Why don t some girls want to have a boyfriend?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-28
46 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Busy, not enough time.

    You don't want to be distracted when you reach your goals, such as going to college.

    For example, I go to school, work as an activity officer, do 1 part time, 2 job tutors, and take care of housework and teach younger siblings.

    Marriage will be planned later, anyway, there are many handsome guys, and Yue Lao has his own arrangements.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    That's because she doesn't put love first at the moment, but puts her future in her first place! Such a person must be a very accomplished talent in the future!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's not surprising, I want to be free. I want to live my own life. That's my friend. In fact, she is also afraid that that kind of life will bring troubles to herself. And so it is.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Haven't you found it yet, maybe career first? In short, no girl doesn't want to find a boyfriend, and there must be a reason why there is no one around, but it is rare not to look for it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    He didn't meet the object that made him fall in love, or there was always someone in his heart that he couldn't forget. There is also a kind of reserve of girls.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It shows that she has some kind of pursuit, which is better than the pursuit of love. Before reaching that pursuit, I wasn't ready to start a relationship.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    1. I've been hurt before, and I'm scared.

    2. I didn't meet someone who really loved her, and she believed that she could love her and could cling to her, but she was still afraid.

    3. Excuses A euphemistic way of rejecting someone's courtship and being kind-hearted.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Perhaps: It's not that I don't want to have it, but the favorite I cherish in my heart can't be expressed!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Maybe gay!Dizzy. When I didn't say anything)

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Explain that she likes to be single or that she doesn't believe in love.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    A lot of girls don't want to have a boyfriend.

    Normal is normal. A person's attitude to life is a problem.

    Don't get to the bottom of it.

    Just accept the reality.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    1 She didn't find anything she really liked.

    2. She was hurt and didn't trust men anymore.

    3 She yearns for freedom, and she can't indulge herself under the constraints of some boyfriends. Hahahaha.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I don't think she has met her crush yet. Fate always comes when you don't expect it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Maybe it's for the sake of sincere waiting.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    There should be a question of sexual orientation.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Haven't found a suitable one yet

    I don't want to talk about this yet, my career is the priority

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Didn't see the right one.

    Use this as an excuse to reject someone.

    I feel tired. It's not enlightened yet.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Why should there be? How free is it to be alone? You can do whatever you want.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I don't want men to deceive people

    That's the one who guarded it

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I also met a very nice girl.

    I feel the same as you say.

    I don't know how to do it when it's full.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Better die standing than live kneeling!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Girls have boyfriends, but they don't want to get married because they don't have confidence in each other's feelings.

    Reasons why girls don't want to get married:

    1. After weighing the pros and cons, it is better to be single and happy.

    Two days ago, I had a quarrel with my mother because of a blind date.

    An uncle in the village wanted to introduce me to someone, and I was not reluctant to do so. However, after carefully inquiring about the other party's conditions, I didn't want to meet again.

    The reason is very simple, that is, his comprehensive conditions are much worse than mine. Of course, I don't have to climb high, and I don't have to be the right person. It's just that when the gap between the conditions between the two sides is too large, it is difficult to last long.

    He doesn't have a house, he doesn't have a car, and he can't afford to buy a house for the time being, so I don't care because I have. However, his salary is less than half of mine, and his ability to resist risks is too low. If I am pregnant and have a child and have no stable income, how will he support his family?

    Are you full of water? One day or two is fine, but what about a long time?

    2. Widowed marriage and parenting discourage girls.

    If you saw a pregnant woman standing on the side with a big belly, would you give her up your seat? If this pregnant woman is your lover, how would you react?

    **The filming location is a maternity and children's hospital,**The content of the shooting is very ironic,**The crowd in line is all pregnant women with big bellies, and the rest area opposite is all big men. They either close their eyes calmly or play with their phones in a leisurely manner. The appearance of the clouds and the breeze is light, as if the woman standing there in line is someone else's daughter-in-law.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    1. The reason why women don't look for boyfriends: there is a paranoid idea that there is no good man.

