I still love my ex girlfriend. What am I going to do?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-24
42 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You know, there is no regret medicine in the world. Since you did it ruthlessly, you can only face the reality, to love her is to respect her choice. But don't be so depressed, the world is so big, I'm afraid that I won't be able to touch the good, pay more attention to the people around you, maybe tomorrow you will find someone who makes your heart move!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    She has a boyfriend now! Although I know that you are sad, you should not interfere with others in the end, if she still loves you. I won't be looking for a boyfriend.?

    Let it go. You also go looking for your feelings.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    In fact, the love between two people together is not a great love, it is a great choice to let go for love, think about it from another angle, since she has broken up with Er for so long, and she has not looked back, proving that it is not willful, it is a ruthless and serious breakup, since she has made a choice, it proves that her psychology has not been Rat. After all, love is like this, there is a beginning and there will be an end, if you really love her, just like a man, try to let go of her, bless her with a smile, and then start your own life, after all, waiting like this, there is no meaning, chasing like this, there is no result, hope, I will figure it out, like a dedicated person, will be happy,

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Dude, I'm the same as you.

    Give up and watch him be happy.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    She has a boyfriend, don't be stupid, if you want to give you a result, you would have broken up with his boyfriend long ago, how could you have waited so long.

    If you love her, you might as well wish her happiness.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you really love her, bless her

    Then let go and start the next relationship.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It is useless to wait. If you don't act, you'll regret it for the rest of your life. I don't understand.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Love is selfish, since the ex is unwilling to part with his current girlfriend, justDon't take your ex's word for it, and don't contact again. People who are inconsistent in their words and deeds cannot be trusted.

    The predecessor was inconsistent in his words and deeds, and he was not credible <>

    Now that he has broken up with his ex and he already has a current girlfriend, there is no need to start over. My ex said that he loved me, but he didn't want to break up with the current one, his love was fake, so I had to see the truth and couldn't intervene in other people's feelings, which would make me very passive, and I wouldn't deal with my ex anymore. My ex's words and deeds are inconsistent, and he says that he loves me, but he is unwilling to part with his current girlfriend, which is cheating my feelings, so I want to cut off contact with him.

    My ex doesn't want to get back together with me, but he says he loves me, this is the performance of stepping on two boats, and I will not let him continue to cheat on my feelings.

    Long-term pain is better than short-term pain, and it does not destroy the emotional <> of others

    The other party was reluctant to break up with the current one, but gave me hope, saying that he loved me, and he didn't want to give up on anyone, but gave me pain. Knowing that this relationship has no results, the feelings of the three people are entangled together, and in the end it is still me who suffers, because I intervened in their feelings, so the long pain is better than the short pain. After thinking about it, I finally explained my thoughts to my ex, because I didn't have a boyfriend, so I always loved my ex, if my ex loves him as much as I do, he should give me an answer, if he doesn't want to break up with the current one, then I'll quit, I did it both to fulfill them and to fulfill myself.

    My life shouldn't be full of entanglements, the love I want is just and bright, and the love I want can't be built on destroying other people's feelings. Although I had a deep relationship with my ex, it is in the past, so I have to put an end to our relationship and I believe that I will find someone who loves me with all my heart.

    Epilogue <>

    A sweet love must be built on the basis of loving each other, and love is selfish and cannot tolerate a third person. Since I chose him, he also chose me, not to give me hope while he was dating other women.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If he really loves you, he will definitely be separated from the current person, if he just says that he loves you, but he doesn't show it, it means that he is just talking, don't care too much.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The predecessor's words can be said to be doubtful. I love you but don't want to be with you. I don't want to part with the current one, so the love for you seems meaningless, so you should consider letting go.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    My ex said that he loved me, but he didn't want to part with his current girlfriend, what should I do? Since he doesn't love and doesn't separate from his current girlfriend, it means that he doesn't really love you, and I can't let go of my current girlfriend for some reason, which means that you don't need to wait for him anymore, there are many good men in the world There is no need to hang him in a tree.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Since he wants to swing left and right between the two of them, you should let him make the final decision himself. You can be with him, but you also want him to be able to put all his emotions into you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's about loving you, but it's about loving you now! If he doesn't want to break up, you don't need to waste your youth on him, turn around and leave to find your own happiness.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You don't have to pay attention to your ex. Such a person feels good about himself and wants everyone to revolve around him, but in fact, he loves himself the most.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Your ex says he loves you, but he doesn't want to part with his current girlfriend. This ex of yours is hanging on you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Reject him and ignore him.

    Because this man says he loves you, but he is with his current girlfriend, then it is not worth believing, he just wants to find a spare tire and pedal two boats.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Hello, as the saying goes, a man's mouth, a deceitful ghost. Your ex just says he loves you, but he is actually with his current girlfriend, and he is using his actions to prove to you that he is just talking to you, and you should stay away from him and find a relationship of your own.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Your ex now has a girlfriend, and he confesses to you that he loves you, but he doesn't want to part with his current girlfriend, and you quickly break up with such a man, this is a scumbag, he just wants to cheat on you, and he shouldn't waste any more time with such a person.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The ex said that he loves you but doesn't want to break up with his current girlfriend, you or you should leave by yourself to find your love again, after all, your relationship has become a thing of the past, and if he doesn't break up, it means that he loves his current girlfriend, such a man is too greedy.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Hello! Although the ex said that he loves you, he is unwilling to break up with the current one, it is recommended that this kind of thing be said, just listen to it, don't put it in your heart! If I really love you, I won't break up with the current one!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Your ex said that he loved you, and he didn't want to break up with his current girlfriend, do you believe what he said? He still has to if it's really you, how can he not break up with his ex-girlfriend? He's just procrastinating, and you're even joking with you to hurt your feelings.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Saying that he loves you, but he is unwilling to part with the current one, it means that he still doesn't love enough, such a person is no longer worth your stay, look forward to find happiness that belongs to you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It shows that your ex is more sensible, although he likes you, but his current one may be more suitable to be his wife and marry him!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think your ex is a scumbag, he just wants to step on two boats, so you should stay away from this kind of man completely.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    That is, it is not true love for you, he just wants to step on two boats, and he is a scumbag.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Faced with a situation where my wife is still in love with her ex-boyfriend, my advice is:

