Should I ask for money to buy something for someone I once liked?

Updated on society 2024-05-24
43 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You deleted people's QQ This kind of behavior shouldn't happen to a man, how long have you been with her, and you haven't decided on the relationship. Two people often go their separate ways or even cut off contact after arguing over something not big or small. But after that, the two people looked at the quarrel differently.

    Just like you, maybe you think you're right, and you just walk as you should. She may know that she is wrong, but she can't undo it, so she can only try to walk in with you.

    Of course, you also said that it is impossible to be with her again, so you can give her something when you make it clear to her, for example: this thing will be given to you, the previous thing was "me" bad or something, I am busy abroad, I rarely come back, I hope you can live a better life, etc., so don't say it too clearly and vaguely. First, you have done it in person, and secondly, you have left her a good thought that you are a good person.

    Hope it helps.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Send it and send it, how open women are now

    You don't even need to say anything to know what's going on

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    No matter how big the face is, it's no more than a skin, it's a big deal to tear it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Send it away, if you ask for money, that's the most shameless.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It doesn't matter, it depends on your mood. We can't fully understand your relationship, relationships are delicate, a look, a word can go wrong. Think for yourself. It's not valuable, and it's almost the same as not giving it. Don't get tangled up and ask for trouble!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you buy it, you will give it away, it doesn't matter if the money is not money, you don't care about the money, what face do you want?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It depends on what you buy, if you don't spend much money on the things you buy, you will look stingy when you collect the money, if the things you buy cost a lot of money, and she asked you to buy them for her, the money must be recovered. Besides, even if you don't take it, she should give it to you. Also, if you are the kind of person who silently guards her and does not ask for anything in return, then you can do it yourself.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Forget about small money, but you can collect more than 10,000 yuan for big money.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I despise you if you need money to buy something for the girl you like, and besides, if you want to buy it from others, is it a problem for the girl to accept it? I saw that the question you asked hurt my eggs.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Buy things for women and don't ask for them anymore for a small amount of money.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's not a waste of words, you can't ask for it if you have the ability, but if you don't have it, you can't do it, just do your best.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You can use the money you have saved to buy her things.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    A colleague's words are not boyfriend and girlfriend, and it is natural to give money, so there is nothing to be embarrassed about, if you don't accept it politely, people will feel that they owe a favor, and they will be more embarrassed than you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Absolutely! It's not like you said you were going to buy it for him. If you want it, it's a normal colleague relationship, and you don't want people to be embarrassed.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's nothing, it should be, forget about the past, and when you encounter this situation in the future, say a kind word, forget it, in fact, people will definitely give it to you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Nothing was a problem. This is a normal relationship. But if you don't, people will generally thank you and deepen friendships;

    If you ask for it, there's no problem.

    So there is no need to dwell on these issues.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It is true that he will pay you back if you buy something for someone, but if the relationship is really good and it doesn't cost much, you can not take his money and buy it for him.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It will definitely cost her money to buy something, or you can say that this thing should be given to you, then you don't need money. But the girl who chases with money is not good! The watchtower lord adopted.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's another friend who can talk to each other, don't be so stingy, what's the matter with inviting someone to drink a cup of milk tea, just a few dollars. I don't think he will let you ask for it, if he gives you money, please say no, please invite me next time.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If it's not very expensive, then give it as a gift. If it's more expensive, it's better to take it politely. In this way, your future communication will be more normal.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If it's a few dozen cheaper things, I'll give it to her.

    If it's hundreds, it's still going to be.

    Or joke with her that it would be good to invite you to dinner next time, and you don't have to give money.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    She has a good impression of you, and if you have a lot of money, you will take it, and if you should confess, you will regret it if you miss the opportunity.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    In this case, it is better to do so.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Of course I don't accept it, I'm a woman, recently a boy is chasing me, I asked him to order takeout, and he paid back the money with 100, 50, but although he asked him to pay back his money, I don't want to owe him, but after he really took it, I really felt a little stingy in my heart, that is, I felt that he was chasing me, shouldn't the boy be generous and not accept it, because the boys who chased me before were like this. But I don't have any thoughts about him, so I don't want to owe him.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I think from her point of view, you should accept the money, after all, you are not boyfriend and girlfriend at the moment, she asked you to help her buy things because she treated you as a simple friend, without considering that you would not take her money, if she had considered this problem before, she would not let you buy it, so you don't have to think about the problem too complicated, accept her money. In this way, first, she will not feel embarrassed and embarrassed, and second, you can sincerely buy a gift that you think is good for her, which is both new and sincere, and she will be more moved. Make a suggestion, when you give a gift yourself, the gift must be able to touch the girl's heart, and you can see the hard work you have paid, girls are emotional, once touched, it is easier to catch up, come on....

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you don't accept it, if you have to give it, just say that it should be a gift for you. And I'm excited to give you what you need as a gift. If you have a rare opportunity, you will fulfill me.

    I don't understand the style of your direct speech, you can add something else, think about it and then tell her, hehe.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You tell him you like him.

    Be your girlfriend so he doesn't give you money.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Emotional intelligence is too low, tell him to invite you to dinner and watch a movie, and he will definitely agree.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    No, if she insists, you take the money, but ask her to have a meal with you.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If she insists on giving it to you, you will accept it, and after accepting it, invite her to dinner. Stupid, won't chase girls.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you really don't want to go, take half of it.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Since he doesn't want to owe you, then you'd better take it, and take your time Don't rush.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    The care between friends, he is not good, the favor is the most difficult to owe, it is difficult to pay back if you owe, pick it out, don't want money, don't come to buy, don't want things, he has the heart to confess, the right choice of what he cares about, don't be impulsive and moved to destroy his original happy moment. Feelings are wonderful, and resolution is the most important. Seek adoption.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    When you give him something, you can directly say how much the product is, how much is the shipping cost, and how much money you save compared to buying it locally.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    You can tell him when you buy it, you don't have enough money on Alipay, or you can find some reason. When you receive something, you can only ask him directly, and your brother should have nothing to say. Hehe.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    You just say you don't have any money to spend.

    When you go to work, you say that you want to go to the courtesy.

    When I went to school, I said I would go out to party with my classmates.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Then you go to see a price about the same, ask your brother to buy, it should be understood by people, hehe, I hope it can help you, hehe, everyone will encounter this situation in real life, don't worry too much.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    When you give something, you directly say how much it is, and the brother will settle the account.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    It can be said that you don't have enough money for Alipay, so you have to pay it back to a friend.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Not necessarily, it depends on what it is, if it's a more expensive thing, she doesn't want your money, then it may like you, if it's a cheaper thing, you don't have to think about it, maybe it's just embarrassed to take your money, but it's too many times, she always doesn't want your money, and she's happy to buy it for you, then she definitely likes you.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Not necessarily. Just because a girl buys something for you and then doesn't want money doesn't necessarily mean she likes you. It may just be a way she behaves, or because she feels it's a way to be polite or grateful.

    If you are interested in this girl, the best way is to communicate directly with her and understand her thoughts and feelings. If you are suspicious of her, try asking her why she buys for you without taking your money to understand her motives and ideas.

    Most importantly, don't speculate too much or assume the meaning behind her actions, as this may leave you with unnecessary misunderstandings and anxiety.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Not necessarily, maybe I like you. It depends on the value of the number of times you buy something, and whether she often likes to be with you, chatting, playing, etc. Laughing at you or something. Some girls buy you things and don't need money, they are pure friendship, they like you, and treat you as a brother or a good friend.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Dear, this is a lot of thinking, do you like that person if you help people buy things and don't need money? Why don't you understand it as a generous pinch, friend.

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