Can you marry a girl you don t like?

Find a girl you like to marry as soon as possible. Marry someone you don't like. It will make you regret it for the rest of your life.

If you say that the character is not good, then forget it, if she is a little lazy, it is acceptable or tolerable, but the character? Will you be able to accept it later? Because after getting married, they were husband and wife, and now they are just friends.

If you marry someone you don't like, you're going to be unhappy, and if you really don't like her, you're not going to get married, or you're going to be miserable.

You can do whatever you want, you don't have to ask here. The key depends on how you feel about her. Is she a little more good or a little more bad. After all, no one is perfect.

Even if you can't get married, you can't ask for such a person, and even if you get married, you will get divorced in a year.

I can understand your current situation, and parents are always very anxious about their children's marriage when they are older. You should understand your parents, but at the same time, you also have to think about your future, after all, that's your whole life. Try to communicate with your parents first so that they understand you and help you.

As for the girl you said, she is not afraid of being lazy, but if her conduct is not good, it will be very fatal. You can pay more attention to the girls in your workplace, so that you can get to know them better. If your parents are in a hurry, but you can't find a suitable one for a while, you can consider considering your former classmates.

Especially if you've had a crush before. You'll get to know her better. Bless you and find your happiness soon.

If you don't want to be friends with people with bad conduct, you have to say hello.

Not to mention the people who are going to spend their lives together.

Think about it.

I'm also 30 years old, but you have to think clearly, otherwise you will have to divorce and divide the money at that time.

I usually go to the marriage agency for work and entertainment now, but there is no way, everyone has to come like this.

If you marry someone you don't like, then you will regret it for the rest of your life.

At the same time, make it clear to your parents and communicate with each other so that they understand you.

Absolutely not

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You can't marry someone you don't like!

Of course not, it's a lifetime thing.

If this were a multiple-choice question, probably no one would choose the "yes" option. But in real life, there are many people who marry people they don't like. Their cases are usually divided into 3 categories.

1. When he reached the age of marriage, he hurriedly found someone and started a family with him.

Although marriage is not necessarily an indispensable option in life, when you reach the age of marriage, your parents urge you to get married, and your friends choose to start a family, and social evaluation will also label you as older and unmarried.

All kinds of pressure will make you anxious about getting married. So, you find someone with the right match, and after a few months of contact, you rush into marriage.

But there is no heartbeat in this relationship, there is no appreciation of each other's advantages, and there is no emotional foundation, so you will not pay for each other unconditionally, because the purpose of this marriage is to live together in the first place.

You will have very little tolerance for each other's shortcomings, and the relationship will soon fall into a situation of quarrels and cold wars, and you will not admit defeat to each other, and gradually the only little love you have will be worn away.

2. Blind date acquaintance, no emotional foundation.

The necessity of the emotional foundation lies in the affection between you. I have experienced a lot of things, accompanied, run-in, quarreled together, understood each other deeply, and were willing to pay for each other.

But blind dates usually have no emotional foundation, and soon talk about marriage and enter a new stage of life. Contradictions again and again, thinking about each other, will make you feel that the other person is not the person you like.

Is it okay to marry someone you don't love.

I think that girls must find someone with an emotional foundation to marry.

Many girls, because they are old, find a suitable person and enter marriage. But in their marriages, there is often a crisis of divorce.

The reason is: once two people have no emotional foundation, it is easy to calculate.

Two people with an emotional foundation have experienced things and run in with each other, and they love each other. Therefore, when two people are giving, they will be willing, even if they give more, they will also feel the joy of loving others.

And living with each other will inevitably produce contradictions, but you will choose to tolerate because you love each other.

But when two people who do not have a deep emotional foundation enter marriage, as long as you pay even a penny more than him, you will mind.

When two people live together, they must not be able to calculate anything too clearly, and if you pay more, you will feel that you have been wronged, and you will fight with him to win or lose.

He will also have the same mentality, once he feels that he has given too much, he will also be dissatisfied with you. You care about each other, and the marriage can't go on at all.

Therefore, you must find a partner with an emotional foundation, and never marry someone you don't love so much.

Marrying someone you don't love, it sounds like it's quite abnormal, in the final analysis, you will make such a choice, it doesn't seem very reasonable, but behind that, there is also a reason.

First, the other party's conditions are okay and can have a plan.

When we were children, we always thought that when we came to this world, Yue Lao had already pulled the red thread for us, and there would be someone who happened to belong to us.

As we grow older, we come to realize more and more that there is no such thing as a predestination.

In the vast sea of people, it is not easy to meet a true heart and find someone who is in love with you.

