A guy has a good girlfriend, but he is attracted to other girls, who should he choose?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-04
32 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I remember reading this quote on the Internet before: "If you like two people at the same time, then choose the second one, because if you really like the first, you won't like the second." "I also think that if this happens, then choose the girl who makes her heart move, because in my opinion, if a boy really likes his girlfriend wholeheartedly and only has his girlfriend in his eyes, it is impossible to be attracted to other girls, which can only show that the boy does not have to be his girlfriend, nor does he particularly love his girlfriend, which also proves that that a good girlfriend is not the ultimate belonging in a man's life.

    In fact, I think that when this question is asked, the boy has already made a choice, and this question has fully demonstrated the boy's entanglement. If a boy just wants to go on with his girlfriend, he won't bother to think about this problem at all, let alone be tempted by other girls, because people who fall in love only have each other in their eyes, and they can't tolerate a third person at all, and they are unlikely to make room for other people.

    I think Zhang Jie is a very good role model, in my opinion, the love between Zhang Jie and Xie Na is very enviable. Zhang Jie will not have any too intimate actions with any other female artists for Xie Na, and he himself said that he would not go to filming, he was worried that Xie Na would be jealous. A while ago, there was no such saying on the Internet, saying that as long as Xie Na is there, you will never see Zhang Jie's face, because Zhang Jie's eyes are always looking at Xie Na.

    I think the two of them are the best appearance of love, and only in front of Zhang Jie Xie Na is a little woman, she can be coquettish and angry, and only by Xie Na's side Zhang Jie will be confident that she is her true self.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I wonder how you found this great girlfriend, is it because you are tempted? Or is it just a good feeling? If you want to make a choice, you still have to make it clear to your current girlfriend first, no matter what your choice is, she has the right to know.

    Since you will be attracted to other girls, it may also prove that you don't like your current girlfriend very much, then choose the girl you like, and you should deal with the relationship with your current girlfriend before choosing a girl you like. I just hope that your handling will try to make both girls hurt as little as possible. <>

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Of course, it's a good girlfriend.,Because if you have a girlfriend, it means that this boy really loves his girlfriend.,Otherwise I wouldn't have chased her at the beginning.,It's really the nature of a boy to be excited by other girls.,Boys just see beautiful girls and they'll be moved.,And it's the kind that belongs to today's heartbeat is this tomorrow's heartbeat.,But heartbeat doesn't mean love.,But for girlfriends I really like it.。 So whether it's to follow morality or follow your heart, choosing a girlfriend is a wise choice, and I'll analyze the reasons below:

    First of all, if you choose this girlfriend, continue to stick to this love, from a moral point of view, it is right, because men should do this to the kind that is more upright, girlfriend is very good to this boy, which means that girlfriend really loves this boy, and boys who like their girlfriends so much should cherish it, and boys actually retain their love with girlfriends in their hearts, since they are truly in love, boys should choose to forget the girl who is heartbeat, because it is only a temporary throbbing, It's not as deep as the love for a girlfriend.

    Then, if this girl is chosen, the boy himself will definitely be morally criticized for failing a good girl who is so good to him, and betraying the love in his heart. In fact, a boy's heart for that girl is really not necessarily love, maybe he will regret it after getting along, and such a boy is attracted to this girl today, and then he is attracted to another girl when he is together, is he going to abandon this girl? It's too irrational to abandon your girlfriend because of your heartbeat.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Since this boy has a good girlfriend, what does he want to do, eating from the bowl and looking at the pot. Boys are always in turmoil if they can't get it, they always feel that what they can't get must be good, and they never cherish what they have now, if this boy has a girlfriend, and his girlfriend is very good to himself, and he goes to other girls, then this boy is really shameless. Since you like your girlfriend, don't hurt her, boys will forget after experiencing a relationship, girls are more delicate, she will not get out of the shadow of lovelorn at any time, and will be sad for a long, long time in a failed relationship.

    Cherish the person in front of you, this is what I want to say to this boy the most, do you know the consequences of stepping on two boats, if you love someone, take care of her wholeheartedly, to love her. If you like another girl when you love her and she loves you deeply, then you are so sorry for your girlfriend. Now you have a girlfriend you like but still want to fall in love with someone else, just imagine, if you break up with your girlfriend and go to be with the girl you crush on, this girl becomes your new girlfriend, and soon after, you find that you have a crush on a little girl again, she is more attractive, so you want to be with her again.

    Do you think such a boy will be happy? Since you love someone, you love her and give her happiness, why do you choose to be with you is that you think you can give her happiness, if you can't even do this, you don't have the right to be happy, have a good girlfriend, please cherish it, don't wait until you lose it and regret it, it's difficult to find her like this, and cherish it when you meet a good girlfriend.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you have a girlfriend, you will think about other girls, then you must choose the latter, which means that you definitely don't love the one in front as much as the one in the back, otherwise how would you like the girl in the back.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think it's good but not necessarily the most suitable for myself, if this guy is in love with other girls ambiguously, then I suggest you should do it and talk about it, this guy is distracted and not dedicated to love.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You should choose your girlfriend, the person you like is not necessarily with you, you have to cherish your girlfriend.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Guys who have girlfriends will also have a crush on other girls.

    Although at the beginning, the two people had a heart-warming feeling because of the freshness of the attraction, but for couples who have been in love for a long time, the heart-warming feeling has long disappeared.

