Who has the method of confession, the most practical, the kind that I will not refuse

Confession is the first step in love, and only when you take the first step bravely will you have the opportunity to fight for what you want. Everyone is equal in front of love, the opportunity must be created by yourself, don't be afraid, don't wait, don't retreat, love is a thousand years and so on, not everyone is Xu Xian and Bai Suzhen. Of course, I'm not a lover, and I just insist on my own attitude towards love, everyone needs to learn in love, maybe for a lifetime, but confession is the beginning of learning.

I often teach others how to fall in love, how to pursue the person I like, just look at the problem from the perspective of a bystander, and the advice I can give is only my own opinion, in fact, I don't understand anything, and sometimes I don't know how to pretend to understand, hehe. Just like a classmate of mine in college, he wanted to confess to the girl he liked, and asked me what I could do, and he said that I understood the girl's thoughts. Although I am a girl, every girl has different ideas, and boys should never think that girls will necessarily understand girls.

I can only tell him that it is good to understand the personality characteristics of girls who like them, get used to preferences, and do what they like, the most important thing is a sincere heart, and when confessing, say the true words in the heart to move the other party, if it really doesn't work, be superstitious, buy yourself a blessing bag to ensure that all wishes come true. A girlfriend in my dormitory tried this method, she bought a consecrated wish bag in the store that helps you get rich, and then she confessed to the boy she liked really successfully, and now she has been in a good relationship. Fan Fei, the owner of that store, and Yuan Ying said that the things that opened the light were very smart, and many people came to their store for this.

Maybe that classmate is not very confident, and he really bought a wish bag for himself, he said to increase his courage and belief, that girl is what he wants to achieve. Fortunately, his confession was successful, otherwise my image as a love expert in his heart would have been ruined. He said he didn't expect this method to work, and I said that he was very attractive.

Confession is the same thing, sincerity and a little luck and courage, and it will be successful.

I have it... You take an Apple 6 and smash it, you see that he rejects you, no.

2. Euphemism.

Tell the other person that I am still young and do not want to fall in love. Or the family is not allowed to do so, or it is not allowed to talk about it after learning something.

3. Seeking help.

4. Mitigation method.

When the other party confesses, you don't like it, you can tell the other party, please give me some time to think about it, although this is not a direct refusal, but also tell the other party that you don't want to agree to him immediately. And after a few days, after the other person is emotionally stable, tell him that you don't like the other person.

5. The heart has a refusal method.

When the other party confesses to you, you can tell the other party that you have a favorite or crush on the object, and it is impossible to pretend to be someone else, even if the other party is very uncomfortable, but they will understand you.

6. Categorical rejection method.

You can clearly tell each other what you think, so that the other party can break off your thoughts in the future. For example: I said, from the beginning I met you, we can only be friends, we can only be friends in this life, there can be no deeper development, I hope you can understand, at this time the other party will not continue to be cheeky to pester you.

7. Territorial exclusion refusal method.

When the other party begins to confess to you, you can use regional factors as an excuse to refuse, for example, after knowing that the other party is from a certain place, you can say: My parents want me to marry people from those places, and other places will not consider it, I also think the same, using this reason to reject the other party will not make the other party feel very hurt, at least I feel that it is not a rejection of myself, but the place I am in, but the place I am in is a fact that I can't change, so I can only accept the rejection in no way.

In fact, whether confession can be effective or not depends not on the way it is done. Some of the results are actually predestined before the act, and the way to confess is just to complete a set of prescribed actions that can be said to be reasonable.

Confession is to show one's emotions and willingness to become boyfriend and girlfriend. Its purpose is to make a request for the establishment of a certain social relationship. Social psychology has always studied the formation, establishment and maintenance of such "social relations", and generally speaking, we all use the "social contract" theory and the principle of "equal exchange" to look at this matter.

