What if there s a girl who treats me well, but I don t feel it? I couldn t bear to hear her cry

Then meet less!

Tell her early and don't delay her marriage.

I hate this kind of problem the most. It's a mistake for you to see her when you don't have feelings for her. If you really don't feel for her, don't meet in the future, gradually reduce contact until you don't contact, don't call** or text message.

Even if he comes to contact you, you have to pretend to be very busy, and hang up impatiently after saying a few words** or don't reply. One more question: if you didn't have her in your life, would you get used to it?

My ideal marriage is for two people who like each other to come together, although the odds are small, people's lives are short, who are not with the person they love? I may ruin a girl's happiness if I say this, but really don't be with someone because of pity, it's more cruel, time, distance, people will change a lot. You need to know exactly what you want.

If the other person has already shown that he has no feelings for you, there is no need for you to continue to insist, because emotional things are actually very much based on the first feeling.

To some extent, if someone else has made it clear that they don't have feelings for you, even if you can move the other person through some things and have some ways to keep two people together, the relationship between the two of you is always not stable enough, and the relationship in exchange for this is meaningless. I feel that instead of spending time with someone who has no feelings for you, you should pay more attention to yourself, and you also deserve a better life.

First, you can assess whether the two of you are suitable.

Under normal circumstances, if the two of you don't know each other, your so-called liking is not real. I suggest that you communicate further and build a deeper connection in this way. At the same time, you also need to assess whether the two people are really suitable, the other person may not be what he really is, and you don't have to give all your sincerity when you don't know a person.

Second, you can choose to give up decisively.

Based on what I said above, if a girl has no feelings for you at the beginning, even if you pursue it through various methods, the feelings themselves have no meaning. To some extent, a person's first impression of you determines whether the two of you can be together. There is no right or wrong relationship, and not everyone you have a crush on will like you.

3. You need to find the right person.

If you don't like the right person, no matter how hard you try, the other person's feelings for you will not change. I feel like you need to spend more energy and time on yourself, and you need to improve yourself to the fullest. At the same time, I believe that everyone will meet someone who is right for them, and there is no need for us to waste time on people who are not suitable for us.

You need to find someone who is right for you, and such a person doesn't need you to change yourself too much, because everything is a matter of course. <>

The boy chasing the girl has to chase and beat hard, stalking, trying every way to impress her, the more she comes out, she will definitely refuse, begging her to give you a chance, you will give her a chance, you will say: If you don't come out, I will wait for you downstairs for a night, a day, a week, a year, there must be hardships to move people's hearts! Give her some unexpected surprises, buy some flowers or dolls, don't give them to her directly, let someone else send them for you!

Don't write your name either, just ask someone else to write a blessing! She said she didn't feel anything with you, and she didn't say that it was impossible with you, don't be discouraged! Because she hasn't been in contact with you, she definitely doesn't have feelings with you!

If you like a girl, but she says she doesn't have feelings for you, then you try to change her opinion of you.

This is how two people are together, they have to like each other to get together. If one party doesn't have feelings for the other person, ask the reason and see what kind of boy the girl usually likes. You go and change for him. If you like someone, you have to change it for him.

Like a girl, but she says to you that she has no feelings for you, then it means that you are one-sided, liking this is just unrequited love, it is fruitless, so you should choose to give up to find another girl you like, so that the relationship between two people who like each other will be happy.

Women are often more emotional, and you can use your actions to influence her and boldly confess to her. If she still doesn't have feelings for you, the twisted melon is not sweet, giving up is the best choice, don't be discouraged, there will always be one of the many women in the world that belongs to you.

According to your description, you have emotional problems, you like a girl, don't like to talk, don't dare to confess to her, you can use actions to prove your love for her, usually give her more love, give him more help in life, usually read more social books, improve yourself, interpersonal skills and skills, I hope my advice will help you.

You can choose to continue chasing her, or you can choose to just let go and give up chasing this girl, but most of them should continue to chase well, if you give yourself a timeline of years, you say, alas, I'll chase him for a month, and if he doesn't agree, then don't chase it, of course, you have to see what response the girl gives you.

If a girl tells you that she doesn't have feelings for you, I personally think that if you really like this girl, you can uh care a little more about her or spend a little more time around him, maybe he will have feelings for you that day.

If you like a girl, but the girl says that she doesn't have feelings for you, it proves that the girl doesn't like you, he doesn't want to be with you, in this case, you rarely want to entangle with him anymore, find your own happiness.

