If you want to talk about a second child, do you regret having a second child now?

I am a mother of two children, and now both children are in kindergarten. I think I'm still qualified to talk about my feelings on this issue.

Perhaps, some mothers of second children are now in the postpartum depression period, and they will feel that they regret having a second child; Or maybe some mothers are now fighting wits with two naughty guys, then they will say that I really regret having a second child; Maybe there are some mothers whose two children are very filial and capable, so they will feel that having a second child is happy.

For me, when it comes to whether I regret having a second child, I am very clear: "I don't regret it". However, in the process of raising children with two children, I did have emotional swings.

Sometimes, when the two children are unreasonable and unreasonable, I really have a feeling of wanting to give them away; And sometimes the two children are very filial, like two little padded jackets, I feel that all the sacrifices I have made are worth it, and having these two children in this life is the luckiest thing in my life. <>

The mother's mood will seriously affect the healthy growth of the child. If you are a mother of two children, please adjust your mentality, even if you feel that you regret having a second child, then please adjust this mentality, because your bad mentality will directly affect the psychological and physical health of the child. <>

Dad's attitude will affect the happiness of the family. If you are a father of two children, please also understand your wife more, help her do more housework within her ability, and spend more time with your two children. Sometimes, "widowed parenting" will not only affect the healthy growth of children, but also seriously affect the relationship between husband and wife.

In general, families with two children will encounter many difficulties in the process of raising two children. However, the child has been born, so please take on the responsibility of being a parent, adjust your mentality, and take care of your child with a sunny and happy mood, so that the child can grow up healthy and happy.

I don't regret it, I am very happy after having two treasures, the baby is very cute, the economic pressure is not great, and the quality of life has not declined.

I don't regret it, I have fulfilled my dream of having both children in this life, and I feel very happy and satisfied when I watch them grow up one day, and all the hard work is worth it.

I don't regret it, the two children will be companions in the future, and when we pass away, they are the closest people to each other, although it is harder now, but there will be more laughter and laughter in the process of hard work, and happiness is greater than hard work.

If the husband and wife are in harmony, there is nothing to regret if they have a second child, one is that the two children are not lonely, and the other is one more protection.

Personal thoughts. After the second child, there will be more happiness than when the first child is born. And my sister always says thank you, mom for giving me a little sister.

At first, it was the eldest girl who said. Mom. There is a sister in the belly.

It would only be sixteen months. I thought she was playing. More than ten days passed.

found out that there was a second child. I studied while my dad was having dinner. are all inclined not to.

Only the boss kept saying there. Want, want, want. We decided to ask for it.

I didn't ask my gender until I was born. Sure enough, it's my sister. I didn't want to be disappointed, not disappointed.

Anyway, I saw two children sitting and playing together. Let's go to kindergarten hand in hand. The eldest sister of the eldest school went to kindergarten and never cried.

On the first day, I knew that my sister was not in the same school as her. When I cried and didn't let my sister go. only to find out.

There is a kind of affection. It's really wonderful.

Most of the time it is the most difficult to get through those years, and I will not regret watching the children grow up and play together, but when I am tired, I will regret it soon after I have just given birth Anyway, the pursuit of quality of life Families with limited economy do not need to have a second child at all Because it will cause quarrels More tired Very tired It's not interesting Really, I personally can afford to have a second child, but I don't want to have it The important thing is that I just want to make myself and my child live well The family has a better life.

Absolutely no regrets! Every time I see his cuteness, I feel happy, and it is said that when people feel happy, they secrete a certain substance that will make them healthier. Also, when older children grow up, they rarely express "Mom, I love you", and at this time, there is a little treasure by your side every day, and it feels really good to have you in your eyes every day.

I don't regret it, it's my choice, and it's good for the boss to have a companion, it's not too lonely, and you can also support it more in the future, and the family is more lively

gave birth to a second child, I don't regret it at all, the first child is a son, the second child is a daughter, I feel that my son will take good care of my sister when he becomes well-behaved, they get along very well, and my son also has a playmate.

