What is it like to have parents who are very strict with you as an adult?

When I became an adult, I still have parents who are very strict with me, and I feel like it. It's like a child who hasn't grown up, can't make his own decisions about anything, as if he doesn't have any freedom.

I think it's very helpless at first, because after all, it's your parents, and he cares about you is also a kind of love for you, and you have no room for refutation, but you may feel that you are an adult, and you shouldn't be like this, and you may feel very depressed emotionally.

I think that when I become an adult, my parents are still very strict with me, and it is a very constrained experience, especially when I want to live alone.

When I became an adult, I still have parents who are very strict with me, and I feel that I am not a free person, but I think of being restrained, and I feel that I have not grown up.

Personally, I think it's a very happy thing to have parents who are very strict with me when I am an adult.

My parents are like that, because I am an adult myself, and I go to college outside, and then every time I go home and play with my friends a little later, my parents will keep urging me, and then I feel very unfree and uncomfortable.

I don't like to be controlled by others, so I hate having very strict parents as an adult, and the stricter my parents control me, the more rebellious I become.

After all, it's good to have someone in charge, and it can also restrain my behavior and thoughts, but it's just too nosy.

Personally, I think it's very uncomfortable to have parents who are very strict with me as an adult.

I'm 37 years old, and my mom still treats me like an underage girl. If you exceed the scheduled arrival time for ten minutes after work, **** will explode. What can I do? I'm helpless too.

Your parents are still your elders, and they have the right to control you. It's just that you are an adult, and you are legally free to make your own decisions, and when your child reaches 18, your parents have no obligation or right to interfere in your child's life. However, if both parties are willing, they can still continue to participate in the lives of both parties, especially if the child is still in school and has no income, and the parents will generally continue to sponsor the child's growth and life.

Generally speaking, parents are no longer guardians after reaching adulthood, and guardians refer to those who have the responsibility to supervise and protect the person, property and all other legitimate rights and interests of persons who are incapacitated or have limited capacity. Generally speaking, minors, mentally ill people, and other people with severe mental disorders should have guardians.

Gen Xinqing according to the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 27: Parents are the guardians of minor children. Where a minor's parents are deceased or have no capacity for guardianship, the following persons with guardianship capacity are to serve as guardians in order: (1) grandparents or maternal grandparents; (2) Elder brother or sister; (3) Other individuals or organizations willing to serve as guardians, but with the consent of the residents' committee, villagers' committee, or civil affairs department for the minor's residence.

Article 28: Adults who lack or have limited capacity for civil conduct are to be guardians by the following persons with guardianship capacity in order: (1) spouses; (2) Parents and children; (3) Other close relatives; (4) Other individuals or organizations willing to serve as guardians, but only with the consent of the residents' committee, villagers' committee, or civil affairs department for the ward's domicile.

Legal basis: Article 34 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China.

The duties of the guardian are to carry out civil juristic acts and protect the personal rights, property rights and other legitimate rights and interests of the ward.

The rights of guardians arising from the lawful performance of guardianship duties are protected by law.

Where guardians do not perform guardianship duties or infringe upon the lawful rights and interests of their wards, they shall bear legal responsibility.

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No matter how old we are, we are still a child in the eyes of our parents. So even if we are adults, in the hearts of our parents, they will still worry about you, so they will still control you. This is the love and care that parents have for their children, it is the nature of every parent, and it cannot be changed.

So we need to understand and be grateful to our parents. Try to cooperate with them and reassure them. If your parents are still in charge of themselves as adults, and your heart is very depressed, you must first understand your parents.

Although we are adults, in the hearts of our parents, we are still children, and we still need people who need them to worry and care about everywhere, and we must understand this kind of thinking of our parents; Second, communicate with your parents. If your parents' discipline makes you uncomfortable, you should have a good talk with your parents calmly, let your parents understand your inner feelings, and strive to make your parents believe and respect yourself, and give yourself a little space; Finally, prove yourself with practical actions. If you want to get rid of the control of your parents, you must prove that you can with your own actions and reassure your parents.

What should I do if I am too strict with my parents and suppressed.

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No matter how old we are, we are still a child in the eyes of our parents. So even if we are adults, in the hearts of our parents, they will still worry about you, so they will still control you. This is the love and care that parents have for their children, it is the nature of every parent, and it cannot be changed.

So we need to understand and be grateful to our parents. Try to cooperate with them and reassure them. If your parents are still in charge of themselves as adults, and your heart is very depressed, you must first understand your parents.

Although we are adults, in the hearts of our parents, we are still children, and we still need people who need them to worry and care about everywhere, and we must understand this kind of thinking of our parents; Second, communicate with your parents. If your parents' discipline makes you uncomfortable, you should have a good talk with your parents calmly, let your parents understand your inner feelings, and strive to make your parents believe and respect yourself, and give yourself a little space; Finally, prove yourself with practical actions. If you want to get rid of the control of your parents, you must prove that you can with your own actions and reassure your parents.

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Your parents are still patting your elders, and they also have the right to control you. It's just that you're an adult, and you're legally free to make your own decisions.

Article 17 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China [Age Standards for Adults and Minors] Natural persons over the age of 18 are adults. Natural persons under the age of 18 are minors. Article 18: [Jingliang Persons with Full Civil Capacity] Adults are persons with full capacity for civil conduct and may independently carry out civil juristic acts.

Minors over the age of 16 who rely on their own labor income as their main livelihood** are to be regarded as persons with full capacity for civil conduct.