Because his circle is really limited, among them, there is really no such person, he can't find that kind of love at all, and wanting to have a true love seems to be just a luxury.

So, we began to become realistic, since we can't find a special love, we just want to find a condition that is okay.

It just so happened that there was a person who was not bad in all aspects, who happened to be about the same as him, or even better than himself, appeared, and the other party happened to be willing to be with him, so, on balance, this seems to be a good destination.

Second, if you don't love yourself, the other party is okay with you.

At the beginning of love, most people are always very willful, bent on finding someone they love, thinking that only if they love each other, this love will be meaningful, and when they love someone, they are only particularly hurt later, and they begin to want to find someone who loves them. I feel that it seems to be happier than to love someone and be loved by someone. Therefore, later, when there is a person who is very good to himself, cares about himself, and often takes care of himself, it is easy to be willing to consider each other, fall in love with each other, or even enter into marriage.

thinks that in such a marriage, although I don't love each other much, but the other party loves me, that's good.

Third, the situation is compelled and there is no other choice.

In the event of marriage, everyone has the right to choose who to marry.

But sometimes, when our conditions are too bad, we really can't do what we want.

Not to mention finding someone you like very much, but also to make the other party like you, just finding someone to marry, it is very difficult, and it is not an easy task, because the other party will also have their own choices, and they will also want to be able to find a better one.

As a result, we have to begin to hide our desires, no longer want to find a satisfactory one, just to be able to find someone who is willing to marry us and let us be able to complete the marriage.

It is difficult to generalize when a girl marries someone she does not love, because everyone's emotional views and values are different. Sometimes girls choose to marry someone they don't love for a variety of reasons, but it's not a commendable choice.

There are situations where women choose to marry someone they don't love, and here are some of the possible scenarios:

1.Family pressures and responsibilities: In some families and cultures, marriage is seen as a woman's responsibility and obligation.

In addition, some women may also experience pressure from family elders and feel compelled to make sacrifices for the family, including choosing someone who has a stable financial foundation over choosing someone they really like.

2.Economic reasons: In some cases, a woman may choose someone she does not love to marry because he has the financial foundation to be able to provide better living conditions and financial security for herself and her family.

3.Material conditions: In some cases, a woman may be attracted to material conditions and choose a rich person over someone who really loves her.

4.Social pressure: Some women may feel overwhelmed by pressure from society, friends, or ** who demand that they marry and have standards for marrying themselves off.

Although many women have to face these situations when they are open about getting married, this does not mean that it is a positive choice. Marriage is an important thing, and it takes long-term, genuine love and support. Therefore, it is recommended that women carefully consider their needs and ideas before choosing a partner and deciding to get married, and choose a partner who truly loves them.

<> terms of love alone, Duan Fengran, no matter whether he is a boy or a girl, no one wants to marry someone he doesn't love, because such a marriage must be unhappy, it's just torture for each other.

However, according to the current form of society, there are also many task-type marriages in society, and the so-called task-type means that two people form a family to live only for the wishes of the parents, and they have little affection for each other.

The last thing I want to say is that this is very probable, and it is best for girls to be self-reliant and self-reliant, and to make themselves strong, they can make their own decisions, and they will be defeated by reality if they don't bend.

In fact, I think most people will not marry the person they like, maybe like is a concept, he can not fully integrate into our life, maybe you will not be happy with the person you like, and for those you don't like very much, but she likes you very much, two people will be very happy living together, and this happiness will slowly grow with the time of two people's lives.

Someone said: "Only when you are with the people you love can you be happy; With people you don't love, it's torment. I think a lot of people will agree with that, but there's no denying that there are still people who would want to be with someone they don't love.

After all, in addition to love, there are many things in life, many important people or things, and it is precisely because of these ties that people will change with the person they don't love, or it doesn't matter who the person who is together.

It depends on how much we are together, if it's a marriage, then I'm still unwilling, and I must recruit the person I love when I get married. But if it's love, then it doesn't matter, if she is beautiful and likes me, then Liang will definitely not refuse. Anyway, it's just love, and if it's not suitable, you can break up anytime and anywhere, and there's nothing to lose, but I'll still be cautious about getting married.

Women are indeed more emotional in their relationships, whether they are in love or married, they will take love very seriously, and hope that men can love themselves and have a sweet and happy love.

Men are more rational, just like Mr. Guo said, when they are in love, many men don't care, even if they don't love people, they are willing to be together, but they will consider it carefully when they get married, and they will still choose the person they love.

Yes. The first situation is that when you are old, you go on a blind date for the purpose of getting married; The second situation is that the girl is hurt in her relationship and does not want to start a new relationship, but at the same time there are suitors who get married; The third faction quarrels because of the envy of rock money.