No regrets! Two are definitely better than one, this year's big first grade, small kindergarten, in addition to being busy, spending a little more money than one, everything else is good, very happy, very worthwhile, let me choose again, I will still have a second child.

To tell the truth, I was only 25 years old when I gave birth to the eldest child, I feel like I haven't grown up yet, most of the children are brought by my mother-in-law and mother, I don't feel that the child has grown up, and when I look back at the boss when I was almost thirty years old, I feel so sorry when I was a child, and then I want the second child, and now I want to hold it, I think it's so cute, I like it, the boss also likes Xiaobao, I feel that I have two children and I'm very happy, but I definitely won't have a third child, the child is really tired, and the age is getting older, The energy is not as good as before, and two are enough ......

Tired, all kinds of tired, go to work, take care of the children, now it is the grandmother who treats the two babies, but after giving birth to the second child, I feel that my sister is sensible, there is more laughter and laughter at home, there is really no money, I can only barely enough every month, I feel no regrets when I see the baby, I will not get rich overnight if I don't have a second child, I don't become poor after giving birth to a second child, do my duty, I hope the old people are healthy, and the husband is more responsible

I don't regret it, I have a younger brother, my husband has a younger sister, we discussed before getting married that we will have two in the future, my brother and I have a good relationship after marriage, and my younger siblings are also harmonious, I want to give the child a companion, like me and my brother....

Most people regret it, unless they are particularly fond of children. When you are old, you have to take your grandchildren with you, which reduces the quality of life of the elderly. Unless the conditions are particularly good, the general addition of money and effort may not be pleasing to the people.

It's better not to give birth if you don't have the ability, be careful that the child hates you when he grows up. The reasons are seen for yourself below:

1. There is no reason for your children to suffer poverty together. Ask yourself, do you have what it takes to teach or help your children not become social animals?

2. If you want your son to become a dragon and your daughter to become a phoenix, first of all, your parents must have the ability and financial resources to teach the dragon and raise the phoenix. Maxima is not as good as a mortal horse if he can't eat enough, and the eagle will only become a chicken in the chicken nest in the end. I don't want the pearl to be dusted.

3. As a parent, you have to be responsible. Children are not born and end, how can they be worthy of being parents if they are not raised. So I can't teach, why do you give birth?

4. There are many other reasons, but they are not limited to this.

I think that whether you regret it has a lot to do with whether the child is worry-free. Some children are naughty and mischievous and educate for half a day, talk for half a day, don't go to their hearts at all, study hard, work with adults all day long, and waste flowers day by day, it's really a heart attack, think about the future life, there will always be such a child, who will have a headache, how much will definitely regret it, on the contrary, absolutely happy.

In fact, I still regret it, I don't want a second child, I accidentally got pregnant and tangled and still have to get up, the eldest is now four years old, the second is only ten months, my mother-in-law can't count on it at all, I have to do everything myself, I'm too tired, really, and the economy can't keep up, it's relatively poor, it's useless to regret, I just hope that the two children will grow up healthy and happy.

I don't regret it, it's fun. The eldest is an adolescent, and sometimes he is disobedient, and the dick can be teased! It was really hard before, but now I've gotten through it a little bit.

I don't regret it, I don't regret it, and I'm even glad that if it weren't for a second child, the boss wouldn't dare to let her be alone at home during the winter and summer vacations, but now it's okay, the two of them can take care of each other at home, and I'm much more relieved to move bricks.

I regret it, I regret it, maybe I'm a selfish person, how can I feel like I don't regret being pregnant, I'm too tired now, work, the boss's study, and the second child's diet make me anxious! I regret it very much! More irritability than happiness, real feelings.

My sister is 6 years old, my sister is 3 years old, and I have no regrets or regrets. Although tired and hard, the two children give me more happiness, and the pay and gain are directly proportional.

