What causes stinginess?

Stinginess, commonly known as stinginess, can also be said to be "a dime a dime", is an abnormal mentality that has the ability to fund or help others but is unwilling to take action. Objective factors that cause stinginess: 1

Unbalanced distribution and possession of social resources: social competition is fierce, and the uncertainty of the possession of social wealth makes people anxious about reality. This uncertainty makes people susceptible to gains and losses, and to be stingy.

2.Fraud in society: Fraud in society, people have a strong sense of vigilance, so that many people retreat even if they have the ability to help (fund) others.

3.Social values: Social values are what we call social ethos.

If the social atmosphere is good, "everyone is for me, I am for everyone", I believe that there will be much less stinginess. If the social distribution is unfair, and everyone is calculating and deceiving, then it is inevitable that a pathological miserliness will appear. 4.

Social isolation: In the past, everyone lived in courtyards and small alleys, often not closing the door during the day and not locking the door at night, and the neighborhood relationship was very harmonious; And now the design of residential buildings are high-rise, small high-rise, everyone stays in their own small rooms, but also breeds people's indifference, stinginess Subjective factors that cause stinginess: 1

Stinginess is a product of poor personality development in the early stage of an individual: we often say that parents are the first teachers of children, and the stingy behavior of parents and family members often has a direct effect on children's words and deeds. At the same time, the attitude of parents towards their children can also affect the personality of the child.

2.Miserliness is a negative form of self-defense: anxiety is an essential capacity for human behavior.

To cope with anxiety, people instinctively build self-defense mechanisms. Apathy, stinginess, and lack of responsibility are manifestations of this mechanism. 3.

Lack of personal responsibility: Due to the rapid development of modern society and the rapid development of the economy, people's living standards have generally improved, and miserliness is no longer limited to property, but has expanded to a broader field: reluctance to help others, failure to support the elderly, abandonment of baby girls, lack of concern for the surrounding things, etc.

As a result, the relationship between people is indifferent, the feelings are estranged, and the social atmosphere is also greatly affected.

Selfishness is caused by paying more attention to one's own interests and ignoring the interests of others!

1. Stinginess usually refers to people who are particularly stingy, and is also often used to refer to children, especially to protect money, and refers to people who are sensitive to the future, usually used to be very stingy with money, and also refers to being very stingy with feelings.

2. The atmosphere is usually very bold and righteous to put it simply.

3. Stingy, commonly known as stingy. It is an act that has the ability to fund or help others but refuses to act on it.

First, the meaning of the expression is different1. Small utensils: the belly is shallow and narrow, narrow, and also stingy; Small utensils. It refers to a person's small breath, and his mind can accommodate things like a small vessel, and he can't hold much.

The belly is shallow and narrow, and it is also called "stingy".

2. Stingy: stingy; The gas volume is small. Lu Xun's "Collection of Letters: To Xiao Jun": "I don't love Jiangnan, Xiuqi is delicate, but stingy." ”

Second, the parts of speech are different1. Small device: It can usually be used as both a noun and an adjective in a sentence.

2. Stinginess: It is usually used as an adjective in a sentence to modify the subject or object.

Stingy provenanceThe sixth and seventh episodes of "Dream of Red Mansions": "I'm not a two- or three-year-old child, and you also look at people as stingy." "The Fifty-ninth Chapter of "The Appearance of Officialdom":

Your aunt is too stingy, since she gave you a leather robe and face, why didn't she give you a new one, but gave you an old one? Zhou Libo's "The Storm" Part 18: "Don't be so stingy with our men." ”