Why is it easy for men to change their minds and not be loyal to love?

Love is actually very simple and simple! Love doesn't need to be out of the blue, it's true! For love, we don't expect its fulfillment, but we can make it true...

Today's society is a society where feelings are overflowing, love has long become fast food, not for eternity, but for what once had... What will happen in the future, who thinks so far? So love becomes a pillow when you are lonely, a traveling companion when you are lonely; It becomes an excuse for some people to achieve their goals, and even becomes a slave to money ...

At this time, love has lost its beautiful aura and has become realistic and worldly... Is there still true love in this society? Yes, but very little, modern people do not know how to cherish love, when they have it, they will suck the essence of love recklessly, do not water, do not fertilize, so the flower of love will not be long before it withers...

When love went away, I found that the beautiful love I was striving for was once so close to me, but unfortunately there is no regret medicine in this world... So when you have a good love, cherish it ... To love someone is to care about him and want him to be happy, and his joys, sorrows and sorrows also affect my emotions, but I just want him to be happy.

If you love someone just to make him love you, then you are misinterpreting the meaning of love. If he could live happier without you, then you should be happy, shouldn't you? Your fulfillment may make it a lot easier for each other, friend, why bother so much, there are many unfair things in the world.

The fate is determined by heaven, and the share is artificial, maybe you are not suitable to be together. Bury that love deep in your heart, as long as you silently bless him, one day you will also be blessed by God and meet your real him. Now if you have the same mindset as I do, you will be happy.

It's right to love someone, it's just that we love the wrong person

Isn't there such a saying? Women are fickle with their faces, and men are fickle with their hearts! This is for some and not all men! It depends on what kind of person you meet, just tell for yourself...

Because in the process of falling in love, the man likes other girls and thinks that the other girls are very beautiful, so the man will change his mind.

I feel that my wife has already gotten it, and the people outside the shed have not been blinded, so sometimes I will change my mind, and it may be that my wife thinks that some places are not particularly good.

It could be that two people are not suitable. It may be that the personalities of the two people are not suitable, so they will make each other change their minds.

It's a very common thing not to dislike it, and I didn't let Zhao do a way to explain why he had blood in the stool, it may be that he doesn't love it, and he has no freshness when he just arrived, or it may be that he was born with so much heart, and he guessed that the other party might be too attractive.

In fact, two people were very sweet when they first fell in love, but after a long time, one party would feel very tired and chose to ignore the other party. I no longer take the initiative to care about each other as before, and if I can't feel the other half in love, my love for myself should be withdrawn in time.

1. Stop loss in time.

Long pain is better than short pain, so if you can't feel the other person's love, you should break off this relationship in time. Many people are very easy to lose themselves when they fall in love, some love fades away when they talk, some people break up when they walk, when two people are together, they love each other very much, but in the end, one person left first. Whether it is marriage or love, there is a certain shelf life, and it is very appropriate for a normal love period not to exceed three years and two years.

If you don't feel the love of the other party in a relationship, it may be because the relationship is not managed with heart, so the love will disappear.

2. Learn to operate.

Let each other become unbalanced, if only one party always gives, the other party keeps asking for the person who pays, and if he can't get a response from the other party, he will also choose to give up. Whether in a relationship or in a marriage, we must learn to respect each other's early opinions, learn to communicate more, and take the initiative to express our ideas. In fact, two people will invest a lot of feelings when they are in love, and the two hearts will slowly get closer, but with the passage of time, it is difficult to find the original feeling after the sweet period has passed.

Everyone knows that in a relationship, you can see the other person's love for you in some insignificant things.

3. Create surprises.

There is also a need for a sense of ritual in life, and you can choose to give each other some practical and meaningful small gifts on anniversaries. These ritual gifts are needed at all times as a debugging agent, and when you don't feel the other person's love, you can choose to hug and kiss or pick a gift that the other person likes to give to the other person. If you blindly pay but Lu Zhuzhu can't feel the other party's love, you should stop the loss in time, otherwise you will be very easy to get hurt.

1.When feelings are cold.

Long-distance relationships because they have not been together for a long time. At the beginning, the hot heart, love slowly became very dull. It's not as hot as it was at the beginning, so now that the sedan chair hasn't calmed down, it feels like I'm single before, and at this time, the boy's heart is the most easy to change, because at this moment, the girl is no longer so important in the boy's heart.

2.There is no one around when you are drunk.

Boys are under a lot of pressure in society, he needs to support his family, and he also needs to make money to buy a house, and drunk boys generally spit out the truth after drinking, releasing some of the true emotions he usually hides, at this time it is very necessary to have someone around to listen to him, if there is no one around at this time, there will be some discomfort in the heart, boys will generally begin to re-look at this relationship, whether it is necessary to go on, this is a boy will want to retreat, because he needs someone to be by his side, but you feel sad when you don't have anyone by your side.

3.There were other women around me.

Because long-distance relationships are generally rarely able to meet, they usually call, send voice to contact, or express their thoughts about each other. and love. If there were other women at this time.

A boy's heart is very changeable, because he can't see his beloved for a long time. will begin to envy the couples who can see each other every day, and also hope that they can live and have such a relationship, then they will begin to look at this relationship again. Or you may be cold to you when you meet, and then break up.

1. In love, most of Zhaoqi's boys are hot first and then cold, and love is a subtraction system; Most girls are cold and then hot, and love is a plus point system. In romantic relationships, compared with boys, girls are often more likely to fall into an unrealistic perfect love imagination, they demand perfection, always have the great benevolence and righteousness of doing their best for love at any time, they pay more and more, unconsciously integrate their lives with each other's lives, and are more likely to lose themselves. On the other hand, the love of boys, in the early stage, is mainly based on freshness, and gradually in the later stage, they pay more attention to the understanding and tacit understanding between the two, and are no longer willing to invest too much energy and time in the ethereal romance.

2. For example, boys regard the determination of the relationship as the achievement of the goal, and the establishment of the relationship as a new beginning for the girl. There was a paragraph a while ago that illustrated this phenomenon well. Q:

Why do boys slack off after chasing girls? Answer: "Who still reads after the exam?"

Haha laughed at the same time, it also made many people fall into deep thought. The beginning of a relationship, in the eyes of the boy, is like going through an exam, nervous before the exam, fully prepared for it, and looking forward to passing the exam successfully. As soon as I passed the exam, I was recognized by the authority, and my hanging heart fell instantly, and I threw all the preparatory books I had read at night to the back of my mind, completely forgetting about the exam.

On the other hand, girls may be absent-minded when they are pursued, and they will not easily give their sincerity to the suitor and be in a high position. Once the relationship is confirmed, she begins to get serious, feeling that she has become someone else's "girlfriend" and "boyfriend" herself, "and the two must take on their own responsibilities."