When love meets family affection, how to decide

If you love, go and don't let yourself regret it.

Let's break up. A marriage that is not blessed by the family will not be happy, and do not believe in the lie that love can overcome everything. It's your love period, and people are losing their minds. Think about it in 5 years, if you don't get bored with each other, it's already good.

You and your girlfriend are not in a young grade, so let's get along for two or three years and see if you still love each other so much. Let's make a decision. Young people, many times, adults have to listen to what they say. Don't hit the south wall before turning back.

Love is giving, but love is selfish, if you encounter a situation that puts aside real life, only emotionally, you will not break up, but the reality is cruel, and it is such a commodity economy tide society, just talking about feelings is not enough to feed the stomach, you should first establish a business, break the tradition of the Chinese"Start a family"Besides, your girlfriend is only 20 years old, you can talk to her, the two parties will not talk about marriage for the time being, and the heart is here to ease the relationship with her parents, so as to buy time for yourself to start a business, and you can use time to test your love, I think this is a very good idea.

I won't talk nonsense about what kind of love is the truth.

First of all, you should understand exactly what your girlfriend means.

Whether she is okay with starting a family with you (real thoughts, not necessarily true) find out how to figure out.

Because if she doesn't want to, then you can't help it.

Once you're sure she's willing, it's easy to say.

You talk to your girlfriend because she knows her parents better than you do.

Refer to some of her comments.

Find a way to ask his family to go to a nice hotel (preferably your hotel so that a colleague can cooperate with you) and have a good talk.

Explain the few points 1, the two of you are indeed very in love with each other and life will be very harmonious.

2. You won't be like this all the time, the current small staff can only be a temporary situation Speech and demeanor should be very steady and ambitious Will definitely show ambition in the future.

3. Talk about all the reasons you can think of that are conducive to the other party's family to accept you, conditions, and advantages.

4. Try to keep your girlfriend silent and calm Don't have disputes with your family.

Finally, I wish you success buddy, don't be discouraged and look forward.

If you love her and she loves you the same, I think you should go for it no matter what the outcome is. Even if you can't recover it, you won't regret it in the future. At least I tried my best. Sometimes regret and self-blame can make people feel even more lonely.

Of course, it's going to be redeemed! Although you don't have money now, it doesn't mean that you will never have money, and when the time comes, you can earn it together. As long as the two of you love each other, it's fine.

I just insisted on my own to have the happiness I have now.

I might choose to enjoy it, because family is a more stable relationship, which can make me feel more secure.

I think all love will slowly turn into family affection, this is a very normal thing, I can accept it, this kind of family affection is actually very good, it will make the other party feel inseparable from him, he has become a part of his life.

When love becomes affection, I feel that the best choice is to keep this love fresh, and the two should try new things to make this love no longer as boring as family affection.

Go with the flow. If it really comes to that point, you can only go with the flow, calm yourself down, and solve and analyze it rationally.

When love becomes family affection, I will choose to cherish this relationship, because all love will eventually become family affection, and we must know satisfaction.