Economic conditions allow, someone to help, and I like to have a second child, if there is no intensive one is good, two are too tired, especially women, tired to collapse, angry to depression, after a few years will find that they have grown small nodules, even more collapsed. So one loves himself very well.

I don't regret it, my eldest is an older sister, my second is a younger brother, and the happiness is that everyone loves each other!

Personally, I don't regret it is not decided now, even if I am busy watching the lively and lovely children love each other, it is also a kind of happiness to be tired and have a tight cost of living! The real feeling is when the child gets married, that is, the life of the old age, whether you are happy or not is the real experience.

The second child does not regret it, what he regrets is marrying an irresponsible man.

It feels very good, steadfast, stable and not anxious, when I was a child, I was always afraid of this and that, and now both children are healthy, smart and sensible.

I don't regret it, I love both little guys so much!

My son is 8 years old, my daughter is 4 years old, the two age differences are right, and I also want two children at the right age. There is a sense of happiness, but it has nothing to do with whether or not to have a second child, sometimes I want to assume that there is no second child, and spend the money and energy spent by the second child on accompanying the eldest child, and the sense of happiness is as strong.

In a word, you must regret not having money. There are those who insist that they do not regret it, but history cannot be erased. It's hard to have no money. If people are not afraid of running out of money. Then what kind of work do you have to do, let's travel the mountains and rivers every day.

After having a second child, some mothers will regret it very much. Because the arrival of the second child will affect the learning of the first-born child. It may be in some people, and when Dabao is 4 years old, it will be more worrying, so the mother who has a second child will be more worrying, but if the husband is not psychologically prepared, or the husband has just arrived to promote.

At this time, if the second child officially arrives, it may have a small impact on the eldest child.

At this time, the biggest influence is learning, maybe the old one is at the critical moment of learning and promotion, but due to the arrival of the second child, mothers will basically focus on the use of the second child, and there is no more attention to Dabao, which leads to the boss catching a cold and the family is uncomfortable, which often brings great shortcomings, so it affects the life of the boss after that. The arrival of a second child affects the health of the elderly In fact, many of those families who want a second child are rumored by her mother-in-law, especially those who do not have a body at home, and the elderly are often more urgent. In fact, after the birth of filial piety, the old man usually helps it, but you know, then the old man's body is not as good as the young man, so if you help the baby, you may have more influence on the health of the old man.

Imagine that if the second child arrives, that old man will be happy to help the baby, but some old people are already six or seven years old and may have all sorts of diseases. When walking, the strength is insufficient, and there is no need to say it. The old two ran away.

Therefore, if the elderly are taking care of a second child, it will often affect the health of the elderly. However, some mothers who have a second child are very happy. The mother of two said he has no regrets about his second child and that he feels more comfortable these days than before.

After giving birth to the boss, you can suffer. If you fall asleep at night, the doctor says the blood loss is severe; Because the milk powder is flour, the body is seriously deformed, and there is no reduction until the second child; On top of that, because you have a child at home, you can't feel serious, and I find my mind frustrating. After giving birth to her second child, the mother took a child's lesson.

It is possible to eat blood in the month. Mothers who have had a second child are now in better health than they were before they were pregnant; There are two children, the nanny is in charge of pushing the trolley, and the mothers want to go shopping and relax.

will regret it, because after giving birth to the second child, they will be very busy, and they will put all their energy on taking care of the second child, when they have more than enough and not enough.

Certainly not regretted it. Mothers who have a second child will feel that they have an extra child and a little padded jacket, and they will feel very happy.

Most mothers who have a second child will not regret it, because they will be happy that they have another child, and they will also try to ensure a good balance between the two children, and only a few mothers will regret it.

I will definitely not regret it, although I am a little tired, but the child is also very happy when he calls his mother, and the two children are also very good.

will regret it, after all, after having a second child, the family's economy is not as rich as before, and the mother's personal time is getting less and less.