    This kind of thinking is in the hearts of many people, because they have been hurt emotionally, so they no longer believe that there are good men in this world, and they will not meet the person they want at all, and even if they do, you will not cherish it.

    2. The reason why women don't look for boyfriends: self-isolation.

    Expert investigations have found that if a person is not in love for a long time, closes his feelings, and immerses himself in a person's life, his subconscious will also close himself off, and he will not accept another person to join your world, because you are afraid that his joining will disrupt your original life order. The above is the reason why Ben San woman can't find a boyfriend.

    3. The reason why women don't look for a boyfriend: they have too many requirements for their other half.

    Although everyone hopes that they can meet a perfect man who loves them, fairy tales are always fairy tales, and princes only exist in fairy tales. Be realistic, find a realistic boyfriend! Gentle and considerate, kind and handsome, with this kind of thought, I may have to be single for the rest of my life.

    4. The reason why women don't look for a boyfriend: because they have love panic disorder.

    Love panic disorder refers to the fact that you don't want to enter a relationship, you don't want to be in a relationship at all. On the one hand, some people may be very longing for the arrival of love and longing for someone to accompany them, and on the other hand, she is very scared and has a special sense of fear. Fear of falling in love, fear of strangeness, fear of the unknown.

    5. The reason why women don't look for boyfriends: because of lack of self-confidence.

    If even you lack praise for yourself, it will be more difficult for men to find your strengths. Once you learn to love yourself, it will be easier to accept the love that others give you. One of the things that prevents you from finding a boyfriend is actually your own thoughts.

    Be confident! Remember that you deserve to be happy.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    First, women are demanding. With the continuous progress of China, the continuous development of the economy, and the popularization of compulsory education. Girls are no longer like in the old society, they are considered to lose money, and they get married and have children early!

    It is common for girls to go to university and pursue higher education. The improvement of the level of education has made the girls' requirements and expectations for the other half higher and higher, and the girls' ability to make independent choices has also been continuously improved. Of course, the requirements will be higher and higher, imagine if an excellent college girl would lower her standards to become the girlfriend of someone worse than herself?

    If the man's salary is not as high as the girl's. They always like to pick boys and are constantly looking for them, which also makes it difficult for many girls to find their boyfriends.

    Second, the improvement of women's sense of superiority. In today's society, there are more boys than girls, and women's sense of superiority is getting stronger and stronger. We will now find a phenomenon that most areas are very expensive to marry a daughter-in-law, and even the feeling of high quality waiting for the price to be sold.

    The gift money for girls has grown from thousands to tens of thousands, and even later to hundreds of thousands, and they also need cars and houses. This is due to the serious imbalance in the ratio of men to women. This is also the reason why the rural bride is endless.

    In this society where there are more men and fewer women, boys give girls the capital to choose in order to marry their daughters-in-law, and when women's sense of superiority becomes stronger and stronger, girls have higher and higher requirements for choosing husbands, so that they have not found a boyfriend for a long time.

    Third, the boys are not active. Now I don't know what's going on, the boys of the post-90s generation have begun to stop falling in love, and they are afraid of being hurt. However, men naturally love to conquer, and if they can shake hands easily, they will not cherish them.

    Many girls say they are aware of this phenomenon, so they don't take the initiative to meet men. Fortunately, girls in school still have classmates to choose from, but it is not excluded that some girls in their 20s have never been in love, because of their own introverted personality, coupled with a narrow social circle, if girls do not participate in various student unions and club activities at school, it is difficult for them to broaden their social circle. Let's talk about girls after work, after work, many girls go to and from work, two o'clock and one line, and many girls don't have the opportunity to connect with other boys.

    In addition, coupled with the fact that many boys are reluctant to actively pursue girls, on the one hand, girls do not approach boys, and on the other hand, boys do not actively pursue girls, this phenomenon directly leads to many girls not being able to find their boyfriends.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    There are many reasons why some girls don't look for a boyfriend, the first is that they don't feel like they're looking for a boyfriend yet. Age. The second possibility is that you haven't met the right person yet.

