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True friends are mutual trust, mutual respect, friends are frank and selfless, sincere to each other, friends are the courage to criticize and point, treat each other with all sincerity, when you have shortcomings, good words and persuasion when you go to the fork in the road timely reminder, friends are happy for you when you succeed, when you have difficulties for you to share, there is joy to share, friends are when you are arrested when it is difficult, is when you suffer a blow, is the person who walks with you hand in hand, shoulder to shoulder to trek life! Maybe your lifelong friends are right next to you! Once you lose it, you know who your friends are.

There are actually very few such friends.

To make good friends, you must first be sincere to people and things.

Secondly, love friends more than yourself, and finally, you can have the kind of friends who can be happy and sad with you, and do not care about gains and losses.

Understand these points:

First; Understand the importance of trust for friends, as the old saying goes, "Those who believe in others will always believe in them." It means that if you want to deal with the relationship between friends, if you want friends to trust you, you must first believe in friends, and the real "sincerity" is the foundation of getting along with friends;

Second: to be generous, especially when getting along with friends, we must be generous, as the so-called "people are not sages, who can do nothing" friends are also people, he will also make mistakes, we can not always grasp the mistakes and shortcomings of friends, to really do strict self-discipline, lenient to others, in order to really get along with friends, but also to make real good friends;

Third: in the midst of adversity, we can see the truth, the friendship between friends is not maintained by sweet words, the real friendship is able to withstand the test of time and environment, usually only the flesh and numb touting, the friendship that is coming to the end of the catastrophe but flying separately is what we should spurn, the friend who can give us a practical support at the critical moment is the real friend, the person who pushes you to the fire pit at the critical time is a false friend, a real villain, and the person who can persuade you to rein in the precipice is a true friend, a true gentleman;

Fourth: friendship should be maintained by feelings, not by money, gifts to maintain, as the so-called "thousands of miles to send goose feathers, light friendship and friendship" can send you a simple blessing when you are happy, can give you a light greeting when you are troubled, such friends are friends! Good luck!

Real and very rational friendship is the most beautiful priceless treasure in life, (friends just don't care about each other and tear each other down) This sentence is obviously not true, you have to change your mentality! You tell me?

Answer: In this way, I see if your relationship is good enough, and my friends and I often say things that hurt each other, but we don't feel bad, but feel more cordial. If you don't know each other well and he often says these things, it may be hostile to you.

If you don't think it's necessary, you can not be friends.

The things of friends are like, they must be divided for a long time, and they must be together for a long time!! Maybe it's this kind of friendship that lasts forever, so there will definitely be conflicts when we are together often, and it's better that we don't see each other often!! So when we have friends, we are absolutely invincible!

Such friends are true friends: 1The one who brings you out of the trough when you're sad.

2.Someone who laughs with you when you're happy. 3.

Remind you of people who are not proud when you are successful. 4.Someone who gives you confidence when you encounter setbacks.

5.Someone who helps you in time when you need it. 6.

and those who forsake thee neither when thou hast been rich nor rich. Remember: a true friend is generous, and the person who accompanies you all your life is your lifelong wealth.

You can play together, make trouble together, bear together, share together, don't account for too many gains and losses True friends can share the joy and responsibility with you, you can think about what you think, and the people you reach Remember to cherish and be grateful. //.

I don't know, I don't know, I don't tell you.

Friends are places where you can put your feelings. It's okay to harass and harass. A person who associates with a simple purpose. People who can make mistakes together but bear them together. With friends, you can completely relax and make yourself happy

True friends are supposed to help each other and help you in whatever way they can. Because friends are a kind of sustenance of feelings, we live in this society, people are social animals, each of us needs friends to share happiness and share sorrows, so friends are a kind of mutual attraction relationship, everyone must think that each other is okay, is trustworthy. So friends may not be the most important people in your life, but they must trust each other and can help each other, not take advantage of them.

Some people say that friends are betrayed, and this sentence really works for some people! When he doesn't need you, you become nothing! When you need them in trouble, a true friend will help you without reservation!

Sometimes he doesn't help you much, but as long as he does his best, you shouldn't blame him! Relationships between friends are delicate to handle! He is not so honest with his lover, not so unreserved as his relatives!

As long as you treat each other sincerely and do what you do with a clear conscience, then why care about how others treat you, because not all efforts are rewarded!! "Giving is also a kind of beauty".

Friends can't help everything.,If it's feelings, you don't have to think about it.,But if it's money.、Material burden can help.,But if it's improper behavior, it's best not to help.。。。 Because it's not good for you.

If he doesn't help you, there will always be someone to help you, think about what you should do, maybe you can solve it satisfactorily without others helping you.

In the real society, people are becoming more and more hypocritical, and almost everyone wears a veil and is not sincere about themselves. The word "friend" has become more and more abstract. The meaning of friend has different concepts in the eyes of different people.

Friends, no matter how long they have known each other, no matter how many times they have met, as long as they treat them with sincerity, they are friends. Some people, when they use friends, try to compliment, and when they achieve their goals, they scoff at them, and even laugh and sarcasm in front of other friends, in fact, this is not a friend. It's just a tool you want to take advantage of when you're struggling.

Friends, not every day to contact, not everything to report to you, friends, the longer the more true, the more plain and pure, the more sincere the longer. A true friend, he won't laugh at you when you're making a fool of you, he won't look at you coldly when you're in trouble, he won't be jealous of you when you're good, and he won't be jealous when you tell him your secrets. He won't spoil you.