According to what you said, maybe the type of girl he likes is not like you, but if you really like him very much, you can try to start with him as a friend, usually communicate with him more and help each other, and he may slowly find out your good for a long time, after all, this kind of thing is not urgent.

You like a girl, but he has no feelings for you, this situation is very normal, it doesn't mean that you like him he must like you, he doesn't like you, then you can only give up, you have worked hard and have been rejected, so first accept this fact according to you.

If this girl doesn't know how to appreciate you and doesn't know your advantages, it means that he is not the girl you are suitable for, you might as well give up as soon as possible to meet more girls, I believe you will meet the person who cherishes you.

Hello, there's nothing wrong with liking someone, there's nothing wrong with her disliking someone, you can try to communicate face-to-face, if you really don't have a future, give up, and then pursue your happiness.

I think you should give up because the subtext of the girl is that I don't like you, you don't have to waste your time.

Hello, it may be that she doesn't have a crush on you, you can try to socialize with her more, such as inviting her to dinner or watching a movie, walking with her, getting to know each other better to increase the relationship!

You like a girl, but he says he doesn't feel good for you, you can reply to him like this. But he can give you a chance to get to know each other better, and if he doesn't feel for you after getting to know you, then you won't bother him anymore.

Feelings can't be forced, since she doesn't feel for you, then don't force her in the near future, don't let him dislike you, be friends first, and develop slowly.

I think disliking you means you're not the type she likes, and if she doesn't have a crush on you at all, remember not to stalk! This trick is not reliable now, and it will only speed up the speed at which the other person hates you.

Not liking you means you're not the type she likes, and if she doesn't have a crush on you at all, remember not to stalk! This trick is not reliable now, and it will only speed up the speed at which the other person hates you.

If you are just pursuing this girl alone, but he doesn't have a good impression of you, I still advise you to give up as soon as possible, because this kind of girl, it is difficult for you to catch up, and you can also try to see if you can impress him from his hobbies.

My advice is that it's better to give up. Love is not something that can be done by one-sided individual effort, and it feels important. She said she didn't feel for you, but in fact she had already refused.

Emotional things are not rushed, take your time, and the feeling can be cultivated.

Isn't that a polite rejection to you? You go to work seriously, do a successful career, and have a certain economic foundation and network of contacts, at that time, worry about what kind of husband and why not have a wife.

Actually, it's not that the macro stool is sad!

It's pain! Everyone wants to become the center of this world, and hopes that the beauties around them are like clouds, and everyone cares about themselves!

But the question is, what will someone do if they don't care about you and don't get the care they deserve? And then care about you?!

Why do I care about you?! She's not charitable, so if she cares about you, what's the matter! And you, who have always cared about you, have not even said thank you, and have been immersed in the laughter of the stars holding the moon!

At this time, she woke up, even if she was reluctant to give up on you, she was ruthless, and decided to let herself go, no longer fight with herself, let herself live a little more comfortable, and slowly your distance will be farther and farther away from you!

Suddenly, you found that there was one less girl who cared about you, and you were anxiously looking for it, from the south to the north, from the east to the west, how to find it in the vast sea of people!

You are lost, you regret, you are guilty, you are uncomfortable, you smoke, you drink, you stay up late! Suddenly, one day, when you are drunk and hungover, you decide to go downstairs and walk, blowing the cool morning breeze, your head is slightly sober, and you want to take out a cigarette to smoke, and the wind blows! Smoke, blown to the ground by the wind!

You bend down to pick it up, and in the process you look up to find a pair of white sneakers standing in front of you!

That's her! You want to rush over and hug her!

But a man slowly came out behind her, holding a scarf and saying to her, wife, slow down, forget the scarf! I brought it to you, don't freeze!

You turn and leave ......

Quit smoking and drinking, and get ready to live your life!

So may I ask, are you sad? You belong to the moment that you don't cherish the moment, and regret it too late!

May there be lovers in the world who will eventually become married.

Don't be sad, the old doesn't go, the new doesn't come, she leaves you, it means that the heart is no longer with you, and it's useless to be entangled.

There is no emotion, turn off the phone for a few days, don't contact her to know what's going on, the matchmaker will ask you when the time comes, you can tell the matchmaker that it's not suitable, or just say it's okay, just say you don't want to delay her, you should look for it, you are not suitable.

Maybe I feel sorry for you, you are so good to her but still can't be with you, and I don't want to force myself. The little girl is psychological, endearing, so don't blame her.

It doesn't feel right, why cry? You forced her?