Will love be reduced to liking and eventually disappear because of a different place? After reading

He was able to chase the girl for a vacation. Then his feelings for you should not be deep.

I feel like I should break up with him, he must still be lying to you until now, people who can move their hearts are unreliable, not now, but forever.

I just want to tell you, silly woman, with deep affection, the deeper the hurt, everything is plain, don't be happy and sad. He is definitely not the same person you will always be.

Because he can't get what he wants most.

I chose you as the next best thing.

I think it's better for him to leave early

If he really loves you, how can he hurt you? To pursue someone else?

Have you ever wondered if that girl he likes is.

Think about it. He's coaxing you.

Most of the soldiers are in different places, do they all break up? Think about it for yourself, when you meet true love, you can't let difficulties overwhelm you, difficulties are springs, and if you are weak, he will be strong.

Damn, this is your fault, this kind of woman is a cherished animal, if you miss it, it's really gone, hurry up and find her, live with her,

There is no choice. Since you love her so much, then love her to the end. Regardless of the outcome later. Because you've loved. Then everything will go your way. Zhuhai and Guangzhou are no problem.

I think it's good to keep a certain distance between two people when they are in love, not to mention that you are still in school and Zhuhai and Guangzhou are not far away! Since it is difficult for you to give up and separate, and you can divide and give up, then leave it to time, I believe that time can change a lot of things!!

I support you to quickly determine the relationship, as long as you like what she is afraid of, I feel that what you are talking about is a girl who is easier to passively accept and is not very subjective. So you need to protect her. You also said that she has been in a few relationships and has been very hurt and broken up, if you wait for four years and don't know what happened in the middle.

I can't say well after being hurt several times. You don't dare to talk about it easily for fear of hurting her. What did you help her with?

Watch the time pass slowly and the next person will go on to hurt her?

It's so touching, you, out of print good man. From your point of view, you know her very well, after all, you have known each other for so long, you have a good foundation of knowing each other and getting used to each other, and you are also very willing to pay for her. But I don't know what the other party thinks of you, whether they also treat you as a confidant, whether they rely on you or ordinary.

She has been in love a few times, but it makes me feel that she doesn't seem to really understand love, she is the kind of little girl who needs to be loved, right? You've been waiting for her, and if you're not bored, there's no reason why you can't wait. I think you're also very sensible, and you won't say that you have to die or live without her...

Personally, I think that you don't have to say that you want to talk about a long-distance relationship now, for her, it may be a heavy constraint, to be a friend who cares from afar, and to be the object of confiding and comfort when she is upset, so that everyone is comfortable... Personal opinions, please understand, welcome to discuss, look forward to your future.

Don't be so procrastinating, girls have, in a few years looking back, you will find that none of this matters, be yourself, what will happen then, let time decide.

Read your description word by word. To put it simply, you lack the most basic trust in your girlfriend. This has led you to the situation you are in.

Everyone should give each other a little personal space, and the necessary friendships and socializing should be there. There is no need to get to know you and be with you, all friends and other circles are gone.

It is conceivable that you are relatively small-minded and suspicious. If you are always so vexatious, you can only consume your feelings. If you still recognize this relationship, you should actively change yourself and face the relationship between you anew.

The reason for you is that one does not trust, the other does not understand, you know that she has nothing to do outside but still want to quarrel with her, in fact, you do not absolutely believe her in your heart, and she knows that she has a boyfriend and will worry about herself, but she still always runs out and does not draw a clear line with the opposite sex, which is incomprehensible.

It's not entirely your fault that the breakup is not entirely your fault, she didn't reflect on herself properly, she should have restrained herself after you got angry once or twice, or she could take you with her, friends are important, but you can't make your boyfriend worry all day long and feel insecure.

To put it bluntly, it's not enough love, you are really not suitable, there is no need to continue to entangle, you can't stand her going out at night, she won't change for you, the final result is to break up, she is not suitable for you.

I think you're acting selfish and naïve in this relationship. Why can't I control my emotions, why can't I communicate well when I hate her behavior, and I want to scold her for being disgusting? She said she didn't want to eat with you, and you were going to get angry and slam the door?

Your way of thinking is self-centered, and you lose your temper when things don't go your way. The decision to break up starts from one sadness after another, just like you hate her going out to play again and again, behind her apologies again and again are grievances and sadness, this grievance and sadness comes from each other's incomprehension, your distrust and improper communication between the two parties. Your slam may have strengthened her confidence in breaking up, and falling in love is about two people making each other a better version of themselves, not a subsidiary of either party.

What are you scolding her for, you can see that you have her in your heart, and she also has you in her heart, but it's obvious that people don't want to be with you anymore, because she can't feel happy with you. But as a girl, I think her indifference is all pretended, maybe she will cry secretly when you leave. You should try your best to please her, buy her a small gift, prepare a surprise, apologize with sincerity, and write a review if it doesn't work.

Don't just give up

You look at your description, first of all, you don't recognize yourself very much in your bones, and you are not very confident, which will lead to your lack of attractiveness, so you will be insecure and want to control girls. Yes, you will only put pressure on the other person. And you don't act enough on your own.

The emotions have also been repeated, which makes the girls very tired. The other party has been accommodating to you. Let you have no fear, never take care of each other's feelings.

Now that the girl breaks up with you, your own behavior has not changed in the future, but in a different form. Neither of you has solved the fundamental problem, do you think the other person will get back together with you?

