There is a very scheming girl around, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-04
6 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If this happens, the best thing to do is to cut ties completely. I had a scheming girl next to me, and I was upset when I heard her name.

    To be exact, she's a good friend of my boyfriend, and she's a bit like a confidante, and she talks about everything with her boyfriend, so I'm also sensitive to their relationship resistance.

    Originally, I thought I should be generous, my boyfriend and her are just good friends, if I make too much of a fuss, my boyfriend will definitely think I am vexatious, but what happened later made me unbearable.

    One night I hung out with my boyfriend, sitting in the car together and listening to ** chatting, this should be a very beautiful and warm world of two people, but the atmosphere was broken by a **.

    It was this girl who called, she told her boyfriend that the sewer in her house was blocked, and she couldn't open it after trying all kinds of methods, so she asked her boyfriend to help. She thought that her boyfriend was not with me at the time, so she repeated it many times to let him pass, and emphasized that there was no one else in the family but her.

    My boyfriend decisively refused after seeing my eyes, and then hung up**.

    It was half past ten in the evening, and I didn't give my boyfriend a good look, and asked her why she asked her boyfriend to go to the sewer for her in the middle of the night, and pretended to be so helpless, obviously with other plans.

    Her boyfriend said that because he used to help her through the sewers, he might have been looking for him habitually.

    I asked her again if she was single, and her boyfriend said she was in a relationship.

    At that time, I was unhappy, she went to find her boyfriend when the sewer was blocked, why did she come to my boyfriend, it was clearly a green tea who was weak and wanted to pick an opportunity when I was not there, and I was uneasy and kind.

    Later, when I was with my boyfriend, I never saw her message her boyfriend and call **. With less scheming girls around me, my heart is much more comfortable.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It doesn't matter, just don't ** for you, it's better than heartless vegetables! If you don't have a heart or lungs, you won't be able to worry, a family must have someone to worry about!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    To be a man, we must do the following: 1. Speak bluntly in person, be honest and relative, and although the words are ugly, they show sincerity.

    2. Sincere unity, accumulation of energy, high morale, infinite strength, can move mountains and reclaim the sea, and can fight the heavens and the earth.

    3. Sending charcoal in the snow can grasp the key points of the problem in time and alleviate the urgent need.

    4. Etiquette exchanges can communicate with each other, integrate into the group environment, and will not be forgotten.

    5. Understand the principles, compare the heart with the heart, and don't be self-respecting.

    When dealing with scheming people, we should be tolerant and understanding, guide them on the right path, and try to be friendly with each other.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Staying away is the best way to deal with it, how you get along with her, she will have other plans for you, and if you don't get along, you won't be deceived, so just stay away.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you face it with money, the problem that money can't solve is a big problem in life.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Hello! Of course, a scheming woman will not face it, and you can't control such a woman.

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