Fragile and tired of school, isolated, and not in good relationships.

Updated on educate 2024-05-24
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    First of all, college is different from high school. I'm a junior now, and I'm graduating soon, so I can say it's your senior sister, hehe. I've had your problem before.

    You should know that friends in college aren't as close as they are in high school. Because in the end you will be competitors, so you have to be clear about accepting this fact. I also don't like to go to class.

    In class, I listen to songs and play on my mobile phone, and everyone is like this. But you're just a freshman, don't get into a complete fight with your roommates. After all, a dormitory has to live together for several years.

    Take the initiative to fetch water for them When you go to dinner, ask them if they want to bring food. They can't ignore you all the time. It's really not possible to change dormitories.

    Find people who are easy to get along with, and class life is more fun than yourself. Remember that humans are social animals. Don't make your otherwise happy college life so painful with small problems.

    You should have been very happy in your freshman and sophomore years until you graduate from your junior year and face an internship, you will find that people are still divided into you and me, of course, this is all later. One of my usually very good sisters revealed her essence when she graduated from her junior year, and everyone was selfish. After all, work is something that either you do or I do.

    The competition is a little more open-minded. Anyway, it doesn't matter if you graduate, you just have to get by. But when you are a freshman or sophomore, you still get along well with everyone, otherwise you will find it very difficult.

    After all, it's been two years.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Bear with me! People will always have this reaction at a time. But if everyone isolates you, then you have to think about whether you have some problems.

    You have to open your heart, face up to your mistakes, find out why you don't want to learn, why people isolate you, in fact, the underlying you are afraid of something, or you are thinking that you are panicking. I suggest that you find a diary to write in, buy one with a lock, don't be afraid of others peeking at, and write all the secrets into it. Also, you have to work hard to help more people, only when the teachers approve of you and everyone cares about you, you will feel better, and you will not have the idea of suicide.

    If possible, I recommend that you see a counselor.

    You see, with so many people actively helping you, shouldn't you be happier?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Well, your problem is not very serious, you need friends, so you have to pay attention to making more friends, usually go out to play more, scatter, you are tired of studying, it is also a reason, find the real reason, there are many ways to learn, if you don't like it, you can change the way, campus learning is just a way to adapt to life, but it is not the only one.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Go check it out and get professional counseling.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Watch a few inspirational movies, or watch events in the news, and you will find that life is actually very happy! Communicate with others!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Think about what you're not doing well and try to improve. Think about the good memories and happiness you have, if you die, then the people who love you will lose you. Can you bear to make them sad?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Learn to be strong! People will inevitably have setbacks, so why live to satisfy everyone? When you are isolated by everyone, you should reflect more.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Why the pain. Attitude determines everything, why can't I hold on, I haven't committed suicide after experiencing my wife's betrayal, there is nothing in life, as long as the hurdle has passed, English university graduation requirements level 6, four years is really not much, it's all time, since the pain is better to cheer up, think about what else is worth remembering, life, parents, brothers and sisters,

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The key is to have a strong heart, but also to establish a lofty goal, and all around you are small things! Also, find someone by your side who can talk to you! Take your time and let everyone know about you!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Live is to live for others to see! It's for yourself! If you don't think well of yourself, others will look down on you even more!

    Don't blame anyone else for everything! If you want to live, live a little more exciting! They isolate you!

    Why are you going around them? Let them revolve around you! Life is not your own!

    It's family's! It's the parents' thing! Suicide is not the solution!

    It's more important than anything else to live well!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Being isolated and disgusted with school by classmates is a very bad situation, which can bring psychological pressure and negative effects to people. Here are some ways to cope:

    2.Find a supportive hu: Try to build relationships with some of your classmates who are willing to support you, and find people you can study with and talk to.

    3.Discover hobbies: Try to discover your hobbies and join clubs or groups so you can meet people who share your hobbies.

    4.Look at yourself in a positive light: Don't focus too much on what others think, but learn to affirm your worth and strengths, try to do something fun to make yourself feel happy and confident.

    5.Seek professional help: If you feel the need for it, you can seek help from your school's counsellor or other professional organization to deal with your problems.

    6.Parents' accompaniment: Tell parents about your situation, listen to their suggestions and support, parents can give the right guidance and helpful suggestions to help you adapt to school life.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Applaud the classmates more, and let the classmates learn to report to the class teacher to expel those students.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Involute and turn yourself into a top student.

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If it were me, I would first find my own reason, why I wanted to isolate myself, and of course if it was my roommate's reason, I wouldn't have ignored it, because he isolated himself versus isolated him. I'm not the only one who suffers, he's the same. Of course, the best choice, I will still communicate with him, after all, I don't see you when I look up, and it's not good to always have conflicts.