Originally, the other party said that it was a good thing to be friends with you, but you couldn't control your emotions. Do such a childish thing, thinking that the other party will be moved. But you're only pushing the other person further and further away.

It can be redeemed. But if you continue to stalk, the final result will be to block and delete the girl who is completely out of contact with you.

If you need professional help, you can contact me.

It's a fact that you like that she cares about her. But you can't accept her life circle, and she is more and more disgusted that you control her so much and restrain her, after a long time, you will be tired, and you can only say that your personalities are incompatible. If you really can't let go of this relationship and want to save her, and want to marry her and live a life, you can only bow your head and not interfere in her spare time in the future, are you sure you can do it?

Maybe she also realized this and felt that it was not appropriate for you to be together, so she wanted to break up with you.

So who said the breakup? Since the other party said that he was dead, then the chance of redemption is not very big, and you said that you would separate at the beginning, are you too casual? People shouldn't be like this, it's not good to be like this.

Not only is it bad for yourself, but it is also bad for others. You also don't think about other people's feelings. Your willfulness may have been ready to break up in his heart for a long time.

So it's irreparable that he's broken up with you now. You have to have your own principles. From the beginning, that's the best.

Don't talk about that kind of hurtful words, even if you will redeem him, even if you are reluctantly together, when you have conflicts in the future, you will take into account these historical legacy issues and continue to have contradictions, so the other party may be a little resistant to you now and don't want to continue with you.

Why forget someone so painfully, time will naturally make you forget. What's the point of our lost years if time doesn't make you forget people you shouldn't remember? While there is still hope, hurry up and work hard, so that the effect can not only be doubled, but also shorten the time to success, if you want to consult, you come to ask yourself, by the way to read the article, I think according to my strength, should be able to make you successfully resolved, I hope you can achieve the goal, improve your problems, I wish you well.

Having said so much, it's all your fault, your machismo is too serious, you scold her at every turn, you break her heart, it is natural for her to break up with you, it will be incomprehensible to you regardless of the opposite, both parties in love should understand each other, care about each other, and build a nest of love with sincerity, so that both parties can feel the warmth of love, and it will last for a long time. If you don't change yourself, who will put up with your bad temper.

I'm already desperate for you, that is, there is no love, it doesn't matter what psychology is, it's better to think about yourself.

She doesn't have you in her heart at all, that is, she doesn't love you, and you seem to have broken her heart, so don't be entangled in her heart

Let's go with the flow and don't get too attached.

If you still want to have a relationship with her, you have to impress her with your sincerity, so that she can return to your arms.

She's too greedy for bars......Not for you!

Go with the flow, don't force it, learn to forgive and forgive each other, be considerate and understand each other, don't care, just tolerate each other generously, and there is no pure light Buddha in the south.

Continue to maintain a faint friendship with him, don't mention getting back together, but you can promise him, for example, "If you are willing to wait for me for a few years (wait until you graduate from college), you will come back and marry him", don't have too many constraints on each other, long-distance and love, just because there are too many constraints on each other, so there are too many things to pursue each other, so it can not last long.

On the premise, I am in Baoding, and my current partner and I are also in a long-distance relationship, and now my partner is also in college in Tianjin, which is really a coincidence. I've been with her for eight years, and I'll help you analyze the meaning expressed above from you, if there is something wrong with the analysis, please understand.

1. If he doesn't love you to death, it means that he doesn't have much love for you. (Because if a man feels that he can't give a girl a good future and doesn't stay with her, I want to say that it's really a fairy tale, forced by real life.) ）

2. He doesn't love you, because from the above analysis, he doesn't want to have too many emotional entanglements with you now, because he hasn't thought about falling in love with you at all now, simple analysis, you ask yourself in your heart, if you change your perspective, your family conditions are poor, and then his family conditions are good, will you choose to break up because you are afraid of dragging him down, the answer is impossible, because you love him, you will not let him leave you. Unless you are both too selfless people (real society, I don't believe there is such a thing) Do you want to love someone, you are afraid of wolves and tigers, that is called love? Love is love, what is the future, if you don't even dare to love, you still talk about love, bullshit.

One day find some grandiose words to tease feelings, fake, disgusting,.

I'm sorry I spoke a little too much, I don't believe that he loves you, and he can't love you anymore, because he has snubbed you for a while, which means that you are not very important to him, although he was in a difficult situation at that time. But this is not a reason to be snubbed.

Dear, everyone has that few points in their hearts, but you didn't catch it, you missed it.

If you want to give him the confidence to be with you, it is necessary to strengthen his feelings for you and make him especially want to be with you, so as to solve the problems of being in a different place and so on.

You know what his ideal partner looks like, no.

It's so tangled, I must not feel lonely when I see you, why are you quarreling? It stands to reason that it is not easy to meet, and it should not be noisy.

is wandering, only there is a suitor who is no worse than you by her side, and she is someone else's.

Some people say that love is something that people love and hate, the deeper the love, the deeper the hatred, but sometimes the situation you say always happens, in fact, it is not your fault or her fault, you both want each other to become as perfect as you imagined, but how easy is it? Only when one side compromises and gives way to the other, and changes for her, can you go further. The various parts of the newly bought car are not in the best state, they need to be run-in, a bunch of angular stones are gradually rounded together, in fact, love is the same, when you change for her, she is also gradually changing for you, so, you know what I mean.

I think it's love. Because of the distance, you have less communication, and some small problems can accumulate and become big problems. Maybe she can't stand the torture of distance either.