    The third possibility is that you don't really want to find a boyfriend, and then you feel that you are living alone. Of course, there are many, many other reasons, so everyone's situation is different, and the reasons are certainly different.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    There are many reasons not to find a boyfriend, and it is possible that you really haven't met a boy who makes you feel excited, and you would rather be single than find a boyfriend casually. Or the girl has someone in her heart, but this boy can't be her boyfriend, and the girl doesn't allow other boys to come in, so she hasn't looked for it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Maybe girls are more homely, and they are not good at talking to others, and they take the initiative to refuse when they meet the opposite sex. I'm more introverted and won't learn to dress up, so I can't find a boyfriend.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Because I love freedom, I don't want to be constrained, and the most important thing is that I don't feel lonely alone.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I think it may be because these girls feel that they will be more free when they are single, and they don't have the need to find a boyfriend.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Some girls haven't found a boyfriend yet, sometimes everyone's thoughts and opinions are different, and it is possible that the person who is really suitable for them has not yet appeared, and they don't want to settle casually. So, let's look at the individual's thoughts. Hope it helps you and I wish you a happy life!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Some girls don't look for a boyfriend, but some boys don't know that girls think differently, and some girls are very independent, very strong, and live a good life by themselves, so they will think that looking for a boyfriend is looking for a trouble, and they will be thinner, so they are reluctant to find a boyfriend.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    The reason why some girls don't look for a boyfriend may be because they feel that they are not yet old enough to fall in love, or it may be because the boys around them have not touched her heart, so they don't look for a boyfriend.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I think because the demand is too high, at this stage, I don't have a good eye in a study too busy and no time, and by the influence of Western society, foreign girls are single, now there are too many divorces, no hope for marriage, and by the influence of the family, parents always quarrel and have a fear of finding a boyfriend, thinking that they are very good and very free, I don't know if what they said is true, for reference.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Maybe this girl just wants to do her studies or work well at this stage, and she is worried that falling in love will affect her, so she won't find a boyfriend. It may not be that I don't look for it, but I haven't met the right one yet.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    There may be girls who have not met the boy they like, and then maybe they are busy with work and feel that the boy is unreliable.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    At least there will be so many girls who can't find a boyfriend, it's entirely because their requirements are relatively high, or they are arrogant, and they want these boys to take the initiative to pursue them, so they can't find a boyfriend.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Some girls feel that finding a boyfriend is a particularly bad thing for them, and they feel that finding a boyfriend will also make them uncomfortable, and it is better to live more happily alone, so they are reluctant to find a boyfriend.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    This has a lot to do with the difference in some people's values and views on love, after all, there are some women who think that they don't need to find a boyfriend, and independent life is the most suitable way of life for themselves.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Maybe the girl's standard for choosing a mate is too high, or the standard for finding a partner is also very high, so many boys don't meet the requirements of this girl, so the probability of this girl finding a partner is particularly small.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Girls don't look for a boyfriend, it's not a question of whether they can find it or not, but a problem of their mentality, some are waiting for others to chase after them, and they don't dare to take the initiative; Some are watching from the sidelines....

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    She thinks she can live independently, or strengthen her strength first, sober.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Some girls are not boys, but some boys see girls. In the same way, some girls are very independent, very strong, and live on their own. I think men are troublesome and thin, so I don't want to be men.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Why don't some girls find a boyfriend? It may be that they like to be free and relaxed. That's why I don't look for a boyfriend.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    With China's continuous progress, economic development, and the popularization of compulsory education, it is common for girls to go to university, and it is common for them to receive higher education. The improvement of the level of education has made the girls more and more demanding and expecting their other half

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Why do some girls not look for a boyfriend, because of their various ideological pressures, so they don't want to find a boyfriend.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Everyone has their own questions.

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