Urgent!!! My boyfriend s family is like this, I feel so wronged and heartbroken...

Everyone thinks about things from their own perspective and thinks that they are right, but they are not. I don't know your customs there, according to what I've seen, it's normal to give red envelopes when you meet for the first time, and etiquette things also mean that your parents are satisfied, so you will give red envelopes to your juniors as elders. You don't have to give a red envelope when you meet for the second time, you feel embarrassed to take someone's red envelope for the first time you meet, if you treat them as a family, you should accept the red envelope at that time, why bother with being wronged later.

These are not the point, the point is that you think that the man's family does not pay enough attention to your marriage, and whose family is not decorating this and buying that. Your conditions are better than his, you have that sense of superiority in your heart, my parents have never neglected me like this, and you have suffered such a great grievance, so you are so sad. There's also something wrong with what your boyfriend said:

I don't have the right to say anything. It's not about saying anything, it's the responsibility he has to bear as the biggest protagonist in the wedding, instead of letting his parents work over there for everything, his parents work hard there, and they pay for the money, what can you say!! Your boyfriend is too comfortable, and what the man has to do at his wedding is to take the initiative to participate, not act like a bystander.

Your boyfriend's attitude determines your happiness, and the main problem lies with your boyfriend. Again, although marriage is not all for you, but part of it is because you want to marry you, you don't want to be angry with their current behavior, men and women think very differently, he thinks right, you think it is wrong, at this time it is very important to find a good way to communicate. Don't be blinded by bad moods and wipe out all the previous sweetness.

I still want to be a happy bride.

It seems that your boyfriend should be a filial person, since his parents don't pay attention to you, then even if your parents agree to your marriage, you have to live in his house after all, can you guarantee that your boyfriend will contradict your parents for you, do you really like your boyfriend, you should calm down and think about this problem, don't be moved by his concern, every man is like this when he doesn't get you, this state won't last long, think about it carefully.

You girl, how can you say hello, you don't have a lot of experience, you should give a red envelope the first time you go, and you have to take it, how to deal with it is your own business, the second time you don't give it, how can you give it as soon as you go?

Every family has a different situation, and you should ask what the problem is, maybe your boyfriend's family can't afford it, so it's delayed.

But for you to say a word Whether your boyfriend wants to marry you I don't know Just from 3-10 7 months I don't believe it will not be possible Even if you build a house, it should be like I got married and the family only took about three months from knowing to doing things The family conditions are not too good But it is also very decent.

Marriage is a matter of two people, and if you accuse him of doing something bad at home, he must be uncomfortable, and you should be considerate, analyze it with him, and handle it well, so that it may be better.

However, you have to be more careful, and you haven't dealt with it well for more than half a year, and if the reason is right, then it's fine, if it's not right, what do you think it will be?

If you like it, you will receive everything, and slowly rely on two people to change, you choose him, you have to care about his career, or find a family by yourself, there are many problems in loving someone, instead of saying I love you, you love me, you can live a peaceful life, you have to think about whether he can bring you happiness after you marry him, is it the kind of life you want, if not, give up early... It's good for everyone.

The customs are different, right? Or is it their habit of giving the first time and not giving the second time? And the decoration thing, I personally really don't think it's necessary, but don't worry, if you really get married, you will definitely decorate, otherwise how can he look up at a relative's house?

And you have to be clear that in the future, you will live with your boyfriend, not with his parents for the rest of your life, and now be humble, and your boyfriend will feel this affection.

If you don't like it, pull it down, you have lived with your boyfriend, not with his parents.

The custom on my side is that I will only give red envelopes when I go the first time, and I will not give them the second time. I don't know what it's like on your side. The house has been installed for so long, probably because the family has no money, and it will definitely cost you a sum of money to marry you, so you should also be considerate of his worries.

Obviously the problem is with your family, judging by your description. I was not good at communication in the first place, but when I tried to change this problem, I finally told my heart to my family, but I didn't expect my family to tell the inappropriate person this inappropriate word, which is undoubtedly a heavy blow to your enthusiasm to enhance communication. You still have to say what you have in your heart, but you still need to find a reliable person, and you still need to communicate, so that you can make progress, the key is that the person you communicate with can solve your problems, can help you, or can give you some psychological comfort.

If your family can't understand your feelings, don't talk about big and small things to your family! Most of the time, they will exaggerate and hype, and nothing else will work! It's still up to you.

Because you have only been in work for half a year, I think you are so ambitious, and if you have an opinion, you will not tell the supervisor that you will only sue your parents like a little child, and I think that you like to sue the black, and if you don't explain it to the supervisor, it is easy to make trouble, and the society is not as good as the school, it is better to buy some good cigarettes and good alcohol to please him, which is to understand this point of human affection.

You think your family is safe, and I think so too. But then I found out that after I told them what I was talking to, they were like a loudspeaker! I just wanted to talk to them about those things.

Now I'm not going to say anything. It's just writing a private journal when there's nowhere to vent.

It is not difficult to be sophisticated, and the reason for this lies in people's hearts.

If it's close to home, bring your friends back to play!

The most painful thing is the section that hovers between letting go and not letting go. If you really make up your mind to give up, on the contrary, there will be a sense of relief.

Do you know that you are so distressed? Can you understand it? Why torture yourself? It's not like the sky is falling! Organize your mood and start your life again! Time will make you unforgettable.

Just broke up, naturally, it was very painful. Go out and travel, forget all the past, time will dilute everything.

Find a new relationship to forget the old one faster.

I've just broken up, and my heart hurts like I'm about to die. Tears are plentiful like water bursting the embankment. Why is this the result of our sincerity?