    Because we already know each other's style of acting and tone of voice, you can basically think of the end when the other party says the beginning.

    So if we want to make the other party excited, the first thing is to maintain our own value and even add value to ourselves, so that the attraction will become stronger and stronger, and at the same time, in both sexes, the higher your value, the more willing the other party is to give in and obey.

    Phenylethylamine:

    Falling in love is actually caused by one of the most basic hormones, phenylethylamine (also known as PEA for short).

    PEA is a neurostimulant synthesized by the human body itself, which can make people feel a feeling of extreme excitement, this substance makes lovers feel like they are calling each other, and they are tireless in the process of romance, and it is the ** of confidence and courage.

    Whether it is love at first sight or long-term love, as long as enough PEA is generated in the mind, then the feeling of "calling" can be generated, but PEA will make people who fall in love temporarily ignore other factors other than love, and focus on love itself, so there are sayings such as "the lover's eyes are out of Xi Shi", "the IQ of a woman in love is zero" and so on.

    Typically the peak concentration of PEA can last anywhere from 6 months to 4 years, averaging less than 30 months.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If a guy has a girlfriend, will he still be attracted to other girls? It depends on the character of the boy, the kind of boy who is more attentive will definitely be attracted to other girls, and the more honest and consistent boy will not have such thoughts.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Yes, people's hearts are fickle, if there is no need for a certain emotion in the heart, just meet another person who can satisfy his heart, he will still be moved.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Probably not, this guy has a girlfriend, if he really likes this girl, he won't be attracted to other girls. However, some boys have girlfriends and will be attracted to other girls. This mainly depends on the boy's character.,Just have a good character.。。

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If a boy has a girlfriend, he may also be attracted to other girls, because some boys are the kind of boys who have big turnips, and they will build a favorite one, if he is talking about his girlfriend now, if he is not attractive enough to him, or they can't love his girlfriend wholeheartedly, then he may see other girls, and he will be tempted.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's possible. You must know that the result is likely to be separated, not to mention that it is just boyfriend and girlfriend, no one knows whether the two parties are suitable or not, in case it is not suitable, it is normal to be tempted by other people.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If a guy has a girlfriend, of course he will go to other girls. I've been with my girlfriend for a long time, and I'll get bored over time. will also be aesthetically tired, so of course he will be interested in other women, because. Such things abound.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If a guy has a girlfriend, will he still be attracted to other girls? Of course, unless the boy really loves you or likes you, he will. For some good-looking girls outside, it's normal to be tempted by this.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If a guy has a girlfriend and is in love, he will not be attracted to other girls, but if the boy is tired of his girlfriend, then he may also be interested in other girls.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If a boy has a girlfriend, he will not be attracted to other girls under normal circumstances, unless he sees a very beautiful **, very good, and very good girl, he may have a good impression of that girl, or at some point, he will have fantasies about her.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If it's a single-minded, relatively pure boy, it won't be tempting to other girls, if the relationship is very complicated, the kind of person who likes to see different ideas, it's entirely possible to be tempted by other girls. It depends on the person's character.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The guy already has a girlfriend, but if she meets a girl she likes, she may still feel excited.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Excessive hormone secretion during puberty, in fact, it is still possible to be tempted when you have a girlfriend and see other beautiful girls, which should be normal, but it is one thing to be excited, and it is another thing to act. If you can keep this excitement in your heart, it is normal to just look at other girls with an appreciative attitude.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Definitely, this is innate, everyone will have this kind of thought, there is no such thought, but some people will take action, and some people will not take action and will refrain from it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If it's a single-minded boy, he won't, because he will spend all his energy on his own girlfriend, and he won't provoke other girls, and this kind of boy is what girls want most.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If a guy has a girlfriend, will he act against other girls? Boys who can, whether they have girlfriends or not, will not be tempted by other girls.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    In fact, boys and girls are the same, even if there is a partner, they will be interested in other girls, because girls are also very attractive, and many boys are irresistible.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Yes, some guys don't just like one person. Even if you have a girlfriend.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Some boys and girlfriends have been together for a long time, and they will feel that there is no novelty, and when they meet different girls, they will feel that it is a heart-warming feeling.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    The boys are all the same, eating from the pot and looking at the bowl. Everyone has a love for beauty, love for beauty and motivation are different, he may have his own girlfriend, and one day he will feel that the house flower will never have the fragrance of wild flowers.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    No, boys already like someone, and they generally don't look down on other people, so boys won't be tempted by other people.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If a boy likes this girlfriend very much, depending on his degree, of course, it is also beneficial to the girl who is excited. But with other girls, it may still be a kind of heartbeat on the outside, but it doesn't mean that the heart is also excited.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    When he has someone he likes, he won't be tempted by others, because this has locked his heart, and he won't be tempted by others.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Yes, it's one thing to have a girlfriend, but it's another thing to see a beautiful woman tempted.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It should be in the hazy period of feelings, both liking and not liking.

    A boy is attracted to a girl, is this attraction between men and women, or is it a good feeling between friends? There is no certainty about feelings, so there are likes and dislikes in his feelings.

    If a boy likes a girl, he should want to protect her, take care of her, regard her as the only support in this life, always think of her, this is what love looks like, if it is really this feeling, you might as well make this feeling clearer and boldly confess.

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