What does it look like to be an adult who always thinks of yourself as a child?

Maybe it's because you're dissatisfied with yourself, or want more, or blindly compare, or maybe it's the pressure of life that makes you feel out of place with the world. In the past, there was a warm ocean to contain you, but now you need to bear the pressure of life. Everyone grows up slowly, and they grow wiser.

If you feel uncomfortable, you must not hide it in your heart, you can find someone to talk to (you must find a reliable person), you can shout mountains, you can do your favorite sports, if you are rich, you can also drop things, all you need is to vent it. In the face of such a world, it is impossible for you to change it alone, this is the real world. But we can change ourselves, don't be frightened by difficulties, have the courage to try, although we may fail, believe that what you get is more profound than just listening to others, because you are practicing.

Don't let emotions control you, people will encounter setbacks, you have to face them calmly, you have no reason to believe in yourself, and stay away from people with negative energy. These difficulties are all in order for us to foresee a better version of ourselves. The things that make you sad will surely be said with a smile one day.

We can only move forward with a heavy load, if you encounter something that breaks your heart, you can't solve it, forget it, live like a child, no one indulges you, you have to spoil yourself, you have to live heartlessly.

I just feel that I have too many responsibilities to bear when I grow up, so I hope that I will always be a child, and I will always live in a world where I can't grow up, and I will rely on others and become like a child.

Maybe you haven't encountered setbacks in your previous life, and it's smooth sailing, which leads to your current setbacks and can't accept them! It could also be that you've been in a very low mood right now because you've been in a very low mood lately! Some advice for you!

Adjust your mentality, cultivate some interests, don't waste time on things you shouldn't do, and friends you shouldn't make, you should stay away from friends who give you negative energy now, and try to enrich yourself! Life is like this, bumps and bumps, don't be knocked down by life, but be more and more courageous! In fact, saying so much, the most important thing is to look at yourself, after all, everyone encounters different things, and they all understand the truth, it depends on how to get out!

When I started working to earn money, I felt like I had grown up when I was thinking about what kind of life I would like to live for my mom in the future. Later, when the work did not go well to my mother, I was still a child, no matter what it was, as long as I thought about retreating when I encountered difficulties, I would want to go home, I felt that home was my own haven, as long as I was at home, I would not be afraid of anything, and I felt that I would always be a child in front of my parents.

There are many setbacks in life, no one can avoid them, and the more you want to escape, the more you can't avoid them! What should be faced, or what should be faced, should be seen, or seen! People live to come to the world to feel joys, sorrows, and sorrows!

You can't be like a child, thinking about returning to your parents when you encounter difficulties, and don't dare to face your own failures.

I feel that in fact, anyone who is not a baby has to go through, it depends on how you do it, depression just want something happy, people in this life say fast and fast and slow and slow, cherish it, there is no hurdle in life that cannot be passed, if there is a bypass.

Treat children as children, but also as adults.

The former means that children should be given reasonable expectations at all ages, especially in terms of skills and knowledge.

For example, the child is more than three years old, but because he can't ride a balance bike, parents feel a pity, and they have to work hard to cultivate, even at the expense of enrolling in classes to study; The child is more than four years old, but because the child can't write, the parents feel anxious, and they have to send it to a calligraphy class for special practice; The child just started primary school at the age of seven, but because the pinyin was just learned and mastered too slowly, the parents collapsed, and they had to be sent to the extracurricular auxiliary spring guidance class for special study.

However, if you can ride a balance bike at the age of three and at the age of five, will it have a big impact on your child?

A mother in her thirties complains that her five-year-old child's handwriting is not good-looking, but she has written for more than 30 years, and it is not ugly.

When tutoring homework, "You're so stupid, you can't do it that simple?" How many times have I taught? "Actually, I only taught it 20 times, and I only taught it for a few days.

How many times did we teach children to speak, walk, and eat by themselves, and how many days did it last?

At that time, the child was treated as a child, but when it came to learning skills and knowledge, why did he forget that he was a child?

It's not that children have become stupid, it's that we've become too anxious, too easy to look at this matter from an adult's perspective.

The latter means that no matter how old the child is, he is an independent person who deserves our respect, rather than being perfunctory, deceiving, and fooling.

For example, if you promise your child something, you casually agree, but when the child asks for it, you say, "Oh, I'll do it next time"; When your child shares something with you, you interrupt at will, regardless of whether it is thirty-seven or twenty-one, and you do not respect his feelings at all; In the face of a thing, the child cannot have his own thoughts, and your sentence "Listen to me, you have no choice" deprives him of the right to make his own choice.

But isn't keeping our word the truth about what we adults do? Why is it okay to disobey a child just because he is a child?

Isn't it etiquette to not interrupt others at will, and if it is inconvenient, to refuse rationally as adults? Why don't we have to worry so much about a child, just because he is a child?

Isn't it a basic way of getting along with people, having their own choice, and giving him respect, within reason? Why do children have to listen to us and obey us in everything, instead of having their own ideas?

Treating children as children can we have less delusions, less unrealistic expectations, and more appreciative eyes to accompany children to grow up.

By treating children as adults, we can be less open-mouthed, less casual and perfunctory, and more respectful to treat children's problems.