    Communicate with your wife calmly and rationally, express your feelings, and find out what she really thinks.

    Give your wife time and space to slowly ease and recover, and don't rush to force her to make a choice.

    In the process, treat your wife with understanding, tolerance and compassion.

    Express your affection and support for your wife, but also firmly express your views on marriage.

    Let your wife see the importance you give her in your relationship and life.

    Appropriately reduce the opportunity for the wife to have contact with her ex-boyfriend, but do not prohibit her from making her own choices.

    You should also reflect on your own possible problems and actively improve them, rather than just blaming your wife.

    If the situation continues to deteriorate, consider seeking guidance or counseling from a marriage counselor.

    Finally, if the relationship is ultimately irretrievable, perhaps separation is the best option for both parties.

    It will take your wisdom and patience to eventually rebuild mutual understanding and trust.

    If it helps you, thank you. If you don't understand, please ask.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Your wife still loves her ex-boyfriend, that means that you are not good to him, your wife has this kind of thought, then you must first do your best, work hard, work hard, have a sense of responsibility and responsibility, a man is the pillar of a family, good character, such as Jianyuan life to be regular, scum, tolerant and paying, love and care for his wife, my wife will naturally love you, care about you, and will not miss your past ex-boyfriend.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    The woman was eating in the bowl and thinking about the pot. Don't be reluctant, break up with him and let him go to his ex.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If your old quarrelsome Yan Po still loves her ex-boyfriend, I suggest you don't stay with your wife, because he doesn't love you, if he loves you, he won't think about his ex-boyfriend anymore, leave this ascending woman, and avoid getting hurt yourself in the future.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It's not that my girlfriend has an ex is not imperfect, it's an experience, and it's a fate that he went through this failed love and then met me. As long as he can forget his ex and fall in love with me sincerely, I think it's also perfect love. I don't allow my subject to tell me for various reasons that he hasn't forgotten about his ex, and I think this kind of thinking is an insult to me, and I'd rather he go to his ex than fall in love with me again.

    1. What is the impact of the subject's inability to forget his ex?

    If the subject goes to find another girlfriend without forgetting his ex, it will definitely cause damage to his current girlfriend, and the relationship between the two will not be stable.

    Once my friend had a similar relationship, my friend was in love for the first time, and the boyfriend who pursued her took the initiative to confess, at first my friend was very happy and felt that he had found love. But after getting along with my boyfriend for a while, I found that my boyfriend often quietly sent messages to another girl on his mobile phone, and after being forced by a friend, it turned out that his boyfriend was chatting with his ex-girlfriend. From the content of the chat, I can also feel that my boyfriend wants to get back together with each other, but now that I have a girlfriend, I am embarrassed to break up with my friend, maybe the content of their chat is deliberately for my friend to see, and finally my friend reluctantly gave up this relationship.

    After all, the other party's heart is not filled with you, and you will never get true love from him.

    2. How to forget your ex?

    Some people break up just for fun, and I hope these playful couples don't go to someone else to fall in love with right away. If it's not a joke, the best way to forget about your ex is to work, keep yourself busy, and don't have time to think about your ex anymore, and when you think about it after a while, you don't miss each other so much. Also, things about each other must be hidden.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    My girlfriend has an ex, that's what happened to her before, you don't have to dwell on the past to make yourself entangled, as long as the two of you understand and tolerate each other now, it's enough.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Your girlfriend has an ex, you don't have to care, because that's all in the past, and now as long as the two of you really love each other, you should love her well and cherish her.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Your girlfriend has an ex, that's in the past, and now that your girlfriend is with you, you should cherish it, at the right time, and cherish the right person.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It's really unhappy to be late, but I miss her even more when I let go.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    So if you are obsessed with your ex-girlfriend, you should take the initiative to save this relationship, separate each other for a while, and slowly calm down before you find that you really like each other.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Then give up as soon as possible, in fact, you are also responsible for the other party. Only by sorting out your feelings will you find your true love.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Since it's your ex-girlfriend, the so-called persistence is just a little unwilling. I want to ask, if you have a girlfriend or an ex-girlfriend already has a partner, will you still be obsessed? I think the so-called attachment comes with some regrets.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It's a good one. Boy. It's just that being young is too impulsive.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Then chase and leave, if you don't agree, the man has to pick it up and put it down.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Floating and sinking is that a lot has been paid, but there is no gain.

    For example, if you wait for an hour for the bus, but the bus just doesn't come, but you just don't give up and wait, because you've wasted an hour, and you're afraid that you'll come as soon as you leave.

    Love is the same, you have given a lot to her, and even have the idea that I have given so much to you, why did you still leave me, and then even though you are no longer in love, you still want to redeem her.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Since it's an ex-girlfriend, forget it

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