In other words, any kind of social relationship, including a romantic relationship, is more likely to exist if the two parties can obtain an equal exchange of spirits, information, and materials because of the relationship. So, that's why we are willing to say "rich and handsome" or "rich and beautiful", because these are all descriptions of a person's potential resources that can be "exchanged". And this kind of resource, in most cases, will not change because of a confession.

But is the way of confession useless at all? I thought about it, but not really. In evolutionary psychology, in addition to the belief that potential resources can affect the residual infiltration of intimate relationships between men and women, the willingness to invest is also important.

To put it simply, if a man is rich but is stingy and reluctant to spend money on his girlfriend, then another man with mediocre wealth who is willing to share it all with his girlfriend may be more attractive and competitive. Therefore, confession may be an opportunity to show your "willingness to invest", if there is any simple and effective way, then I think it is four words: do what you like.

Some respondents say that they use the crowd effect, but in fact, not all girls like to be confessed in public. But if the person you're confessing to likes to be the center of attention, that's a good idea. The things and things that girls like are presented in a double way, which may add an insurance to the already almost doomed confession.

The confession must find the right opportunity, once the opportunity is found, it must be simple and should express the idea, only in this way can the success of the confession be guaranteed.

Confession must choose the right time, the right place, and prepare the things to use, which is both romantic and warm! When confessing, you must express your true feelings with your heart, so that the other party is moved, as long as you have a good heart, the confession will definitely succeed!

Confession has to go through a period of foreshadowing, you must first give the other party a feeling of your love, don't say it suddenly, and carefully plan the land transportation to surprise and move the other party. It depends on the character of the other party, and the other party cannot be given too much oppression, and the more shy non-lead beam must confess in public, otherwise it is possible to fail.

But when confessing, we must not be rejected, first of all, we must understand the other party's preferences and personality habits, we must dress ourselves up as the image in the other party's mind when we confess, and we must also express our sincerity when confessing; When confessing, he first dressed up his appearance, and when he confessed, he also expressed his true thoughts.

You must prepare with your heart and speak your truest thoughts in your heart; I asked him out to eat at first, and then prepared a lot of roses and balloons for him at the place where I ate, and told him on the spot that I liked his mental journey.

When you are sure that the other party also has a good impression of you, it is less likely to fail when you confess. I will spend some time with the other person first, make sure that the other person also likes me, and then take the initiative to confess.

The attitude of refusal will be straightforward.

If you are too tactful, the other party will mistakenly think that you are shy or reserved, many people are ready to face difficulties when they confess, your hesitation or procrastination is equivalent to encouraging the other party, and people will increase their horsepower to catch up. If you don't like it, you should resolutely reject it, otherwise it will only make the damage overlap repeatedly. Of course, it is understandable to think seriously for a few days when you are faced with a confession that you are not sure of your heart.

2.I will deliberately reduce the frequency of contact and meetings.

The pursuit of attaching importance to availability, few people will pursue a person who they feel is completely uncatchable. If your explicit decision never works, perhaps your actions and words are not "consistent", giving them the wrong hint. If you still reply to the other party's messages, go to appointments from time to time, and even accept gifts from the other party, it's no wonder that people are stalking.

An effective rejection should be to reduce the frequency of your contact and meeting, and to draw clear boundaries between your interactions.

3.I'll be honest with my reasons.

The rejection should be justified in order to convince and accept the other party. People are more inclined to believe in what they are looking forward to, and a vague reason is tantamount to fantasizing about the other person, and the righteous person is tantamount to throwing an open-ended question to the other person. For example:

4.I'll think more about myself.

Cases of courtship not being allowed to engage in extreme behavior are not uncommon, and there should now be basic precautions against people. Weigh the other person's personality and way of doing things in advance, and choose a reasonable way and occasion to refuse. If they are a person who is not good at managing their emotions, it may be better for your personal safety to choose to communicate in public, even though there may be embarrassing out-of-control scenes, but face-to-face is more respectful and sincere.