age made me mature overnight, because I knew that I still had my mother to keep me company, and my precocious self may be my last gift from my father, but this gift I will carry with me for the rest of my life, forever remembering my father.

Since then, it has been understood that you are not strong and that there is no one to share it for you. I am 17 years old, more than 7 years after my father passed away, and for a girl, her father will always be the most important person in her life. Over the years, I often cried alone at night without talking to anyone.

When I first heard the news of my father's death, it was like a thunderbolt in my ears, and I knew that I would be a person without my father's love in the future, and I ......What I can do is to bury this sadness, because I know that my mother's pain is the same as mine, and I can't let my mother worry anymore.

Primary school is the most psychologically fragile period, I don't know if it's me or what the situation is, I lost my father at a young age seems to be known by everyone, the teacher will take more or less care of me, but after all, there will be a primary school essay like "my father", at that time, the teacher's approach was to walk up to me and tell me that I don't have to write this essay, and gave me a different topic.

I don't have that personal experience, but one of my classmates, his father died in a car accident when he was young. He was dependent on his mother, and some of his classmates would laugh at him, saying that he didn't have a father, and I remember one time he got into a fight with someone else. Without a father, there is a lack of love, and this love cannot be made up for by anything else.

My father passed away on January 23, 2020, that is, the day before the Chinese New Year's Eve, at the age of 55, from the detection of advanced liver cancer to walk less than a month, my father walked too painful, closed his eyes is the expression of his father when he left, regretting that his father did not filial him well when he was there.

My father, who is very healthy, has been gone for 43 days, suddenly had an acute heart attack in the middle of the night, and left in 10 minutes, my sister and I have not rushed home, these days are painful, thinking of my father's life, I feel distressed and can't breathe, I don't go to work, I don't go out has become my norm, I don't know how to pass.

For me, I haven't experienced the impact of my father's death on my life, but I know that everyone will have a day like this, but I still hope it will come later.

But I have such a friend by my side, when he was in junior high school, his father left him forever, so after that he became very inferior, and he was not willing to socialize with people outside, and even the friends around him were difficult to integrate into his heart, and he really didn't know what to do.

In fact, it doesn't have any effect, it's just that I often receive sympathetic eyes from others since I was a child, but I haven't tasted the joy of being held high, but no one gives my head when I am bullied, but I almost dropped out of school because I couldn't pay the tuition when I was in high school, and I was disgusted by the man's family because I didn't have a father when I was talking about marriage....

It's really nothing, I'm used to this kind of life, but sometimes I feel very sorry for my mother, and I feel a little bitter inside.

My father died when I was young, and I was told by others as "a wild child without a father" since I was a child. I have always had low self-esteem in my heart, and I have been looking for my father's love, until I met my current boyfriend, who is a full 15 years older than me, although he is old and ugly, but I feel very safe with him. Maybe it's to make up for the lack of a father!

On July 29, 2019, after a year and a half of fighting cancer**, I watched my father leave me forever, my backer fell, and I didn't care if I was hungry or frozen without my father in the future. It's painful. I miss my dad's smiling face every night.

I woke up every morning with tears in my eyes. I hope that this life will pass soon.

It's no longer the little princess of the family! Be the breadwinner of your family! No matter where you go, as long as it is the road that my father has had, my heart hurts! It really hurts! Everything can not be relied on in the unscrupulous have to rely on ......

A family without a father is absolutely incomplete, not to mention how you feel, you can't stand the eyes of the people around you! It has also had a huge impact on his own growth. Then you can tell me what kind of person your father is!

Ten years ago, my father was found to be seriously ill, and in order to treat my father, he spent all the family's savings, and finally his father died.

My mother and I were left to live together, when I was still young and in junior high school, and it was time to spend money.

In order to make ends meet, my mother found a job as a waitress in a restaurant, which was very hard, and I was very distressed to see my mother exhausted every day.

I proposed many times that I wanted to drop out of school, but my mother refused, and my mother said: Even if you smash the pot and sell iron, your mother will provide for you to go to college, and when you get ahead, our family's life will be better.

So I cheered up and immersed myself in my studies, believing that I would be able to get into the university of my dreams and give my mother a sense of security and reliability.

His mother died in 2007 and his father in 2013. I wasn't married at the time, so after my father died, I felt like I was suddenly an orphan, and there was no one who loved me anymore.

Especially when I get home at night, how desolate and desolate my heart is, and there is no readily available hot water if I want to drink hot water in winter.

When my father was alive, it was a family, and after my father died, I didn't cook at home, so I bought something every day and ate it.

My father was gone, and the sky at home was gone, and I became a stray dog completely.

When we are not old, whether we lose our father or mother, we will become insecure, and feel that the world that belongs to us is incomplete and incomplete.

We all know that the atmosphere of a family can affect a child's life. In a family with healthy and loving parents, children will naturally become cheerful and confident. But suddenly one day the family lost one person and the family became no longer whole.

Then for the child, her life will change earth-shatteringly, and his heart will be full of anxiety and inferiority.

It can be said that for children, it is happy to have the company of their parents. If one day this happiness is suddenly broken, his temperament will also change. He became introverted, dull, unwilling to communicate with people, he was afraid that others would laugh at him, and his heart was full of pain.

In the dead of night, when he recalls the beautiful moments when his parents accompanied him, he will burst into tears, and he will feel that the world is unfair to him, why did he suffer such an accident at such a young age.

It was when my father got sick and left me when I was in college, and now three years have passed, and I still can't get out, I always feel that my father is still there, but I have to say that he has really left me. Until now, when my classmates and friends talk about my dad, I always want to run away from this conversation because I feel that it is a sensitive topic that will make me cry. At this time, I always hope that my father will support me behind me, but he is gone, and everything seems to depend on me, I tell myself that I want to be strong, so that the other party will not look down on me, so that my mother will be pleased.

Therefore, the loss of both father and mother is a painful blow to the children, and the damage caused to them is irreparable.

It's really special sadness because half of the love has been lacking since childhood.

If a father or mother dies, it will definitely feel a lot of pain in my heart.

Very sad and lost. It's really not easy to be a single parent.

I feel like I don't have a home, that dependence disappears, and I don't feel safe.

I can't feel it, I don't have it.

Suddenly you feel like the world has changed. My mother died suddenly. I suddenly realized that I didn't have a chance to cry if I wanted to. Because my dad is honest, I have to take on more things. I can't cry in front of him. You can only cry alone.

That must have been a painful thing.

I guess I'll be very sad, and then I'll lose a little pillar in my heart.

Maybe it will collapse at that time, after all, it is still very young, and it will cry bitterly.

In 2005, when he was 14 years old, he had a car accident at home, his mother died, and his father was seriously injured.

It was only in 2013 that it came out of the shadows.

I still have a strong psychological problem.