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He is just your companion, not made for you to "use". From the way you asked, you can see that you feel that your husband is your personal belongings, born for you. Wrong.
The root cause of your unhappiness is that you got married wrongly. If you want everything to be as you want it to be, and if you want everyone to be under your control, then you should marry yourself. The way of husband and wife, that is, the way of yin and yang, husband and wife, yin and yang, do not restrain each other, not only do not get sick or die, but also have a prosperous family and children and grandchildren.
Men must understand the way of women, and women must understand the way of men, so that the family can be happy. Nowadays, women rule over men, men depend on women, men beat women, women complain about men, this is called yin and yang incompatibility, how can the family be happy?
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Everyone's personality is different, some are delicate and delicate, some are very rough, and your husband just doesn't understand the importance of communication. Many men are like this, in fact, women are like this, they really want the other party to understand themselves and comfort themselves when they encounter something, but often men can't do it, which will make people feel wronged. When we meet such a person, we can only learn to adjust by ourselves, and when communicating with the other party, we must find a suitable time, such as when he is very idle and in a good mood, it is easier to communicate.
Two people will be numb after a long time, because they are too close, and they no longer pay attention to details, such as the communication you need, but it is not that he just doesn't love you, but the other party thinks it is unnecessary. A little more tolerance and humility, a little more understanding and understanding, everyone has strengths and weaknesses. You can talk to a good friend.
The effect will be good. Have fun!
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If you don't know what your husband is for, or you directly feel that your husband is useless, then you have to find the reason in yourself, whether the requirements are too high, or he is really useless, you can try to change the brand of products through communication, because if you can't solve the problem, you are destined to never be happy.
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Men should get married, and women should get married. My husband is with you for a lifetime, can your mother be worthy of you for a lifetime? What to do when you get old. It's only the crystallization of your and your husband's cooperation. So look for a husband.
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If you say so, you're using them as a tool. How can you be your boyfriend and husband for what to do? They are your companions, your dependence, and your harbor!
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I studied a little bit of psychology and hope you can judge a person's psychology through the details. Understand the psychology of a woman of a certain age, and judge her thoughts by her work environment, family, and the words you usually communicate. If you love, please love deeply, if you don't, please leave.
Real friends are not alienated by distance, and it is a little strange not to be together for a long time, but distance cannot dilute the emotion of mutual understanding and help! If you think she's your friend, you have to trust her. Understand and respect her!
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There are things that cannot be remedied if you do something wrong, and to do it wrong is to pay the price for your actions. If this were to happen to me, I would definitely break off this relationship without hesitation. Of course, if you really can't let go, try to think about whether she has anything worth continuing on.