Why do some girls not want children after getting married?

Before I come back to the problem, I'll correct it.

Come on! What's the trouble with having a baby...

At first glance, the people who asked this question were stunned, and it was very painful to give birth to a child!! And if there are problems in various aspects such as financial pressure, she doesn't want her baby to live a bad life in the future. But on the other hand, having a child does not have the feeling of being together at the beginning, everyone's attention is focused on the small one, and the cost of raising a small one is indeed a lot Oh, unless the parents of the husband and wife can take care of the child, or you hire a full-time nanny to take care of him 24 hours a day, so that the husband and wife can be busy with work smoothly and there can be some wonderful spare space between husband and wife.

There are also some women who don't want children because she is relatively young and doesn't have any concept of babies, and they are even more confused about taking care of babies, and they have some rebellious psychology that they don't want babies.

Working women, on the other hand, are completely for the sake of their own careers and are unwilling to let their children drag them down.

In short, it should be temporary for married women not to have children, because children are actually the bonds that bind marriage Communication and understanding are very necessary What do you say?

I hope you and your wife can come to a consensus Good luck

Fear of pain or psychological trauma.

The world of the two is too exciting, and it is really helpless to have children; A handful of and a handful of urine, and feeding at night when you sleep; There is no truth in the old and the young, and after giving birth to a child, the youth is no more. Maybe that's the root cause.

It's a big trouble, I don't believe you give birth to a try.

So why do you have to have children after getting married?

First of all, because of the pain, and the current economic pressure of life is too great, raising a child is too tiring. If there is no parental supervision. will put all the pressure on the mother, so the average girl is scared.

Women know that if they have a child, they may not become a little girl, but will become a mother of a child, and there will never be such an easy life again.

Maybe it's because they're afraid, they're worried that having a baby hurts, that they're going to change their figure, that they're going to have a stagnant job, and that they might even suffer from postpartum depression.

I think the main reason is that girls don't want to be fat and ugly, and pregnancy is very uncomfortable, and having a baby may also be painful.

It's because there are many women who feel that having a child is a very terrible thing, and their body will be out of shape after giving birth, so they don't want to.

It is because women are not sure whether they will be happy after marriage, so they don't want children and want to observe their husbands for a while.

Because she loves herself more and wants to live a good life, this is such a feeling, so it's good to say this.

It may be because the burden on the family is too heavy, and there is no way to raise a child, so I don't want children for the time being.

Because women have jobs, they don't want to put all their energy into their families, they want to have their own jobs.

I think the world of the two is very good, and the girl also wants to be independent, wants to work, and thinks that having children will be a great drag on her.

1.Too busy at work, not available to be a housewife is a bit sleepy because of the busy work, often because of the work has to work overnight, there is no heart and time to take care of the family, others have time to prepare dinner for the family, but she may still be in the company as a copywriter. The focus of her life is on work, and she is most familiar with the colleagues who work together, she is the supervisor of the company, but she can't be a girlfriend's wife.

2. Unable to deal with family disputes. She is very good at work, but she is not clear about the trivial matters in the family, she may not know what gifts to buy when going to relatives' houses, she does not know how to deal with the relationship between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law after marriage, and she has no time to take care of the children. She may never have considered these problems that will arise after getting married, let alone deal with them reasonably.

So instead of getting married, she may choose to live together for a long time.

3.There are also some people who have a phobia of mother-in-law because they have heard many friends say that they have seen many examples, and they will have a sense of fear of their mother-in-law, afraid of what will happen to them, although they may not have been in contact with their mother-in-law, but their mother-in-law has become the biggest obstacle to marriage in their hearts.

4.I don't want to be a mother, many women don't want to get married, they don't want to have children, they don't want to be a mother, they live a chic and free life, they face having children after they get married, and if they give birth to children, they will be tied up at home, they have to take care of their children, and they have to educate their children. There's no time to live the life you want.

5.Men change their faces after marriage, and men will change their minds after marriage, and some people may be afraid when they see and hear more. Everything will satisfy you when you get married, you will coax when you are angry, and you will not be sad, but as soon as you get married, you will ignore you, and often yell at you and even use your hands to imitate.

Before getting married, I would volunteer to do housework, and after I got married, I didn't want to take out the garbage.

There are many young people around me who are married and have no children, but it is very difficult to find a job, and I have also encountered this situation, and there are many reasons why married women without children are looking for a job.

The first point is that one of the biggest drawbacks of female workers compared with male workers is that female workers get pregnant, and they often get pregnant within a few years of work, because women only have a few years between graduating from college and becoming pregnant.

And once a woman is pregnant, it is not far from maternity leave, according to the regulations, the general maternity leave will be about half a year, and the relevant salary, social security and the like during the maternity leave can not be stopped. But for the company, this is not a good thing, it is not easy to recruit employees, but it didn't take long for the employees to go on maternity leave, and they didn't do much work, but the money that should be given has to be given, and the company also feels that it has lost a lot. Therefore, many companies will make it clear when recruiting that they cannot recruit women who are about to become pregnant, just to avoid this kind of trouble.

The second point is that pregnancy and lactation affect work, and the inability to do heavy work during pregnancy, and the inability to travel during breastfeeding, etc., have an obvious impact on work.

After all, children are going to serve the society in the future, and enterprises should start from a sense of social responsibility to create jobs for women who are married and have no children. In addition, in terms of employment, some policies can also be introduced to encourage enterprises to hire married women without children, so as to create conditions for these women to be employed, so that enterprises can have enthusiasm when hiring them, so that the social and slippery source associations can develop in a healthy and orderly manner.

If Fanqing has no worries about food and clothing, it is also a beautiful thing in life to have a child and let him grow up in an environment where he is fortunate to shout and envy Zheng Paifu. But life isn't as good as dreams. I can only think about myself alive first.

Some of the post-90s and post-00s are the new main body of marriage and childbearing, and the phenomenon of postponement of marriage and childbirth is very prominent, which increases the possibility of women not marrying for life, and further inhibits the fertility level in China!

Why are some girls increasingly reluctant to marry and have children?

The reasons are as follows: 1. Some post-90s and post-00s are getting higher and higher, their horizons are getting wider and broader, their ability to survive is no longer a problem, and the economic ability to serve independently no longer needs men to live.

Second, the self-consciousness is fully awakened, and the lifestyle of the older generation, which has been living for others all their lives, is becoming less and less acceptable, and they begin to consider living for themselves, living chic, living freely, and living unrestrained.

Third, the essence of marriage is more and more thorough, a good marriage should be two people who love each other to support each other and make progress together, rather than living together, modern women don't need to partner with men to live together, only the wheel is noisy, so if you can't find a real soul mate, then single freedom has become the best choice.

Fourth, the highly developed **, a large number of real Tongdai case reports and the influence of their original families have made many women witness the chicken feathers of real marriage, and they are more cautious in their choices.

Fifth, there is also the huge pressure of housing, education, medical care, etc.!

I don't know if the summary is comprehensive, if there is anything to add, you can enthusiastically publish it!