When you are sad, he will have sincere words to persuade you, and when you are worried about work, he can accompany you to relieve your boredom. A true friend, only one step worse than a lover, only one level lower than your parents, a true friend who can accompany you through your life until forever...A true friend, when you are in a difficult situation, listens to you, he will not just take it as someone else's business and listen to the joke.

A true friend will try to help you, understand you, and pull you along, a true friend, and will never forget your name and what you do. , Real friends, and will not scold each other, because friends respect each other, even if there are any contradictions, they are held in their hearts, at most they are estranged from the relationship, and they will not scold, if you can scold your friends, then you are not real friends. 。

True friends, there are many sayings, in my eyes, this is a real friend, if a person has two such friends, then I feel that this person is really happy and lucky. However, lucky people are always rare.

no！Have you ever heard a story about a little boy who one day his father asked him how many good friends he had, and he told him how many he had.

So his father put him to the test and made him smear his clothes with blood. Then go to his so-called good friend, tell him that you killed someone, and borrow some money from him to escape. The little boy did just that.

When he found all his good friends, each of his friends rejected him for various reasons. Frustrated, he came home and told his dad. Then his father introduced him to half of his friends and told him to try again.

When the little boy went to the first uncle, he was anxious when he saw him, and immediately said, "Son, have you killed someone?" Come, uncle gives you that money, go out and hide.

He burst into tears, so he told his uncle the outcome of the incident and left. Then he went to the half uncle, who saw that he was covered in blood, and knew that he had killed someone, and said, "My son is about the same age as you, so take a bath, put on his clothes, and let him go to the police station for you."

He cried again, and then told his uncle what had happened, and went home...Tell him about it. His dad told him.

You don't need too many true friends in life, just half of them are enough. Only this half is genuinely good to you.

You are right, Chinese not only to friends, but also to relatives and friends all use each other, just imagine if you are poor and penniless, there are friends and relatives who will take care of you. Chinese only have the deepest feelings for their closest relatives, that is, their parents, and they do not care about the lives of others, and they are very selfish and cold-blooded and morally corrupt. No one asks about the poor in the downtown area, and the rich make distant relatives in the mountains.

If you don't believe it, look at the wine in the feast, and persuade the rich first. There are many brothers with wine and meat, and there is no one in trouble.

I can't say that, but it's not unreasonable, it's good to say that it's called helping each other, and it's not good to say that it's the landlord's explanation In fact, there are a lot of people who know people in people's lives, but there are only a handful of people who can really be regarded as friends, so the landlord, you have a mistake in understanding the meaning of the word friend Mr. Lu Xun said that a confidant in life is enough This is the emotion of a generation of writers He has many friends, and it is enough for people to have one.

My girlfriend has been working in Chinese Life for 3 months, and is about to turn positive, we began to calculate in the middle of this month, how much difference can be turned positive, and then calculated, the difference of 1000 yuan premium can be turned positive, I thought, I happen to have a friend, and I am the closest friend, I have always thought that I have a good relationship with a friend, although I have been thinking for a while that he thinks I have use value to associate with me, but the overall feeling is still good, I told him about insurance before, and he told me that he didn't have any insurance, and if he wanted to get sick and be hospitalized or something, there would be no reimbursement, so I said then you can make one, it's not expensive, and he said okay, I'll talk about it after a while. This time I thought about it, just right, killing two birds with one stone, he has a guarantee and solves the urgent need on my side, besides, they are such good friends, it is not difficult to do a favor.

I called him **, it happened that he was in the field, and when he came back the next day, I discussed with him, or not to protect it in advance, but also to do my brother a favor, he said to go back to call me ** the next day, but the next day was 5 o'clock in the afternoon, and there was no **, I called, he said on the highway, come back to call me **, I said okay, the result, hehe, the result is no play, I told him the last day today, the result is not believed, let me feel really surprised. I didn't expect the so-called good friend to disappear when he was needed the most, what kind of friend is this? Actually, I've already felt something, and he's okay with you when I have the value to use, and when it's gone, it's over.

This time, as I expected, the so-called people do not destroy for themselves.

Someone once said to my face, what is a friend, friends are to use each other. I don't think so, and even a little unremitting, I envy Xiang Nan, Lu Tao and Huazi in "Struggle", that's what I call friends, I really hope to have such friends, but I find that it seems that "Struggle" is a TV series after all, after all, it is unrealistic, and the reality is too cruel! But I'm still looking, I believe that people have feelings, and there will always be some people who have this kind of thought, but I haven't met them yet.

Friends just use each other? Maybe for some.

Basically, there is no real friendship.

One more friend, multiple roads,

The answer to the real world is yes.

If the two are friends, then they should say nothing to each other instead of hiding it, they should help each other instead of tearing each other down, they should trust each other instead of being suspicious of each other, and they should understand and tolerate each other instead of burying each other and intolerable ......In short, if you are a friend, you should be heart-to-heart, love each other, and be humble. So having a good friend is a blessing, and having a good friend forever is a lifetime of happiness. In this way, the word friend needs to contain too much content, and the weight that needs to be borne is too heavy and heavy, not as generally understood.

Those who can only have fun and not share pain are not real friends, and those who eat, drink, play and play, sweetly talk to their faces, and slander behind their backs are not friends. Therefore, many times, you can't willingly identify who you are a friend, you have to see if the other party regards you as a friend, if not, when you are betrayed by your so-called friend one day and you don't know it, it is not only a frustrating thing, but also a sad and painful thing.