And the whole forest What's the hurry... Happy with Mingyou。。。

Oh yes, I don't feel it when you say that. Why don't you use the means to make me feel that you're not very good?

I've seen too many girls like you. Too naïve. Now that you have broken up, do you think your state is worthy of your husband who will be with you for the rest of your life? What about responsibility! Give points, thank you.

Do more of what you like, eat more of what you like to eat, communicate more feelings with friends, if this is not enough, think about the reason for the breakup, and then find a time to make an appointment, otherwise you will wait to be sad, haha.

People, especially women, must not take love too seriously, it is better to find a career and work hard to turn love into the spice of life

Give me your qqI'll appease you.

I feel like you have a feeling of being overwhelmed.

Stop loving, the world is cruel.

Find another boyfriend and transfer all your love for your ex-boyfriend to your new boyfriend.

When you are looking for someone who loves you, you won't think about him.

Let go of everything, find a technology you like more to learn, struggle, and strive to improve your value! There will be better people who will pursue you.

Find your hobbies to ease down, such as running, playing games, karaoke, or whatever.

Have a good talk with him and see if you can reconcile.

Beautiful sister bai, good morning, you said that you are very sad to fall out of love, this is actually a very normal thing, you don't want to hurt the specialty.

The heart is not normal, but the time is the best healing medicine, slowly you will come out of it, now what you have to do is to seriously do some other things or work that you are more interested in, in order to divert your attention, over time slowly you will not be sad anymore!

You should think of it this way, he doesn't care about you anymore, why should you care about someone who doesn't care about you? Wake up.

It's going to hurt, it's a process, it's okay, time dilutes everything, there's two sides to everything, look at the good side.

In today's society, the two words "reality", true love, love, are all empty words. It is not excluded that there are happy marriages that are united because of love, but it is undeniable that there are many people who sell their marriages for money, power, and profit. Let's talk about you and your boyfriend first, to be honest, I don't sympathize with you very much, is it worth it for you to worry about a man who uses a breakup to evade responsibility?

Because I feel that I can't give you happiness, I have no material, I want to break up, how many hurdles may not be able to get over in my future married life, and I have to escape every time? Or do you change the word breakup to divorce after you get married? All I can say is that he is not a responsible man.

What do men want? Be responsible, self-motivated, loving, ambitious, and faithful to your marriage. Do you think about what your boyfriend has?

Besides, the person you are satisfied with in your family, people only have a short period of more than 20,000 days in this life to be 80 years old, and we will take up half of the time when we sleep, how many days are we living for ourselves in the only more than 10,000 days? The reality is cruel, we have responsibilities when we grow up, I believe that if you don't rely on this man, you can also give your parents a satisfactory old age, why force yourself? After all, this is the happiness of the rest of your life, no one can influence your decisions, and the person responsible for the rest of your life is no one else, but yourself.

If there is no emotion and only gratitude, I don't think the thinking of the 21st century will still be so corrupt, right? I only approve of you choosing the life you want to live, but I must remind you that if your boyfriend is still not motivated and will only complain about himself, the reason for your quarrel will never change, and the pain will follow you. There is no reason for love, but ask your heart, if you choose your boyfriend and quarrel in the future, for the same question, won't you be tired?

And for the sake of your parents, choose that man, will you be happy for the rest of your life? In a nutshell, would you be willing to live a life of ice with that person for the rest of your life? For that person to have children?

Housekeeping? Are you willing? Actually, you have the answer in your heart, it's just that you want to be supported by others, right?

But the boyfriend in your mouth, in words that are responsible for you, is not your true son, because he does not know how to take on the responsibilities and obligations of a man, but as long as it is what you want, you should work hard to fight for it, not compromise because of others! The road is your own, you have to rely on your own walking, others can't control it, so as long as you have a decision, you must be responsible for your own decision, and there is no regret medicine ...... the world

There is nothing in the world, and mediocrity disturbs itself. Ask yourself if you believe in true love.

That's a short answer. If you don't think it's possible to contact your previous boyfriend, don't contact you at all, your love is dead and alive because you both know you're going to lose, and when you get together again, there will definitely be another quarrel before, because you haven't solved the reason for your breakup, right? The latter, since you broke up with the previous one, it must be normal to contact the others, but never use your parents as an excuse, because happiness is in your own hands.

Feelings can also be cultivated. The key is to be attentive.

When a man is the most painful and difficult, accompany him to the past, and I believe that he will be very good to you in the future.

Hey, I'm like the boyfriend you talked about inside. People are like this, when no one robs it, there is nothing, and when someone robs it, all strange things come out. You don't have to think about anything now.,It's very good to let your boyfriend baptize like this every day without collapsing.。。。

Tell your boyfriend! Let everyone calm down for a while. If you and your boyfriend's essential problem is the economic base, give him a time limit to make some achievements.

If your boyfriend still hasn't changed and plays the emotional card with you every day, it really won't be interesting. As for the one introduced by the family, let's just socialize as an ordinary friend. This can also give parents an explanation.

At the moment, your mind and life are in a mess, and you must calm yourself down first.

Oh my God, my glasses are swollen.

Don't you know how to shorthand so long how to look at it is not to the point.

Try to talk to your parents first. Say what you really want.

When he says it, don't you know what to expect when you talk about friends again? When we don't say the word 'sleep', maybe you feel better, and in turn he says that you can't accept it after living together! Actually, I said so much, I don't know, do you understand!

No one knows if you'll make it to the end, I mean, for example, if you're separated, will your next successor not be relieved to hear you say that? So now the society is very open, just treat it with a normal heart, and two people working together is better than anything else.